JEC

How about legit Szechuan!?!?

I'd pay $5000!

The undisputed best of all time, is Axel Hardy.  Sadly he retired a few years ago.   I had the pleasure of meeting Axel twice in Boston.  Every second in his presence was fire, he made you feel like you were the center of his universe.  His sexual energy was stupefying.  His body was like the statue of of David.  I could go on....

On 2/8/2024 at 6:07 AM, José Soplanucas said:

I recommend Sean Xavier.

Sean is (was) one of my all-time top experiences, highly recommend!

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As someone who works in healthcare, our Healthcare system is designed by rich white STRAIGHT men, for rich white STRAIGHT men.  We put the best hospitals ckinics and clinicians in affluent areas (we call it a "good payer mix", payers being insurance).  We schedule services during normal working hours.  Majority of information is in English, and staff are English speaking.  We don't really attempt to understand peoples' cultures, norms, preferences, or unique factors that affect their health.  Research dollars disproportionately go to solve problems of rich white STRAIGHT men.  Visiting hours don't accommodate ppl who work odd hours, or multiple jobs.  It's hard to even get a routine lab draw done outside of "normal working hours".  I could go on and on.

I'll offer you an example.  I had a minor surgery recently where I stayed overnight in the hospital.  I brought my usual daily meds with me including my PREP (Truvada).  Well, the fact that I brought my own meds triggered a huge drama.  A nurse manager was called, then a pharmacist was called to the room.  They held the plastic ziplock bag up "what's this blue pill"?.  They took the pills away for investigation.  They came back 2 or 3 times to ask more questions.  Meanwhile, they must have said the word Truvada (at full volume) what felt like 100 times....in my 10X10 room with a STRAIGHT roommate whose family was visiting.  It sounded and felt like Truvada Truvada Truvada Truvada Truvada Truvada Truvada Truvada Truvada Truvada Truvada Truvada Truvada.   All while recovering from anesthesia.  No consideration about my privacy, or that being on that particular med might be sensitive information.  THAT is what a healthcare system designed by rich white STRAIGHT men looks and acts like.  

Welcome to the Company of Men, and your new adventure!  Wanted to reinforce the notion of unprotected sex and the education and precautions you will need before going down this road.  If you do not have a gay or gay friendly doctor, see one even if it's not your PCP.  Many major cities have a health clinic that specializes in the unique issues and needs of gay sex.   These clinics are just like any other doctor's office, there is no stigma to going there.  You may also seek these services via Telemedicine if you are not comfortable going in person or these services are not available where you live.  There are a handful of vaccines you will want in addition to PREP, also be aware there are one or more STIs for which there is no prevention or cure (Herpes for one).  

I'm not intending to dissuade you from the path you are on, you are meant to be here.  Just encouraging you to go down this path fully educated and protected.

Have fun!

Jack

I went to Rounds once in my 20's (mid 80s?), it was my first time to NYC as a young single man (and I was terrified LOL).

I met a hot guy who was a dancer, complete with dancer legs and a dancer's ass. 

He took me back to his apartment, where I drilled his perky butt.....and stayed the night.

I was way too naive then to know that Rounds was a hustler bar 🙄

On 6/21/2021 at 1:30 PM, JEC said:

Sadly, I don't see myself traveling to Mexico to see him, hope he visits NYC or Boston 😘

Funny, I came (pun intended) across this old post....IsaacX did appear in Boston and I hired him.....what a sexy, sexual and versatile (tho all bottom for me!) man!   Highly recommend IsaacX if you are able to connect!   Our meet w\as post-COVID, May 2022.

The way you describe your siblings, they seem to have some level of mental illness (addictions, etc.).  Does not change your course of action, but this is more complex than someone just making bad choices and acting like a teenager.  I lost my brother 2 years ago to a lifelong battle with alcoholism, and I had similar struggles over the years with him (not about money, there was none....just about his behavior and how that impacted his life and the family).  Still, with addiction there is literally nothing you can do until the person is willing and able to help themselves.  

My father too had some sort of difficulty with money.  He had a successful career and a generous retirement, but he never had any money - ran up credit cards, payday loans, and asked me for money a few times.  I think he had a gambling addiction, the closest I ever got to an admission was that he played the lottery.  The last time he asked me for money I said no but offered to help in other ways (like set up a budget, hire a financial advisor, etc).   I did this after drawing up a "contract with myself" of what my baseline principles were for helping, and what I was and was not willing to do.   For example, I would not allow my parents to be homeless or hungry.   I also would not put my own money/retirement at risk.  I would not enable my father's destructive behavior.  I did buy my dad a used car (10k) and put it in my name so he could not borrow against it to ensure he had transportation.   I also helped twice with refinancing of their mortgage to provide some relief with monthly expenses (just helped with the paperwork, dad was in his 80's by then).

I hope the mental illness angle allows you to come at the situation with some compassion, while not sacrificing your principles.  Consider writing up that "contract with yourself" - it will provide you clarity as you face decisions over time.  If you have some flexibility with how the trust is administered, you may be able to set up structures which pay for basic needs and nothing more - ensuring he will never be homeless or hungry, while protecting your assets.  

Good luck, this is a difficult situation and I hope you find a pathway to peace.

If you were paying 300 10 years ago, cost of living adjustments alone would get you to $400 over 10 years, that doesn't include the wage and cost inflation and we have experienced due to COVID (I used an average COLI of 2.5%):

Bumpity-bump!

Given uncertainty of weather, I wonder if it makes sense to wait until @ 1 week before and then make your travel plans?   I also live in the NE - and weather forecasts here are not that reliable at t+7 days, but in other areas of the country should be.  Looks like it will travel directly over Niagara Falls.....

A couple of buds on this board I know go to Brazil once or twice per year for an all-out, weeklong pigfest. 

The cost of providers is 10% of US, and so many hot Latin boys to choose from!  They will usually hire one or 2 for the entire week, and supplement with others.

Now that's what I call a Value Proposition!

I've had too many sub-par to terrible experiences in Guy Guesthouses, so I generally avoid them now. 

We went to Lisbon last Fall and the prices were incredible, we stayed at a boutique hotel right in the city center for about $250/night.  Splurge!

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8 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

I have a friend who is retired and drives Uber, he dedicates his "uber money" to hire escorts. 

That's what I call having a "side hustle" LOL

2 hours ago, Doe Be Doe said:

Anyone else having trouble with the messenger service on Rentmen? When I click on it it leads to a totally blank screen. I assume that there are issues with t?

I am having the same issue, using Bing browser....I have not tried other browsers yet have you?

Bump, planning a trip to LA in a few weeks and very interested in this provider 😎

On 11/26/2023 at 2:31 PM, MscleLovr said:

To answer the OP, I found the biggest positive impact on my health/fitness came from adopting intermittent fasting six months ago.

I’ve always eaten healthily, with very moderate consumption of sugar and alcohol. Now I eat only between 8am and 4pm. I found it a remarkably easy regime to follow.

Thanks for this validation.....I have been reading up on Intermittent Fasting, and am planning to start....though plan a "skip breakfast" regimen (timing just works best for me).  Skip breakfast, high protein/low carb lunch and regular (reasonable) dinner.  Glad it's working out for you.....Jack

67 during the day, and 62 at night.  We have a Pellet stove in our kitchen/dining area which we will sometimes turn on for ambiance and to take the chill off.  I prefer sleeping in a cold room with blankets.   Live in MA here.

Hey gents, I have a business trip to LA coming up and I really want to try a Korean Spa.   Looking for recs please.....primarily looking for the best spa experience, any sex would be optional (and not necessary).   Thanks for your input!

I think the statistics still prove that your earning potential is much higher with college (or trade school) education. It is true that things have gotten much more competitive at the Ivy level, however, there are still great affordable choices in the state schools. I am a VP at a large organization, started my career and community college, went to work, earned my bachelor's at night (having my employer pay for half of it), and just a few years ago completed my MBA and a top state school program, which cost $39,000 and I paid cash.  Point is, there are lots of pathways to education…. We tend to think of higher education as a binary thing… Go directly from high school, go to top school, have mom and dad pay. There are many alternative, affordable, and accessible choices out there.

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On 1/2/2024 at 4:20 PM, jeezifonly said:

Scandalous-lite.

Epstein took many secrets to his grave, escaping his own day of reckoning. If those on the Flight List start spilling about witnessing actual island goings-on re others on the list, Alan Dershowitz will still have his underpants on. 🥱

Given all that Epstein knew, and the risk he posed to countless uber-powerful people, there is no way that his death was an accident.  I generally eschew conspiracy theories....but this one is too obvious.  

14 hours ago, samhexum said:

• Resilient NY bull rider returns to compete at MSG a year after tearing his groin off at 'Unleash the Beast' event

• there are no words...

I'd like to help him with his groin recovery, maybe some massage?  Stretching?