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I know this is an old thread, but I met up with CountryMuscle today, and he is the escort I remember from before. I'm very glad to re-connect with him, and he is certainly worth the time. I greatly enjoyed myself.
 
I'll be doing a review on Daddy's for him. If you get a chance, I do recommend him.

I didn't find a thread on a quick search, but I can give a few pointers:
 
1. Use their preferred method of contact. If they prefer text, text them.
2. Tell them you saw their post on "RM" (I suggest initials - a lot have day jobs so it obscures a bit)
3. Say you would like to get together, and ask when plans could be made.
4. Know what you want, go for guys who like the same. If you want kissing, be sure kissing is in the profile.
5. When arranging, tell them anything special, such as "this would be my first time with an escort".
6. Be concise without being terse.
7. Follow the escorts lead if they go for longer conversation.
8. Agree to reasonable requests, say a phone call. Do not give money before. Skype if you are comfortable.
9. After making arrangements, confirm reasonably. The day before, the morning of, and an hour or so before is reasonable. I use "I look forward to visiting tomorrow/this evening/when I arrive in an hour".
10. If they confirm to you, reply as soon as you reasonably can.
11. Keep the appointment. This is important. Even if you don't go through with it, go meet him, and offer the full fee. He has invested time in this. He will understand if you get nervous.
12. Before the appointment, shower up, if you will bottom, douche. Leave off cologne.
13. If it's your first time, tell him you're nervous (if you are), ask him to take the lead.
14. Tell him what you're interested in.
15. Tell him if you like or don't like something.
16. Remember he's a person, be polite, and he's doing something very nice for you.
17. Honor his time. When it's over, it's over.
 
I always suggest going to a reviewed escort.
 
Other suggestions?

I met with him some months ago, the pounds seem new since then - I can see them in the photos. I had a good time, but others have reported not so much. He is gay-for-pay, if that is a concern for you.

I didn't find a thread on a quick search, but I can give a few pointers:
 
1. Use their preferred method of contact. If they prefer text, text them.
2. Tell them you saw their post on "RM" (I suggest initials - a lot have day jobs so it obscures a bit)
3. Say you would like to get together, and ask when plans could be made.
4. Know what you want, go for guys who like the same. If you want kissing, be sure kissing is in the profile.
5. When arranging, tell them anything special, such as "this would be my first time with an escort".
6. Be concise without being terse.
7. Follow the escorts lead if they go for longer conversation.
8. Agree to reasonable requests, say a phone call. Do not give money before. Skype if you are comfortable.
9. After making arrangements, confirm reasonably. The day before, the morning of, and an hour or so before is reasonable. I use "I look forward to visiting tomorrow/this evening/when I arrive in an hour".
10. If they confirm to you, reply as soon as you reasonably can.
11. Keep the appointment. This is important. Even if you don't go through with it, go meet him, and offer the full fee. He has invested time in this. He will understand if you get nervous.
12. Before the appointment, shower up, if you will bottom, douche. Leave off cologne.
13. If it's your first time, tell him you're nervous (if you are), ask him to take the lead.
14. Tell him what you're interested in.
15. Tell him if you like or don't like something.
16. Remember he's a person, be polite, and he's doing something very nice for you.
17. Honor his time. When it's over, it's over.
 
I always suggest going to a reviewed escort.
 
Other suggestions?

It's possible there was no scouring going on. If they share a computer/tablet and the bf types in "r", the browser will suggest sites or search terms used on that computer starting with "r". For me typing "m" into my browser suggests this forum.
 
This behavior can be overridden by using "porn mode", whatever the private browsing option is for your browser.

@Mocha, where I can understand why you want to charge in this case, as a client I'll tell you I would not pay to talk to an escort I was interested in setting an appointment up with, and that includes the fee posted for contacting your number. I only contact if I am interested in hiring, and I know that is not universal. I fear having a fee attached to contact will disinterest many potential clients, especially the ones just checking to see if you two will be compatible.

I didn't find a thread on a quick search, but I can give a few pointers:
 
1. Use their preferred method of contact. If they prefer text, text them.
2. Tell them you saw their post on "RM" (I suggest initials - a lot have day jobs so it obscures a bit)
3. Say you would like to get together, and ask when plans could be made.
4. Know what you want, go for guys who like the same. If you want kissing, be sure kissing is in the profile.
5. When arranging, tell them anything special, such as "this would be my first time with an escort".
6. Be concise without being terse.
7. Follow the escorts lead if they go for longer conversation.
8. Agree to reasonable requests, say a phone call. Do not give money before. Skype if you are comfortable.
9. After making arrangements, confirm reasonably. The day before, the morning of, and an hour or so before is reasonable. I use "I look forward to visiting tomorrow/this evening/when I arrive in an hour".
10. If they confirm to you, reply as soon as you reasonably can.
11. Keep the appointment. This is important. Even if you don't go through with it, go meet him, and offer the full fee. He has invested time in this. He will understand if you get nervous.
12. Before the appointment, shower up, if you will bottom, douche. Leave off cologne.
13. If it's your first time, tell him you're nervous (if you are), ask him to take the lead.
14. Tell him what you're interested in.
15. Tell him if you like or don't like something.
16. Remember he's a person, be polite, and he's doing something very nice for you.
17. Honor his time. When it's over, it's over.
 
I always suggest going to a reviewed escort.
 
Other suggestions?

I didn't find a thread on a quick search, but I can give a few pointers:
 
1. Use their preferred method of contact. If they prefer text, text them.
2. Tell them you saw their post on "RM" (I suggest initials - a lot have day jobs so it obscures a bit)
3. Say you would like to get together, and ask when plans could be made.
4. Know what you want, go for guys who like the same. If you want kissing, be sure kissing is in the profile.
5. When arranging, tell them anything special, such as "this would be my first time with an escort".
6. Be concise without being terse.
7. Follow the escorts lead if they go for longer conversation.
8. Agree to reasonable requests, say a phone call. Do not give money before. Skype if you are comfortable.
9. After making arrangements, confirm reasonably. The day before, the morning of, and an hour or so before is reasonable. I use "I look forward to visiting tomorrow/this evening/when I arrive in an hour".
10. If they confirm to you, reply as soon as you reasonably can.
11. Keep the appointment. This is important. Even if you don't go through with it, go meet him, and offer the full fee. He has invested time in this. He will understand if you get nervous.
12. Before the appointment, shower up, if you will bottom, douche. Leave off cologne.
13. If it's your first time, tell him you're nervous (if you are), ask him to take the lead.
14. Tell him what you're interested in.
15. Tell him if you like or don't like something.
16. Remember he's a person, be polite, and he's doing something very nice for you.
17. Honor his time. When it's over, it's over.
 
I always suggest going to a reviewed escort.
 
Other suggestions?

I did this with an escort who is no longer in the business. He would travel to my area, we'd schedule a session and he'd use one of my guestrooms for the night. Before we started, we had established a relationship and he knew I would limit the "escort-time" to just our session. He could arrange other appointments, nap, do other business in any part of the house and not have to feel like he was on duty. It worked because he knew I wouldn't ask for anything of him outside of our session than I would any regular houseguest. He was, and still is (we're still in contact), comfortable with me.
 
If you have a good relationship with the escort, it may work, as he knows he'll want to let his guard down. I think it would be more difficult to convince an escort you don't have a non-escort type relationship to go for it.

I did this with an escort who is no longer in the business. He would travel to my area, we'd schedule a session and he'd use one of my guestrooms for the night. Before we started, we had established a relationship and he knew I would limit the "escort-time" to just our session. He could arrange other appointments, nap, do other business in any part of the house and not have to feel like he was on duty. It worked because he knew I wouldn't ask for anything of him outside of our session than I would any regular houseguest. He was, and still is (we're still in contact), comfortable with me.
 
If you have a good relationship with the escort, it may work, as he knows he'll want to let his guard down. I think it would be more difficult to convince an escort you don't have a non-escort type relationship to go for it.

I did this with an escort who is no longer in the business. He would travel to my area, we'd schedule a session and he'd use one of my guestrooms for the night. Before we started, we had established a relationship and he knew I would limit the "escort-time" to just our session. He could arrange other appointments, nap, do other business in any part of the house and not have to feel like he was on duty. It worked because he knew I wouldn't ask for anything of him outside of our session than I would any regular houseguest. He was, and still is (we're still in contact), comfortable with me.
 
If you have a good relationship with the escort, it may work, as he knows he'll want to let his guard down. I think it would be more difficult to convince an escort you don't have a non-escort type relationship to go for it.

As a client, I find this very confusing. I would be interested in meeting the original Lucas again, but I worry that the guy who shows up will be one of the friends. Where the others are attractive, they don't have the specific thing I like from the original Lucas, which I grant was a certain look. I think this feels shady, and it makes me very uncomfortable.

It's possible there was no scouring going on. If they share a computer/tablet and the bf types in "r", the browser will suggest sites or search terms used on that computer starting with "r". For me typing "m" into my browser suggests this forum.
 
This behavior can be overridden by using "porn mode", whatever the private browsing option is for your browser.

@adventurous old guy - just wondering if you've maybe confused this guy with another. I've met the guy in the linked ad - body is his and I had a great time. He was very engaged and matched photos. I met him in Nashville and look forward to him visiting again. @Skip has met him twice according to https://m4m-forum.org/threads/411-musculardude-ravi-nyc.146346/#post-1679776
 
@mattb , I think you would have a great time.

I'm a regular of his, and have been for some time. He's fantastic. Out of this world oral skills, and totally committed to his craft. You can't go wrong with him. He is attractive, likable, never flakes and is prompt in communication.

I'm a regular of his, and have been for some time. He's fantastic. Out of this world oral skills, and totally committed to his craft. You can't go wrong with him. He is attractive, likable, never flakes and is prompt in communication.

I don't think this just applies to this industry, it applies to anything. I am more likely to continue to patronize someone if they seem to enjoy the fact that I am spending my money right then, right there. Whether it's buying a pizza, getting a massage or getting something more intimate -- if you can 'act' like the money is an inconsequential portion of the exchange, I am more likely to return.
 
I once received a massage that was so mechanical that not only was I not relaxed, I ended up mostly uncomfortable and felt bad that I was wasting her time.

I'm not an escort to to address:
 

 
As a client, I would personally email an escort at the beginning, in an attempt to keep my phone clear of escort numbers. I don't generally exchange numbers until close to the actual appointment. My initial screening of an escort I'd rather do via email. I fully recognize it is easier and quicker for the escort to get texts, but I'd rather leave putting the phone # I use for that with as few people as possible.
 
So in short, where I recognize it is much easier for you, and a faster response by you would certainly be had, I and some other clients want to keep our numbers to ourselves for a bit.

I'm not an escort to to address:
 

 
As a client, I would personally email an escort at the beginning, in an attempt to keep my phone clear of escort numbers. I don't generally exchange numbers until close to the actual appointment. My initial screening of an escort I'd rather do via email. I fully recognize it is easier and quicker for the escort to get texts, but I'd rather leave putting the phone # I use for that with as few people as possible.
 
So in short, where I recognize it is much easier for you, and a faster response by you would certainly be had, I and some other clients want to keep our numbers to ourselves for a bit.

I'm not an escort to to address:
 

 
As a client, I would personally email an escort at the beginning, in an attempt to keep my phone clear of escort numbers. I don't generally exchange numbers until close to the actual appointment. My initial screening of an escort I'd rather do via email. I fully recognize it is easier and quicker for the escort to get texts, but I'd rather leave putting the phone # I use for that with as few people as possible.
 
So in short, where I recognize it is much easier for you, and a faster response by you would certainly be had, I and some other clients want to keep our numbers to ourselves for a bit.

According to this thread: https://m4m-forum.org/threads/atlanta-travel-guide.145156/ yes, they are gone.

My regular visited me yesterday, and according to him, the "Dick Dollars" thing at Swinging Richards is done and gone. What he told me is the dancers went on strike to get rid of it. @Leo Hammond can you confirm this?
 
@Trister43 I forget what it costs to rent a private room, but last I was there it was $100 per 15 minutes to the dancer. Each dancer if you get more than one Which I've done exactly once.

As a client, I find this very confusing. I would be interested in meeting the original Lucas again, but I worry that the guy who shows up will be one of the friends. Where the others are attractive, they don't have the specific thing I like from the original Lucas, which I grant was a certain look. I think this feels shady, and it makes me very uncomfortable.

In that he asked if you wanted to just hang out, it implies he had a great time and would consider it. But from a business perspective, he was following-up with a client and showing that he didn't forget you once he had your money and was out the door. Since you wanted to hire him again, he was on target as well

Met him in Nashville; hung, hot, and very satisfying! He got right to business, and was a total pleasure.