Pepper Young

Thanks everyone. This was an interesting read.
I had a falling out with the main beneficiary of my will, which leaves me in a pickle. I'm an only child, have no children of my own and am not in any type of romantic relationship. I do have cousins that are alive and well, but have not seen, talked to or heard from in many, many years. So fuck them.
I got a basic outline of who I want the new beneficiaries (charities) to be but who will execute this plan? I have one close friend, but alas, she is near 80 and I expect to outlive her. I'm reluctant to ask another friend but I guess I could. Of course my plan is to die broke but I'm not sure how to execute that either. So decisions, decisions. My lawyer and I have long intimate conversations where we look deep into each other's eyes as he racks up $150/hour.  

Picking a family member as executor should be as carefully done as anything else. Most people automatically choose a sibling or an adult child for the role, but I didn't have that option, since I had no siblings, and mine was a childless same-sex marriage. As an only child, my only relations in my generation were multiple cousins, but only two of them are still alive, both much younger females whom I haven't even seen in this century. However, my spouse had two surviving younger brothers, both of whom I had known and been friendly with since they were young men. The older one, who is also gay and has a law degree, might seem like the logical choice on paper, but he is my age, has a history of medical problems, and lives 3000 miles away from me; he probably wouldn't be able to take care of anything that needs to be done in person, especially if I live a lot longer. The youngest brother lives only half as far away from me and is accustomed to make visits; he also has a daughter who is a lawyer and is willing to be a back-up executor for her father. So although I feel less close to him emotionally, he was the better choice.
But no matter how well you think you know the family member and you think he/she knows you, before making the will, one should have a long talk with the potential executor, making sure he/she is aware of all the duties and expectations in your specific situation, and is willing and able to perform them.

I've seen 'movies' where they really enjoy it, but I wasn't really paying attention to her

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Guess I'll go first, tho I haven't been hiring anyone new for a long time but my current fav is
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I'll give you my perspective from a client's POV.
While you may think it's about you, it isn't. You're there for the client so write an ad that's about what you can do for them. 
Recent good quality, clear photos. Face photos, some nudes. You don't have to be a 10. There's someone for everyone.
Give out a phone number for texting. I find it frustrating when the only way to contact is through a message board. Learn to block numbers on your phone. Don't put up with pic collectors and endless back and forth.
Truth in advertising: Be honest about your health status, age, size, etc., so there's no surprises when the client opens the door. 
Save your money. Eventually you'll either grow tried of the crap that comes along with this profession, or age out. Have a plan.
Congratulations on what I hope is a fulling and lucrative career. 

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I'll give you my perspective from a client's POV.
While you may think it's about you, it isn't. You're there for the client so write an ad that's about what you can do for them. 
Recent good quality, clear photos. Face photos, some nudes. You don't have to be a 10. There's someone for everyone.
Give out a phone number for texting. I find it frustrating when the only way to contact is through a message board. Learn to block numbers on your phone. Don't put up with pic collectors and endless back and forth.
Truth in advertising: Be honest about your health status, age, size, etc., so there's no surprises when the client opens the door. 
Save your money. Eventually you'll either grow tried of the crap that comes along with this profession, or age out. Have a plan.
Congratulations on what I hope is a fulling and lucrative career. 

I've read a few escort memoirs and always find them fascinating. I can't wait to read yours. 

I'll give you my perspective from a client's POV.
While you may think it's about you, it isn't. You're there for the client so write an ad that's about what you can do for them. 
Recent good quality, clear photos. Face photos, some nudes. You don't have to be a 10. There's someone for everyone.
Give out a phone number for texting. I find it frustrating when the only way to contact is through a message board. Learn to block numbers on your phone. Don't put up with pic collectors and endless back and forth.
Truth in advertising: Be honest about your health status, age, size, etc., so there's no surprises when the client opens the door. 
Save your money. Eventually you'll either grow tried of the crap that comes along with this profession, or age out. Have a plan.
Congratulations on what I hope is a fulling and lucrative career. 

I've read a few escort memoirs and always find them fascinating. I can't wait to read yours. 

Four posts and one massive conspiracy theory. 
Any proof for that claim?
Vice doesn't want clients. They never have. They go after street trade and the guys they see as also pushing drugs or pimping others.

for your safety I think its best you don't go back or interact with this guy. 

Whenever I come across someone with an exceptionally high rate, I think: My, someone thinks well of themselves! 

Let's not overthink this. Hot twins. Jeez, what's not to like? I would hire these guys in a minute. 

Let's not overthink this. Hot twins. Jeez, what's not to like? I would hire these guys in a minute. 

That’s not a "rack rate", that’s robbery.
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Exaxtly.
The bias against incest is only about heterosexuals who risk producing deformed babies. Gay twins can fuck each other's brains out with no worries. 
 

But it is indeed fascinating to hear at what people living in glass houses choose to cast their stones when the other choices floating around in the foreground include the "unappealingness" of capitalism, homosexuality, unequal power dynamics, sex trafficking, false disclosure of health status, poverty, high cost of higher education, lack of basic income programs, body dysmorphic disorder, abuse of plastic surgery, steroid abuse, drug abuse...

Commenting on the part of your post that I bolded, I'm always perplexed when I come across ads like that. I mean, even if a guy is looking for extremely wealthy clients do those clients want someone who's more focused on getting material things versus what they can provide to the client?  I would think not unless the client wants to be "dominated" financially.  How many clients are into fin-dom?

You guys are going to hate me, but I love hiring porn star escorts. I've hired several well known guys. Why? Bragging rights. I can say to my friends, yup, I have sex with porn stars. And yes, they are just regular guys. 

You guys are going to hate me, but I love hiring porn star escorts. I've hired several well known guys. Why? Bragging rights. I can say to my friends, yup, I have sex with porn stars. And yes, they are just regular guys. 

Red flags:
Poorly written ads: bad grammar and spelling, too much slang, it's all about them and their desire for luxury goods and/or money.
Photos: None or just a few. Poor quality. Obviously dated. No dick pics.
Poor reviews: Reviews by other clients that average less than 4.7. 
Vibe: Desperation. Not sexy.

You guys are going to hate me, but I love hiring porn star escorts. I've hired several well known guys. Why? Bragging rights. I can say to my friends, yup, I have sex with porn stars. And yes, they are just regular guys.