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  1. On 9/21/2023 at 7:45 PM, marylander1940 said:

     

    I'm not big on buffet but look forward to celebrating a friend's birthday next week at Red Lobster Silver Spring!

    THETAKEOUT.COM

    It's one thing to overindulge in shrimp in one sitting, but for a whole year?

     

    As a New Englander, this is a never event for me 😂😂🤣

  2. This review is a testimonial for trying to do as much vetting as you can with providers.  Vetting includes (1) checking available reviews (2) trying to connect with other clients if possible and (3) limited chat with the provider to gauge their "vibe" and your compatibility.  Other providers/clients on here will do a phone session before as well.  If they have fans content, that can tell a lot about their sexual behaviors and preferences.   No vetting will ever catch every nuance or detail, but I would hope to discern some level of enthusiasm before agreeing to meet with a provider. 

    None of this is critical @Rick M I've had my share of bad meetings (including my most recent one, not bad just "meh"), I try to use them as a learning opportunity for "how could I have vetted that for a better result"?

    Such an imperfect science, this hobby!  Part of the intrigue is now knowing exactly what you will get beforehand, still it's disappointing when the the experience is lacking.

     

     

  3. 15 minutes ago, Alex4475 said:

    I know there are a lot of escorts who never divulge nor inquire of SDTs.  I also know someone who recently got HIV from an escort who professed he was safe and on preventative meds. Legalization is necessary in order to maintain safety standards.  Could be a great tax base.  You agree?

    I DISAGREE.  It's each person's job to educate themselves, take action to protect themselves and make educated choices...that includes accepting known risks.   If this person was not on preventative meds themselves, that was their choice, and they must accept the consequences of their decision. 

    Having gestapo enforcing STD transmission is akin to what's happening with abortion right now....do we want the government tracking everyone who has STDs and their sexual partners?  Absurd.

  4. 17 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

    People will discriminate on everything.  That's just life.  It's even worse when you're in a looks-based business.

    I've gotten shit for a number of things, including being a ginger, being too tall and pulling too much focus when I walk into a room.

    You learn to ignore what you can't change and learn from it, always being specific in your email/text exchanges about any issues you think might arise.

     

    Did you say GINGER?  😛😛😛😛😛

  5. There are a decent amount of options in Boston, for those who live in Boston - 1 hour South of Boston might as well be Virginia, and at "rush hour" 1 hour might be 3 hours.  You will have enthusiastic responses if you are willing to travel into Boston, you might also consider Providence or Provincetown on Cape Cod (fewer options, but less daunting then driving into Boston).  You may consider taking the train (MBTA) to/from Boston.   There are options on RM to search by towns - try Plymouth or Fall River to see who is located South of Boston.  If you offer to pay for travel time you might have better luck, good luck!

  6. My husband and I were on a vacation in Paris about.....15 years ago?  We rented an apartment in the Marais 🏳️‍🌈 and liked to hang out across the street at a cafe at Open cafe (gay bar by night, street cafe by day).  One afternoon at the Open Cafe we met a hot young American (early 20s, dirty blond, tall, beefy, overtly confident) sitting at the next table, having coffee and drinks.  As the conversation wore on he told us that he was traveling through Europe, staying in hostels and living out of a backpack.  He went on to tell us that he was in Madrid the weekend before, and went to a "foam party".  These are (were) dance parties at nightclubs where they literally fill the dancefloor up with foam (bubbles).  The foam allowed for varying degrees of nudity, and groping to happen under the foam on the dancefloor...he told us his penis was still chafed from the foam party (poor boy!).  My ears (and my penis) perked up!  As the drinks and conversation flowed, we realized this hot young American was SLEEPING his way through Europe, and good for him!  Eventually he left :classic_sad:, and we had dinner plans.....across town.

    We went to a lovely Dinner which of course included cocktails 🍹 and wine 🍷 ......after dinner, we started walking (stumbling) around the neighborhood looking for the nearest taxi 🚕 stand.   We were walking down a dark, random, narrow side street when suddenly a door 🚪 opened....and we heard a noisy club inside that broke through the silence and out of the door spilled (stumbled) ...... foam boy!   The 3 of us could not believe the random re-encounter.  After marveling (slurring) at the coincidence for a few minutes, we invited him back to our apartment.  We made our way to a taxi stand...and back to the Marais. 

    As only 3 drunk men can do, we had sloppy sex....he was hot, but the sex was not particularly (too bad).  There was no penetration  ...could not focus enough for that.  He had a nice chubby 6" member 🍆.   Had we not all been drinking for hours, it probably would have been much hotter 🔥.  But, the story....the lead up, and the randomness of the re-encounter makes for a hot story.  I wished that I were as adventurous and confident as this man in my 20's....the idea of backpacking (sleeping) your way through Europe was intriguing!

    france paris GIF

     

  7. While I have lived in Boston over 30 years, I will never be a Bostonian...because I was not born and raised here.  THAT is Boston culture.  I do not have a Boston accent but I know one when I hear it.  And, copycats NEVER fill the bill.  It's a very difficult accent to copy, the accent is so embedded in attitude and culture that it's almost impossible to copy credibly.  To the OP, you might have to fly here and even then, you'll need someone born & raised to get the true experience.  Good luck!

  8. As we approach the 3rd anniversary of Daddy's passing, I want to acknowledge the great work on behalf of a small team of volunteers who keep this community active and thriving!  The days and weeks following daddy's death were fraught with uncertainty - and this community nearly perished.   This community pulled together and found our way through - got access to the site code, migrated the site to new technology, and developed a new support structure.  We even came up with a new name for our community!  While every volunteers' contributions are valued, I wanted to especially acknowledge @RadioRob our tireless webmaster.   He does his work with no fanfare, no drama and almost no downtime; and he seeks no recognition.   @RadioRob we are grateful!     ....CompanyOfMen 

    RIP Daddy

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  9. On 1/19/2020 at 9:34 AM, JEC said:

    Jackson Davis

    Gabriel Cross

    Riley Ward

    Seth Fornea

    Seth Knight

    Jackson Grant

    Jack Vidra

    Victor Powers

    Minoflexx (aka Justin Serrano)

    Jay Dymel

    Tristan Flip

    Sean Xavier

    Nick Fitt

    Aaron Masseur

    Mike Gaite

     

    .....so far :p:p:p

     

    need to add Ty Parker

    Adding:

    Damien Cruz

    Scott Riley

    IsaacX

  10. On 3/19/2024 at 11:32 PM, BenjaminNicholas said:

    The reality is that you need to be on a form of PrEP if you're fucking or being fucked by another man.  It's readily available almost everywhere now.

    Both escorts and clients alike lie to themselves and each other about their sexual responsibility.

    Only you can protect you.

     

    ......and there are a handful of vaccinations you should get.   Then, there are a few things which there is no prevention or cure for, including Herpes.

  11. In my first 2-3 years at this hobby, I hired probably 30 guys and rarely twice. I was always on to the next shiny object, and I had a lot of hot fucks.  Then I met Dan (interestingly not thru this site or RM), who has been my semi-regular since.  Dan is a submissive bottom who calls me Sir (TBH this is more his thing than mine, but I roll with it).  He's probably 35 now, and in great shape (triathlete).  Every time we meet we mix it up and he (or I) bring something different to the table (sometimes planned, sometimes a surprise).  I met Dan about 1 year before COVID and have been seeing him roughly monthly.  To someone's previous point, there is value in someone who knows your likes, and who you have (and continue to develop) chemistry with.  And, that you get to know a little about each other over time (while maintaining boundaries).   I have hired a few other guys along the way, but it's now a rare exception.

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