Pepper Young

In my little backwater, the rate for an hour is still at $300. I hate to negotiate with these guys, but if I start getting requests for $400+, I'll just jack off and call it a day. 

Think I'll pass on this one. But as my dad always said, there's an ass for every seat.

Think I'll pass on this one. But as my dad always said, there's an ass for every seat.

My favorite in Seattle is Marco. https://rentmen.eu/MagicSEA. He’s versatile pro and a good guy. I’m met up with him three times and look forward to a fourth visit. - Here’s a guy I’ve met twice and enjoyed his skills as a bottom. https://rentmen.eu/PacificBoyXLHe’s not a muscled athletic stud; more of a lean mountain hiker and a nice guy. - -https://rentmen.eu/SeaJock is a good bottom and I enjoyed my two hours with him earlier this year. - - This guy gets good reviews and he’s a stud bottom. I haven’t met him yet, but we’ve communicated and I’m impressed. https://rentmen.eu/ChaseTheJock   

The bulk of the profiles on Mintboys are fake, although a handful are real. I do not get the point of the site’s existence. 🤷🏻‍♂️

I oddly get turned on by watching a hot muscular dude taking a power dump. I have no interest in seeing what comes out (not into scat), I just get into watching him grimace and grunt his way through it and hearing the plopping sounds and gas. I’ve actually requested a few custom vids from really hot guys doing this - they seemed pretty cool about my odd fetish. 

I'm still reluctant to pay over $300/hr no matter who it is.

Yummy prime beef, y'all.

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Ok, here's my improvement: in the 22 years I've been escorting the industry has not supported my raising my rates, not once. I charged $XXX/hour in 1999 and I charge the same $XXX in 2021, and I could not realistically charge more, nor could I have charged more in say 2009.
 
However, West side Lawyers charged $350/hr in 1999 and are charging around $800 or even $1000/hour now. I don't want to charge $1000/hour, but the fact that male escorts are basically locked in to charging the same rates for the last 22 years, indicates that we are under-appreciated, even though OF COURSE I know we are greatly appreciated.
 
The improvement I want? I want male escorts to be paid more. Not the same as female escorts, which these days are, what, $500/hour? more? but more than we were in 1999, that would be nice. But I can't bitch, I'm doing fine. Or I was before the pandemic.
 
Other Improvements? I guess I wish more explicit reviews returned, though I understand why they can't.
 
I've never had problems with clients not showing up, or rather it's happened so rarely I won't complain.
 
I think RentMen is basically a good site. I know people complain, but I'm just grateful they don't charge RentBoy prices and that RentMasseur doesn't charge MassageM4M prices, so no complaints there.
 
Legalizing it SOUNDS like a good idea, I'm just afraid that might make it more likely my family and friends might find out, and they would not understand.
 
I was resistant to Venmo/Zelle years ago, and in fact lost a client as a result, but I bitch about it less these days. I prefer cash, I also realize that we are moving away from cash.
 
I'm sure other improvements will come to me the moment I hit "post reply". :-)

In a word: Yummy.

I spent $700 for about 5 hours of "companionship." No plans on doing that again.

This is one of the smartest, most thoughtful threads I've ever read on this forum. I've given more "thumbs up" than I ever have on any single discussion. Let me say, no, there is nothing wrong with two mature, sober, consenting adults meeting for their mutual enjoyment and benefit. Over the years, I've hired dozens of guys. Most of them I found to be mature, smart guys who knew what they were doing, did it well and decided that sex work was their calling in life. Yes, there are avenues of abuse on both sides. Yes, some guys aren't as advertised. But it can also be an uplifting and pleasant break from the grind of todays life in the US. If only for an hour.

This is one of the smartest, most thoughtful threads I've ever read on this forum. I've given more "thumbs up" than I ever have on any single discussion. Let me say, no, there is nothing wrong with two mature, sober, consenting adults meeting for their mutual enjoyment and benefit. Over the years, I've hired dozens of guys. Most of them I found to be mature, smart guys who knew what they were doing, did it well and decided that sex work was their calling in life. Yes, there are avenues of abuse on both sides. Yes, some guys aren't as advertised. But it can also be an uplifting and pleasant break from the grind of todays life in the US. If only for an hour.

The golden age wasn't because of a city or location.
 
It was because at that point the internet and social media hadn't yet ruined a generation's ability to communicate like normal people.
 
This was also back when escorts cared enough to give themselves full names and maintain actual personalities.

This is one of the smartest, most thoughtful threads I've ever read on this forum. I've given more "thumbs up" than I ever have on any single discussion. Let me say, no, there is nothing wrong with two mature, sober, consenting adults meeting for their mutual enjoyment and benefit. Over the years, I've hired dozens of guys. Most of them I found to be mature, smart guys who knew what they were doing, did it well and decided that sex work was their calling in life. Yes, there are avenues of abuse on both sides. Yes, some guys aren't as advertised. But it can also be an uplifting and pleasant break from the grind of todays life in the US. If only for an hour.

This is one of the smartest, most thoughtful threads I've ever read on this forum. I've given more "thumbs up" than I ever have on any single discussion. Let me say, no, there is nothing wrong with two mature, sober, consenting adults meeting for their mutual enjoyment and benefit. Over the years, I've hired dozens of guys. Most of them I found to be mature, smart guys who knew what they were doing, did it well and decided that sex work was their calling in life. Yes, there are avenues of abuse on both sides. Yes, some guys aren't as advertised. But it can also be an uplifting and pleasant break from the grind of todays life in the US. If only for an hour.

This is one of the smartest, most thoughtful threads I've ever read on this forum. I've given more "thumbs up" than I ever have on any single discussion. Let me say, no, there is nothing wrong with two mature, sober, consenting adults meeting for their mutual enjoyment and benefit. Over the years, I've hired dozens of guys. Most of them I found to be mature, smart guys who knew what they were doing, did it well and decided that sex work was their calling in life. Yes, there are avenues of abuse on both sides. Yes, some guys aren't as advertised. But it can also be an uplifting and pleasant break from the grind of todays life in the US. If only for an hour.

This is one of the smartest, most thoughtful threads I've ever read on this forum. I've given more "thumbs up" than I ever have on any single discussion. Let me say, no, there is nothing wrong with two mature, sober, consenting adults meeting for their mutual enjoyment and benefit. Over the years, I've hired dozens of guys. Most of them I found to be mature, smart guys who knew what they were doing, did it well and decided that sex work was their calling in life. Yes, there are avenues of abuse on both sides. Yes, some guys aren't as advertised. But it can also be an uplifting and pleasant break from the grind of todays life in the US. If only for an hour.

It bothers just a little, but I feel like I have no choice. I am originally from a very homophobic country and when I moved to the US, I decided I am not gonna live my life with any regret. Of course, I did use the hookup apps with the intention of easy access to sex and body contact. After a while, it just became exhausting. Also, the level of rejection became more and more; not to mention, it was the same faces I was seeing everytime, all of whom I suspect were looking for a unicorn. Thats when I decided, I would start supplementing companionship's using RM.
 
The predictable nature of it is what I find beneficial. I've had hookups from Scruff, A4A and Grindr that turned out to be disastrous. In late 2019, I started using Sniffies as another avenue for easy sex. It was just as depressing as the dedicated apps. I had one hookup with a guy I had my eye on when I moved here and it was great. Ever, since, its been a dead end on the apps.
 
Last December, I made the tough decision to delete all the hookup apps and I honestly feel good. They are no longer time sucks in my life. If I'm horny, I spend a few hours edging to porn (which is a lot of work just finding desireable videos because Only Fans has turned the industry upside down).
 
As someone in this thread mentioned, these days I am window shopping mostly. There was a good opportunity, but everything fell apart on hosting.
 
To wrap this up, I have suffered for most of my life not being able to express my sexual identity (I'm still not out to my family), and I believe I sacrificed so much because of it. To be able to find someone who is willing to spend time with you and be intimate, is in some way powerful, sexy and erotic. Doing that with no strings attached is hugely beneficial. If you both click, even better, you can always meet again.

Until about 2017 I had often felt shame and guilt around the hobby. My regular guy with whom I was very close died tragically. Shortly after his mother called me and asked to meet. I was mortified but agreed to go to lunch with her, and her two other kids. She said she had to know this part of his life.
 
At lunch, she opened up with something along the lines of “I know you gave my son a lot of money. I don’t care to know why. We know that it allowed him to live his best life and focus 110% on his sobriety over the past 18 months and we realize we have you to thank for helping him stay clean.”
 
She made it clear that she knew that he was going to sell his body anyway. He could do it from a place of desperation to fuel a drug addiction (as he had in his past), or from a sober place to make money to support a healthy life. She believed that whatever relationship we had helped him make the choice to live sober. She was right.
 
That lunch totally changed my perspective on hiring and any feelings of guilt or shame I had around the hobby.
 
Since then, I spoke about this man, and the origins of our transactional relationship to close friends and family and it helped with the immense grief I was feeling. Until that point, they didn’t understand why I was grieving a man I’d never spoken of or introduced them to. It made us all closer. It also opened the door to “well actually, I’ve never told anyone this, but once in Vegas, or once when I was visiting Asia....”.
 
It opened me up to participating at this forum, meeting other clients, sharing stories on the Adonis Friday night events etc. To take it a little further, all of my gay friends know that I hire, most of the straight ones, and most importantly my husband.
 
The place I host these boys is on a very public highway in my small town. My gay friends will often text during a session because they see a car that they don’t recognize and then want all the details. Dishing afterwards, guilt and shame free, has ALMOST become more fun than the actual time spent with a hot human. Almost.

Several of my friends, gay and straight, know that I engage in this hobby. A few are quite interested in it and always want to know all the details of my experiences. I feel it's good that I don't have to lie or hide it from them.

If you ask an escort out, you pay for everything: dinner, his time while at dinner, hotel, his ride share (if necessary) or parking (if necessary). They payoff for you is a few hours with a charming, handsome man and of course, he provides dessert.

When I get serious about hiring, I look for >>>


At least 5+ photos, one showing a clear face pic


Reviews, preferably one or more in the past couple months (someone working a year plus with no reviews is a red flag)


Review ratings greater than 4.75 (you can't please 'em all!)


Careful reading of his "I am into" section on RM (are you into it too?)


Name search on this forum


Look up area code on his contact number (just curious)
There are other factors like size, cut/uncut, looks, that are totally subjective (beauty's where you find it), but those are my mechanics when hiring.