Aaron James

True, but “are you available for m$$t ups” does get through!

Use PlanetRomeo when in Europe. More choice and way more details than RM, including pricing!

Use PlanetRomeo when in Europe. More choice and way more details than RM, including pricing!

as I've said before, "influencers" are, in my opinion, among the lowest forms of life on Earth.......lazy, sleazy, insecure do-nothings doing nothing but pimping and whoring products and services to make a living.......
 
sorry to veer off topic, @Seanboiswimmer , but @hypothetically 's comments made me!

Yeah he‘s hot but there are plenty of other guys that won’t fleece you for their company.

No man who owns a leather harness and chaps is straight - not with those eyebrows....

Agreed
When I’m on my deathbed I’m going to get a big smile thinking about all the wonderful guys I met and fun i had. A much broader smile than when looking at a bank statement imagining the fun my heirs are going to have.

Last year about 15k, probably closer to 20k this year. In fact I’m doing more event hiring - overnights, weekends away - although the cadence has stayed the same.
 
Don’t regret a penny of it. I’m also not saving for a rainy day. What’s the point? Live whilst you can is my motto.

Last year about 15k, probably closer to 20k this year. In fact I’m doing more event hiring - overnights, weekends away - although the cadence has stayed the same.
 
Don’t regret a penny of it. I’m also not saving for a rainy day. What’s the point? Live whilst you can is my motto.

Last year about 15k, probably closer to 20k this year. In fact I’m doing more event hiring - overnights, weekends away - although the cadence has stayed the same.
 
Don’t regret a penny of it. I’m also not saving for a rainy day. What’s the point? Live whilst you can is my motto.

Last year about 15k, probably closer to 20k this year. In fact I’m doing more event hiring - overnights, weekends away - although the cadence has stayed the same.
 
Don’t regret a penny of it. I’m also not saving for a rainy day. What’s the point? Live whilst you can is my motto.

Last year about 15k, probably closer to 20k this year. In fact I’m doing more event hiring - overnights, weekends away - although the cadence has stayed the same.
 
Don’t regret a penny of it. I’m also not saving for a rainy day. What’s the point? Live whilst you can is my motto.

Last year about 15k, probably closer to 20k this year. In fact I’m doing more event hiring - overnights, weekends away - although the cadence has stayed the same.
 
Don’t regret a penny of it. I’m also not saving for a rainy day. What’s the point? Live whilst you can is my motto.

Last year about 15k, probably closer to 20k this year. In fact I’m doing more event hiring - overnights, weekends away - although the cadence has stayed the same.
 
Don’t regret a penny of it. I’m also not saving for a rainy day. What’s the point? Live whilst you can is my motto.

Last year about 15k, probably closer to 20k this year. In fact I’m doing more event hiring - overnights, weekends away - although the cadence has stayed the same.
 
Don’t regret a penny of it. I’m also not saving for a rainy day. What’s the point? Live whilst you can is my motto.

If an escort ever asks me for my stats and pic, here it is...
 

I’ve done it once on the agreement that it would cover our next meet... but before that meet he asked for another loan, some rambling post-midnight message about being in serious trouble and at risk of having his fingers cut off.
 
I didn’t reply.
 
Weirdly he messaged about 4 weeks later like nothing had happened. And still messages me every now and then to this day. Apparently his fingers are still working.
 
Never ever loan an escort money! As with a deposit or payment up front, I don’t do it and if that’s a problem they know where the door is.

Unfortunateply, as others have said, even the mere request for
cash will make the relationship weird. No matter what you do.
 
When I get this request I simply respond with a lighthearted
”nobody rides for free”. If they’re too dense to get it, I follow up
with ”ass, gas or grass....I don’t smoke and my car’s tank is full....
get to work”.
 
Escorting is work. Plain and simple. Even though its natural to bond,
you can never forget it’s a business relationship. Keep it healthy.
Otherwise, resentment is guaranteed to develop...on both sides.

I’ve done it once on the agreement that it would cover our next meet... but before that meet he asked for another loan, some rambling post-midnight message about being in serious trouble and at risk of having his fingers cut off.
 
I didn’t reply.
 
Weirdly he messaged about 4 weeks later like nothing had happened. And still messages me every now and then to this day. Apparently his fingers are still working.
 
Never ever loan an escort money! As with a deposit or payment up front, I don’t do it and if that’s a problem they know where the door is.

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FUCK no.
Twice I had pretty regular guys, seeing them about once a week as long I was in town. I was out of town and one asked for an advance on the next session.....I agreed; that was April and he's been flakey or just ignored me since. He's pretty stupid because he lost a devoted regular client over $300....
 
Other Escort had gotten too close....was texting me daily about his life and regular job...friends etc and then when he was in a cash crunch wanted an advance. He eventually did make good on it but as soon as he performed for the prior "loan" in a couple days wanted another one. He still messages me and I don't even care to collect. Escorts can make a TON of money if they're good and reliable and can even put away money for the future. There's no need to reward the flakey ones who can't budget and who rather than treat their work as a business (work hard at the gym, respond to messages quickly, update their marketing regularly etc) spend too much time and money on traveling, shopping & partying.

Just change your terminology - it's not a loan, it's a gift. If later on you get a gift in return, all the better, but never go into the equation expecting repayment and you'll have no regrets.

After using SA for the last couple months I can honestly say I’m done.
 
I’ve had a couple of decent meets, but neither will become regulars. I’ve had 4-5 other meets where the guys were either drunk, high, socially inept, and not in any way someone I’d feel comfortable inviting to a hotel room.
 
The quality of guys in other countries and cities might be better than London, but I’m sticking with RM and SleepBoy from here on in.

Yes, escorts are pummeled all day long with emails and txts from creeps, flakes, drunks/druggies, time wasters and jack-offs (people who are getting off on the interaction alone with no intention of hiring). Time is money. Advice (since you asked): Get the deal done in 3 txts max. Txt1: Hello is this (his name), (your name) here. Love your profile. [this is to confirm you ate txting the right person B4 getting into details] Txt2: Hey thanks. Looking for the following: (describe concisely your scenario including location date/time), are we a match? Txt3: Thanks, sounds hot. Can you confirm your rate for (times)? If you stick with this formula, they will know you are for real and not one of the above. And they will be thankful you are being respectful of their time. A few more txts is OK especially as you get close to comfirm. Remember this is a business transaction not a relationship. You wouldn't call the car dealership 500 times before buying the car.

In Vegas, the Cosmopolitan or the Cromwell. Grown up hotels with spacious rooms.
In London, the Park Plaza Westminster. Great central location and room upgrades with Amex Platinum.
In LA, the Bonaventure.
I’m a huge fan of being anonymous and not worrying that Security are monitoring my whereabouts.

Too true!
 
When I met with Jack (Ottaviani) he’d said he was straight and only into worship, but we ended up having a much more interactive time. I’d like to think it was my sparkling personality and dry wit, but more likely that I was clean, not a weirdo and had deep-ish pockets.