BonVivant

Think: 20s or look like it; 4-8 pack abs; short cropped hair; wearing almost nothing and dancing and doing other things on the floor 😉. That is the atmosphere. 
 

if you want a good dance party or event go to an EDM set or techno set. It’s inclusive and welcoming. It’s about the music. 
 

circuit is sex + music. If you don’t fit the type the bois will make you cry. Very mean. 

Cutie. Looks just like the dozens of similar looking IG hotties that I see. Love social media. 

All Manhattan providers will come to you. Don’t need to limit to UES. 

Y’all paranoid. 

Prague also has: http://www.updownbarprague.cz/en/home/

formerly Pinocchio. The young Czech guys are “available” to take away. Is a one to one negotiation. 

French and Es-panish (European). 😉 

Baby (now grown up) wants 💰. Pay baby ( no release ever signed ) - simple.  Negotiate add settle. Simple. 

1 hour ago, augustus said:

$350 is too much.  $250-$300 is very reasonable.  Most clients are one and done so of course the escort will try to get as much as possible out of that one deal.

Hmmm. Maybe if you are a regular client you can get special pricing and treatment. I see two guys regularly; no problems. 

It’s price inflation coupled with wage stagnation. It’s been going on for 20 years now. Value of a dollar keeps going down. Only asset prices have been going up. 😉. And even with all the unfilled jobs, companies are not increasing wages (at least in my area). 

Bump

All I have to say: please come to NYC.  🙏🏽 

23 hours ago, Vegas_nw1982 said:

I see a guy in Las Vegas who cuts my hair, trims my beard, gives me a manicure and pedicure, waxes my back, asshole, shaft and sack, then message, then usually fucks my ass (to give his waxing work a test ride), or at least cums in my mouth.

But it's done in his home and not out in the open

That is “Full Service” alright!!  

Given Texas’ new law (discussed in another thread), can we/should we block all access from Texas? Is that possible?

Bump

On 8/5/2021 at 12:38 AM, bostonman said:

Speaking of which - it used to be possible, with a VPN, to read any specific client comments on the RM reviews, but lately that doesn't seem to be working for me. Does anyone know if that's a change on RM's end, or should I just try a different VPN? 

I use a VPN and can see it. It depends on the country you are VPNing from. I use 🇧🇷 Brazil!  😉 

See Harrisburg PA from the “Deli” section. 

On 8/3/2021 at 11:01 AM, tassojunior said:

Harrisburg's a very gay city. I haven't been for 5 years but there are at least 2 big gay bars on the main street in front of the capitol plus several others, and plenty of cruising in front of the capitol. From the capitol to the river south of Broad there's a hustler circuit of sorts too around a couple convenience stores in a working-class (poor white) inner city area (Front Street?). It may not be an online city but in person there's plenty available. It's one of those "Town & Gown" towns where half the state workers are gay and  all townies have a cousin who "dates" gays.  

https://harrisburg.gaycities.com/bars

I think it was 704 Bar where I met a couple accommodating guys. 

 

 Is Harrisburg PA still old school?

On 8/3/2021 at 11:01 AM, tassojunior said:

Harrisburg's a very gay city. I haven't been for 5 years but there are at least 2 big gay bars on the main street in front of the capitol plus several others, and plenty of cruising in front of the capitol. From the capitol to the river south of Broad there's a hustler circuit of sorts too around a couple convenience stores in a working-class (poor white) inner city area (Front Street?). It may not be an online city but in person there's plenty available. It's one of those "Town & Gown" towns where half the state workers are gay and  all townies have a cousin who "dates" gays.  

https://harrisburg.gaycities.com/bars

I think it was 704 Bar where I met a couple accommodating guys. 

 

Sounds old school. Lots of discussions in other threads about how folks have missed this type of environment in the on-line age. Anyone else have similar experiences?

13 hours ago, hotsmoothguy69 said:

Twinks and jocks

18 to 28 years old ..  most desired age 20 to 24

smooth toned bodies..six packs are awesome…firm biceps

great at Deep kissing

love mutual oral

good at giving massages

likes a hot facial .. likes to get cum in the mouth as well (not a problem if they don’t but it is hot)

good at conversation

 blonde or brown hair preferable

 

This! OMG same. 😀 

2 hours ago, Italiano said:

Oh man! I remembered a night of a good 18 years ago in Berlin, I was staying at this gay hotel which had a gay (with few rentboys, but I didn't know it until I went downstairs) bar underneath, and this super hot big muscular stud came into my room and fucked the hell out of me for 80 Euros...😍

Those were the days… this whole online thing just doesn’t…. Cut it. I miss the Meat Market days. When you could evaluate the goods and interact. Oh…. 😭 so sad. 

12 hours ago, EastCoastBtm said:

Where are you?  I'm about to move to the semi-far suburbs of Philadelphia after a year plus with Mom in rural NC.   I'm really going to have to try hard to connect with any gay people.

I’m in NYC. I will DM you. 

Go ahead and do it. It’ll be very satisfying. I hired while going through a break up. I even cried a little while in the act. It was great. I felt awesome. I eventually felt “hell yeah. Life is good and fcuk him (my soon to be ex)!”  

What if I started a GenX Gay Meetup Grouo? Do you think folks would be interested? I think a lot of gay Gen Xers need connections and opportunities to meet up. It would be focused on culture, art, dinners, music, dancing and night outs. Instead of being alone at a gay bar a group of Gen X gays would be a presence. 

There no gay bars or clubs at any ski resort in Colorado. There is no gay unless you go to a gay ski week or weekend. You can Google those; they hold events at local venues so it is gay for that event. I know Vail has a gay ski week. 
 

As for Colorado, some of my favorites are those some bit of a way from Denver: Steamboat and Crested Butte are among my favorites. Both have airports near them. Both have a range of accommodations and restaurants. The great thing about  them is that they don’t get the Denver weekend crowds.
 

You can also look at organized trips. Get Out and Trek (GOAT) organized them thru Feb 2020. Then the Pandemic hit. They might organize something in 2022. 

1 hour ago, Cock Eyed Optimist said:

This thread brought back fond memories of Stella's and The townhouse in NYC.

BTW, does The Townhouse still exist?

Yes Townhouse is still alive and doing really well. It was full on a recent Saturday evening. But… I have never seen any Hustlers or RBs there….  It is mainly a Piano Bar and hangout for the Gray Gentlemen Gang (50+).  I am 49 but look like in my 30s ( so I am told ). I feel like I have fallen into No Man’s Land. Too old for the hip happening places and too young looking for Townhouse. 🤷🏽‍♂️ 
 

All the best Trade is online.  Haven’t been to Prague for 14 years…. So don’t know. But Berlin was 4 years ago… the RB bars exist but nothing I liked… all online there too. 

7 hours ago, thedanNYC said:

Well, all ages and types might be allowed to enter. But whether non-six-pack-20s will be particularly welcomed is a different story... The answer is "not likely" more often than not, even at regular gay clubs. That is unless those non-six-pack-20s intend to mack on other non-six-pack-20s.

 

To be honest, I think people (of all ages and types) who have to ask that type of question at all should probably not bother going to circuit parties (or perhaps even regular club nights). That'll save them some grief because their idea of having a good time hinges too much on getting attention and validation from other partygoers. Instead, they're likely better off going to parties/gatherings that are clearly aimed at attracting the tribe they think they fit in well with (e.g., bears, daddies, leather, etc.).

Hmmm…. indeed. I hear what you are saying. It is sad in a way. I love dancing and clubbing… That’s why I love Ibiza… The clubs there are all types all ages. All for a good time. 

The (str8) dance events in Brooklyn are like that too (eg “House of Yes”). It’s the gay dance parties (IMO) that are the problem: too much focus on six pack 20s. The gay bars I don’t find to be a problem; anyone can go and do.