Vetting Escorts

[jtwalker]

Aside from the obvious physical attributes, how do you vet escorts to ensure they are legit and worth the investment? For example, do you look for reviews, ratings, listings on certain sites, etc...

[Maximiliam]

Aside from the obvious physical attributes, how do you vet escorts to ensure they are legit and worth the investment? For example, do you look for reviews, ratings, listings on certain sites, etc...

Me based on the information they write on their profile, reviews and the conversations we be having tell me if they are worth it ?. And also trust your gut

[KeepItReal]

Aside from the obvious physical attributes, how do you vet escorts to ensure they are legit and worth the investment? For example, do you look for reviews, ratings, listings on certain sites, etc...

The response I get when I reach out to the escort via text message is super important to me. If I don't like the way they respond or if they are rude etc, I walk away. Escorts that are not well known/reviewed will have to agree to meet me in a public place beforehand so I can feel them out, so to speak.

[+ keroscenefire]

Using this forum is a great idea. I found chatter about a couple men I was thinking about. One of them had better chatter than the other so I went with that guy.

 

But yeah, sometimes you have to use your gut. I've met guys who were brand new with no reviews and they ended up working out. I do like to meet guys in public in person if I have any questions.

[big-n-tall]

Besides whether I find them generally attractive, yes, reviews, the forum, and how they respond to my inquiries is how I vet potential hires. If there are no reviews or info on the forum, then I rely solely on their responses to contact. I have been generally good at picking good to great hires by our pre-meet interaction.

[jtwalker]

I have really hesitated to meet anyone unless they have a review or reputation somewhere, but I think I've been so picky that I've really limited my own options.

[BabyBoomer]

Aside from the obvious physical attributes, how do you vet escorts to ensure they are legit and worth the investment? For example, do you look for reviews, ratings, listings on certain sites, etc...

 

Post a 411 in the Deli on the escort in question.

 

~Boomer~

[big-n-tall]

I have really hesitated to meet anyone unless they have a review or reputation somewhere, but I think I've been so picky that I've really limited my own options.

 

Totally understandable. However, in my case, there have been guys I have been interested in that have no reviews or any obvious bits of definitive info I could find. So I went with my gut and again how they responded to my inquiries. It's worked mainly so far.

Edited December 31, 2020 by big-n-tall

[+ azdr0710]

Use daddysreviews dot com and this forum (Deli). When you get serious, ask here. Be professional and polite when you contact somebody. Don't write too many times back-and-forth!! Move pretty quick toward a meet time suggestion. Their replies will say a lot!

[VictorXX]

I always do a videocall and I recommend, it’s worth it, and it’s fun.

[CheckCar]

I have really hesitated to meet anyone unless they have a review or reputation somewhere, but I think I've been so picky that I've really limited my own options.

Same here re: limiting my options. Though for me it’s less about being picky and more about being cowardly. As someone who is generally risk-averse, I have a tough time taking chances on new encounters. Sigh.

[EastbayMike]

The response I get when I reach out to the escort via text message is super important to me. If I don't like the way they respond or if they are rude etc, I

 

This! It still surprises me how many simple inquiries are unanswered, responded to days later with no explanation, or just short, curt, and rude.

[jtwalker]

Same here re: limiting my options. Though for me it’s less about being picky and more about being cowardly. As someone who is generally risk-averse, I have a tough time taking chances on new encounters. Sigh.

 

I am exactly the same. I got burned by one very bad encounter. Since then, I've been extremely cautious.

[+ keroscenefire]

I am exactly the same. I got burned by one very bad encounter. Since then, I've been extremely cautious.

 

And interestingly my one terrible encounter was actually a popular and well-reviewed escort. But those bad encounters are pretty rare. More of them have been great to good.

[+ Pensant]

Using this forum is a great idea. I found chatter about a couple men I was thinking about. One of them had better chatter than the other so I went with that guy.

 

But yeah, sometimes you have to use your gut. I've met guys who were brand new with no reviews and they ended up working out. I do like to meet guys in public in person if I have any questions.

A potential snag is that early 20’s guys will usually resist this and they absolutely hate to speak on the phone.

[marylander1940]

Aside from the obvious physical attributes, how do you vet escorts to ensure they are legit and worth the investment? For example, do you look for reviews, ratings, listings on certain sites, etc...

 

All of it, including this forum

 

A potential snag is that early 20’s guys will usually resist this and they absolutely hate to speak on the phone.

 

What used to take a two minute phone call now that takes 30 minutes of texting.

 

Some are even unable to interact on a conversation. After you hang up the phone they’ll text you something they forgot to ask a minute earlier

[marylander1940]

Post a 411 in the Deli on the escort in question.

 

~Boomer~

 

I would suggest searching first and posting a 411 after.

[+ LIguy]

I always Google their phone number. Some interesting info sometimes comes up such as other sites they post on and at times some personal info.

[Maximiliam]

I always Google their phone number. Some interesting info sometimes comes up such as other sites they post on and at times some personal info.

Really ?? teach me because I do that and million things come up

[+ nycman]

I think I've been so picky that I've really limited my own options.

Or the converse......you’ve limited your disappointments.

[rvwnsd]

I always Google their phone number. Some interesting info sometimes comes up such as other sites they post on and at times some personal info.

Really ?? teach me because I do that and million things come up

Google searches can yield valuable information or a bunch of crap. It just depends.

 

As for me, I go off my instinct when reading a guy's ad, looking at his pics, and reading his response. If something sounds off I take a pass.

[jtwalker]

I currently look for...

 

- 10+ reviews with a 4.75 rating or better - Sometimes I make an exception if there is a really great review on daddys.

- Reviews from people who have some history on RM

- Nothing in the text of the reviews that is off-putting

- Face Pic

- Recent Pictures that are consistent and at least some that don't look heavily edited.

- At least a year of history on RM

- Someone that is at least an 8 in the looks department and takes the right position

- No signs of PNP

 

I usually won't contact someone unless they hit all of these, so my options have been very limited to say the least. After my crazy encounter, I stopped trusting my judgement and tried to become more scientific.

[ericwinters]

A potential snag is that early 20’s guys will usually resist this and they absolutely hate to speak on the phone.

 

I have a rule.

No phone call = No cash.

[alexslaveboy]

Back in my North Jersey hiring days (2015-2018)

I always went by my gut feeling and then this forum with some back and forth with the escort to judge character and met some great guys

 

My track record was very good, I would say out of the 40 to 50 guys that I met up with only one or two bad experiences.

 

Now down here in South Jersey I've had very bad luck!

Lots of non responses to RM messenger and texts, several no shows after setting up a meeting and many flat out simply won't travel to AC!!! Depressing

 

Only good experiences were guys like Bootybuilder 10 out 10!!!! and BeautifulKeith 8 out of 10

 

A few others have vanished or frozen their profiles

[JamesMorris]

I always ask the forum for recommendations, also the text conversation goes a long way as far as personality

I’ve taken my chances with newbies with no ratings and I will probably say 2 out if 10 were a disappointment

Also one time I hired a guy with great reviews and it was a total disaster

You’ll just have to take your chances and see.

Good luck

Also I wish I knew how to reverse image like some guys here do, you find out if they are real or fakes