Aaron James

I for one am grateful this thread was resurrected. I’d never heard of FFF. I wish I’d been around at the time. Reading his old posts has been a revelation!

That would be a real shame. He’s great at what he does. Hopefully he’s just doing the sensible thing right now and will be back up and running if and when things normalise

Yeah it's best practice to not pay upfront. And most professional escorts know and expect this. Technically, this is where it can even be legally problematic, because you are paying before you spend any time with the individual so it can appear that you are paying for sex instead of providing a donation for the person's time. I appreciated this being explained by a real great professional on my first session when I tried to pay him before we did anything. Anyone that asks up front, you should just politely say, "Sorry, but I am not comfortable doing that and have not done that in any previous situations like this." It usually happens only when the guy is new at the business.

Happened to me once, the provider didn't get his full rate. I realized after the session something was off and when I asked him about it he said he had done powder right before the session. So that annoyed me. Moving forward I try not book provider's with PNP in their profile, and I also make it clear that being able to get up and remain in that state is very important to me. Everyone is human and people definitely have off days but so far I've had no problems except for that one time.

Just venting here
 
I am so sex starved and I’m going crazy. DIY is not working anymore

He was 400 an hour both times I met him and both times he was easy to contact, very responsive (the second time was short notice) and very interactive - much more than I was expecting!

He was 400 an hour both times I met him and both times he was easy to contact, very responsive (the second time was short notice) and very interactive - much more than I was expecting!

He was 400 an hour both times I met him and both times he was easy to contact, very responsive (the second time was short notice) and very interactive - much more than I was expecting!

I have a pretty standard process that I enjoy and it works for me. I feel them out through seeking. If I like what I hear and see, I invite them to some public place for a platonic coffee or lunch that I pay for, and I thank them for their time with $100.00. I won’t talk to someone online longer than two weeks without meeting because I don’t enjoy the chase, or the guys that are too nervous or “never did this before.”
 
Some guys think it’s an easy way to make $100. I get some interesting stories and an opportunity to meet up without the expectation of anything sexual on the table. I’d say I’ve made the offer to at least 100 guys, 40 have taken it, and arrangements evolved with 6 that I enjoy. Covid has kept me from seeing them which has been a bummer.
 
It’s very different from a rentmen transaction. Those I like to get down to business and keep it short and sweet. Seeking has a very different pace, at least from my experience.

If you're concerned about $90, SA definitely wouldn't be worth it...

Thank god us Europeans have our shit together. I’ve got an epic weekend planned!

I always ask for a saliva swab.
 
I've got a fleet account with 23 And Me.

I totally got it and gave you a happy face as soon as I read it, even before reading others' comments and reactions. People need to chill the f*ck out. Keep the good dark humor!

Per Pornhub, the Most Popular Searches in its Gay section:

I like hiring straight guys because they're so much more fun to blow. They always feed me a load and then remark that I've just given them one of the best blowjobs they've ever had. They sure do get into it.
 
Gay guys, on the other hand, usually tell me that they can't get off via oral. And they don't. It's such a bummer.
 
And since sucking dick is my #1 favorite thing to do.... heck yeah, I prefer the straight guys.

For a massive group of gays, including me, straight men (even better if they are attached or married) are the ultimate fantasy.

My favorite local bartender, a straight guy whom I have drooled over for a couple years, joined OnlyFans recently. I joined his site and regret it. He’s so handsome and sexy (and nice) in person, but so awkward and unsexy online. And a small wiener. Ugh. I’m sure I’ll forget that if the bars ever reopen.
 
Anyway, in my experience OF is for guys who want money but don’t want to do anything more than tease. I’ve had better luck on Instagram.

I've posted in the forum before that answers I've received when I inquire with live dancers run the gamut from, "Oh NO! That would be prostitution!" to "Yes, but I'm expensive".......always be polite, professional, and discreet, and don't be creepy....smile, don't be grabby, dress nicely, use mouthwash (if live).......never use words like "escort" and similar in a live club setting when chatting up a dancer

The one positive here is there’s likely to be considerably fewer Republicans come November.

I got up as high as 16, with tips and a few custom vids. Currently cutting back and being more selective.
 
I wish camming did it for me!

I got up as high as 16, with tips and a few custom vids. Currently cutting back and being more selective.
 
I wish camming did it for me!

The one positive here is there’s likely to be considerably fewer Republicans come November.

I just don't understand a guy that knows all the lingo, the website and all....identify as straight. I mean come on. How did you learn all that. I'm gay and it took me a while and I was looking for it .

The one positive here is there’s likely to be considerably fewer Republicans come November.

The one positive here is there’s likely to be considerably fewer Republicans come November.