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    BluDay got a reaction from + Trebor in Need some quick feedback   
    Met him in Nashville; hung, hot, and very satisfying! He got right to business, and was a total pleasure.
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    BluDay reacted to hypothetically in Hottest client ever?   
    Lol no one actually answered your question and someone went on a tangent about their oral skills but...shocking.
     
    I was once working in Toronto and had arranged to meet a client, who to my surprise was very friendly via text and elaborated on his wants very thoroughly (better than most). He communicated he did not hire often but “the apps” were time consuming and frustrating.
     
    Closer to our agreed meeting time he asked if he could bring a bottle of wine. So naturally I was a little taken back and felt indifferent about the meeting because truthfully guys, sometimes after working a full day, you just don’t have a bf-experience left in you and it’s easier to fulfill a simple 1-hr request. But I was a tad stressed and it was freezing so I said “fuck it, why not?”
     
    When he arrived, this statuesque 6’2 Persian man opened the door. Beautiful dark features, perfectly groomed, big full lips and incredible eyes so I immediately went from thinking “oh god here we go” to “ohhhh.” We sat and had wine and he said he was very nervous (as was I at this point) and he wanted to take things slow. I could tell that his track record with men was not a good one because he continued communicating insecurities about himself, which I found appalling sitting in front of such a beautiful man. We tried to play a little but he wasn’t the most experienced bottom which was a shame because I really wanted in. And to be quite honest, I seldom bottom for clients but he could have definitely slid in me. His kissing was also impeccable.
     
    We were together several hours and he asked if we could spend more time together and that we could go get more cash together. I told him not to worry about it and he ending up spending the night with me. I think we slept in each other’s arms until he had to leave for work in the AM.
     
    Never saw him again. Contacted him when I was in Toronto a few months later but our schedules didn’t align.
     
    I always get a little hot when scruffy daddy types that are bigger than me book me, as well as men from the Middle East. I encounter hot clients often, especially now being based in Europe, where I find the client base is much younger.
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    BluDay got a reaction from + Pensant in Follow-up with a client?   
    In that he asked if you wanted to just hang out, it implies he had a great time and would consider it. But from a business perspective, he was following-up with a client and showing that he didn't forget you once he had your money and was out the door. Since you wanted to hire him again, he was on target as well
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    BluDay got a reaction from Danny-Darko in Military Brat   
    I'm a military brat, but not from an officer. I've always seen it used as the child of a member of the military, regardless of the sponsor's rank. To be a "real" military brat, you need to have moved around as your family was moved from one base to another, have a dependent ID card, and have have some basic idea of how the military works. I've experienced it consistently used that way over a variety of military bases.
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    BluDay got a reaction from tennisjock in Sean Cody - Sean and Randy   
    I think it may have. An escort I visit periodically (and hope to again in a few days) has done a few scenes for them recently. I happened to be visiting just after he had been approached, via his ad on Rent.men. If they contact escorts to perform, I don't think they can tell them not to escort, and this guy is putting his SC name in his ad.
     
    I suppose it's possible that existing escorts can keep their business, but men who appear on film can't start an escort business, but I don't know.
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    BluDay reacted to HotWhiteThirties in Toying with a scammer   
    Well done, sir.
     
    Yeah, when you read feedback from or speak with folks who’ve visited the US from overseas, one of the first things you’ll hear about (besides the tipping* practices) is how vast the country is. The idea of just whipping from Santa Fe to NOLA to FTL is evidence of someone who lacks experience to know.
     
    (*As an aside, I kept trying to type “tipping,” but repeatedly kept hitting the “o” instead of the “i” on my touch screen, QWERTY keyboard on my iPhone. Which, of course, means if I hadn’t caught it, the parenthetical statement would have said “besides the TOPPING practices.” How apropos considering this audience. ???)
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    BluDay got a reaction from HotWhiteThirties in Miami Recommendations   
    I've met Pedro (service above) and he is very sincere and accommodating. I would really recommend Jase Wolfe https://rent.men/WOLFE for a good time. The connection was lightening fast and he is incredible in bed.
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    BluDay reacted to + E.T.Bass in She Never Ceases to Amaze!   
    Thank you for sharing this.
     
    Side note: I met a Norwegian woman last night at Christmas dinner that, when she was a schoolgirl, was in London for Elizabeth's coronation. So interesting to hear about her experience.
     
    The Queen has seen so much over the decades. I expect her opinion of today's political affairs is framed by so much more wisdom then most people could fathom. Her comments about the capacity for good and for evil struck a chord with me.
     
    There will never be another head of state quite like her.
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    BluDay got a reaction from TruHart1 in Sabrina on Netflix   
    Here is a promo for Sabrina, staring the very nice-looking Gavin Leatherwood preparing a turkey dinner:
    . Gavin plays "Nick Scratch", one of the warlocks.  
    In the video, Gavin exhibits some skills that may be better used in a different room.....
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    BluDay got a reaction from + nycman in Objectifying?   
    @Unicorn I am earnestly hoping your man is there, and his breath rushes a bit as he comes close to where he thinks you will be. And when he lays eyes on you, his heart leaps to his mouth. When you embrace, both of you will feel the joy and love you deserve.
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    BluDay got a reaction from marylander1940 in Objectifying?   
    @Unicorn I am earnestly hoping your man is there, and his breath rushes a bit as he comes close to where he thinks you will be. And when he lays eyes on you, his heart leaps to his mouth. When you embrace, both of you will feel the joy and love you deserve.
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    BluDay got a reaction from TruthBTold in Objectifying?   
    Going just on what you have posted - if he is/has fallen for you as well, it's possible he is looking for reassurance that you like him for him, not just his physical appearance?
     
    You met on SA, where true love certainly can come from there, but realistically a lot of that is a pretty boy offering his body to a wealthier man so the boy can live in comfort. That may (not reading anything anything into your situation) have been the case here, and love grew from it. If he's feeling like you are, he could be working out so much to keep you, fearing you only want a hot body. How does he respond when you compliment his mind, his taste, his personality? Give him the same insecurities you have. He may have noticed you no longer need chemical assistance, and where I'm sure that gratifies him, he may feel he has to work hard to keep that up (pun intended).
     
    Perhaps you could find some things to do where he is not your arm-candy and stimulate your cultural interests? Taking him away from places where he sees himself as your trophy and emphasizes how much you like his company may give him assurance.
     
    This is the positive spin on your question: that he is doing what he can to keep you because he's fallen in love with you. I don't think I have to mention that if he's just in for your money, he's doing a very good job. For both your sakes, I hope it's love.
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    BluDay got a reaction from liubit in Objectifying?   
    Going just on what you have posted - if he is/has fallen for you as well, it's possible he is looking for reassurance that you like him for him, not just his physical appearance?
     
    You met on SA, where true love certainly can come from there, but realistically a lot of that is a pretty boy offering his body to a wealthier man so the boy can live in comfort. That may (not reading anything anything into your situation) have been the case here, and love grew from it. If he's feeling like you are, he could be working out so much to keep you, fearing you only want a hot body. How does he respond when you compliment his mind, his taste, his personality? Give him the same insecurities you have. He may have noticed you no longer need chemical assistance, and where I'm sure that gratifies him, he may feel he has to work hard to keep that up (pun intended).
     
    Perhaps you could find some things to do where he is not your arm-candy and stimulate your cultural interests? Taking him away from places where he sees himself as your trophy and emphasizes how much you like his company may give him assurance.
     
    This is the positive spin on your question: that he is doing what he can to keep you because he's fallen in love with you. I don't think I have to mention that if he's just in for your money, he's doing a very good job. For both your sakes, I hope it's love.
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    BluDay got a reaction from + GregM in Hosting a companion at your place   
    My sessions with my regular guy are almost always at my place. We've been doing business for years, and we actually know each other's real names.
     
    I have one other to visits me there, and I've had a one-timer. I'm single and don't have anyone to explain to. However, I don't think I'd host anyone that I wasn't either familiar and comfortable with any more (so, I change in how I would do business). I think I'd make exceptions for some of the escort gentlemen here, because they have a "standing" in the community. Over the years, and after one close call and reading of some others, I don't think I'd invite just anyone back.
     
    It's a bit of a moot point however - in my area there is a limited number of guys I'm interested in locally, and travelers would have a hotel room.
     
    If the escort is well reviewed, I think you would most likely be safe. I would not consider it for someone who is new. You just don't know what could happen.
     
    If you do host, remember the guy will have your location, in addition to your number. If you use an alias, be aware it is very possible that without even trying, he will discover your real name. A piece of mail on a counter could tell him, as could any of a number of things in the open. Again, this does not mean he snoops, just things anyone could see.
     
    There have been stories here of escorts trying to get more out of clients, more session, loans of money and so on. If he has your address, it's much easier for him to show up. That's why I'd recommend it for established providers.
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    BluDay got a reaction from + HornyRetiree in Hosting a companion at your place   
    My sessions with my regular guy are almost always at my place. We've been doing business for years, and we actually know each other's real names.
     
    I have one other to visits me there, and I've had a one-timer. I'm single and don't have anyone to explain to. However, I don't think I'd host anyone that I wasn't either familiar and comfortable with any more (so, I change in how I would do business). I think I'd make exceptions for some of the escort gentlemen here, because they have a "standing" in the community. Over the years, and after one close call and reading of some others, I don't think I'd invite just anyone back.
     
    It's a bit of a moot point however - in my area there is a limited number of guys I'm interested in locally, and travelers would have a hotel room.
     
    If the escort is well reviewed, I think you would most likely be safe. I would not consider it for someone who is new. You just don't know what could happen.
     
    If you do host, remember the guy will have your location, in addition to your number. If you use an alias, be aware it is very possible that without even trying, he will discover your real name. A piece of mail on a counter could tell him, as could any of a number of things in the open. Again, this does not mean he snoops, just things anyone could see.
     
    There have been stories here of escorts trying to get more out of clients, more session, loans of money and so on. If he has your address, it's much easier for him to show up. That's why I'd recommend it for established providers.
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    BluDay got a reaction from + Reisr30 in Hosting a companion at your place   
    My sessions with my regular guy are almost always at my place. We've been doing business for years, and we actually know each other's real names.
     
    I have one other to visits me there, and I've had a one-timer. I'm single and don't have anyone to explain to. However, I don't think I'd host anyone that I wasn't either familiar and comfortable with any more (so, I change in how I would do business). I think I'd make exceptions for some of the escort gentlemen here, because they have a "standing" in the community. Over the years, and after one close call and reading of some others, I don't think I'd invite just anyone back.
     
    It's a bit of a moot point however - in my area there is a limited number of guys I'm interested in locally, and travelers would have a hotel room.
     
    If the escort is well reviewed, I think you would most likely be safe. I would not consider it for someone who is new. You just don't know what could happen.
     
    If you do host, remember the guy will have your location, in addition to your number. If you use an alias, be aware it is very possible that without even trying, he will discover your real name. A piece of mail on a counter could tell him, as could any of a number of things in the open. Again, this does not mean he snoops, just things anyone could see.
     
    There have been stories here of escorts trying to get more out of clients, more session, loans of money and so on. If he has your address, it's much easier for him to show up. That's why I'd recommend it for established providers.
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    BluDay got a reaction from GTMike in Keeping in touch   
    I have a couple of escorts who keep in touch outside of pure business. I'm a regular or repeat with all three of them. The amount varies, but I've established something of a rapport with all that goes beyond sessions. In my opinion, it's a great business move. Getting a text that doesn't revolve around business shows an interest and makes me want to see them more.
     
    With these three, it's not pure business, we have some out of the bedroom connection, but I know it's centered in business. But getting the contact is always great for me, and that type of interaction can push a client over to more sessions.
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    BluDay got a reaction from Alex Maverick in Chicago or Nashville - December 2018   
    Ooops, sorry: I thought you were a client looking for recommendations for escorts. Conversation in another thread showed your rent.men link, so I presume you are traveling for business
     
    Nashville gets some level of travelers, I wish it were more. I can't gauge how good business is for them, sorry. I do think it may be a city worth hitting. Based on what I can tell from traveling escorts, different guys do well in some cites, and it's just a case of finding which ones.
     
    I hope where ever you do head to, it is very successful for you.
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    BluDay got a reaction from EastbayMike in Should Kurtis Wolfe get a Prince Albert?   
    I hope he doesn't. There is no reason to mar something as beautiful as his dick.
     
    Plus, I find it a turn off. I'd hate to have to take him off my list of men to spend time with, as I'm generally looking for a reason to get to his city just for him.
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    BluDay got a reaction from OneNightOnlyTravel in Should Kurtis Wolfe get a Prince Albert?   
    I hope he doesn't. There is no reason to mar something as beautiful as his dick.
     
    Plus, I find it a turn off. I'd hate to have to take him off my list of men to spend time with, as I'm generally looking for a reason to get to his city just for him.
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    BluDay got a reaction from DavidMore in Should Kurtis Wolfe get a Prince Albert?   
    I hope he doesn't. There is no reason to mar something as beautiful as his dick.
     
    Plus, I find it a turn off. I'd hate to have to take him off my list of men to spend time with, as I'm generally looking for a reason to get to his city just for him.
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    BluDay got a reaction from TruthBTold in Should Kurtis Wolfe get a Prince Albert?   
    I hope he doesn't. There is no reason to mar something as beautiful as his dick.
     
    Plus, I find it a turn off. I'd hate to have to take him off my list of men to spend time with, as I'm generally looking for a reason to get to his city just for him.
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    BluDay got a reaction from Hadakanbo in Does anyone else ever go back and look at the videos of porn stars they've hired . . ?   
    Yes, I certainly do. I don't give them cash for the time I've watched them on video (as @Kevin Slater suggests) since it's one the things I use to decide I want to spend time with them
     
    I find it incredible see see a guy I've been with going at it on the screen. And when you get to spend time with someone you've watched for years, it will blow your..... mind. That's actually happened for me.
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    BluDay got a reaction from + José Soplanucas in [Do You] Ask escorts before reviewing them   
    @latbear4blk I don't necessarily believe it either, but I do take it as a guide to what he's willing to tell the general public about their services.
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    BluDay reacted to arnie in Timing your contact   
    There are several escorts that I follow in cased they happen to be coming to my city. When they post a travel ad, I assume that they are looking to book at that time and will contact them if interested. they have been accommodating. Some even indicate a need to book early as they claim they book up early. When traveling out of town, I might reach out to several escorts in advance just to make sure that they are generally available on those dates and if they have issues like a full time job that they have to work around but will book on short term notice as the specifics of my schedule may change on limited notice
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