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He changes his name often, that's a red flag for me.

I saw him this evening.  Very non-erotic, but decent massage skills.  Kept his underwear on the entire time.  When I asked about him being more erotic in the massage, he stated only if he feels a connection will he do a more erotic massage.

That would be a dream! I'd love to go!! 

Sam here. $300 and no anal. Also not very communicative in the email exchanges. I took a pass.

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Although peep shows with GH's are fun and bars with dancers and back room are even better, my go-to are those adult theatres that have some action going on. Nothing I love better than to kneel down in front an oral top seated with his dick out and enjoying servicing, sucking and draining him. I have discovered some great places in Phoenix, Seattle and California but wondered if anyone has other top recommendations to share anywhere in North America. I like to take mini vacays to cities, check into a hotel and then find a couple of fun adult theatres to spend hours in. Houston has a great place called the Executive Adult Theatre that I've also enjoyed. Give me some ideas! And if you're into the scene, I host here in AZ.

I’m more than willing to help these performers who go “independent” via OF and JFF, which is why I subscribe, but I’m also going to spend my dollars where I get the best value and not where I’m treated like an ATM.
 
I’ve had private DM conversations with Griffin Barrows without any tip or additional donation expected or required. That, along with updated, hot content without up-selling is why I keep subscribing each month and probably why he continually ranks among the top page creators on both OF and JFF.

1. Some people like financially supporting the people who produce porn. If everyone watched everything for free there would quickly be a dearth of new content.
 
2. Even if you only want to watch porn for free, it's not always easy to find every scene you want to view, to view the full length of the scene you want to see, to view the scene in high resolution or to have the scene download at a reasonable speed for viewing offline.

The next commander in chief

Hmm a few years back:
 
-I saw Brent Everett in two different airports on three separate occasions...twice in San Diego and once in Charlotte.
 
-I saw Brent Corrigan at a FedEx of all places
 
-And I went to boot camp with and served in the same unit with Jonathan West from All Worlds video right before he started in porn. Lol

Back around 2008 or so I saw that CutlerX was in Montreal so I considered setting up a date with him. Later that same day I was on Ste Catherine Street when who should walk out of Le Stock stripper bar but CutlerX. He walked right past me and I was surprised a bit about his height. He lists 5' 10" I think in his ad but I thought he looked more like 5' 8". I'm 5'11".
 
Of course he makes up for his vertical shortcomings by his horizontal dimensions. LOL Anyway, I gave him a pass for whatever reason.

A friend told me he was in California and met an old high school friend for dinner; the friend was getting all sorts of looks in the restaurant. Turns out his friend was Blake Harper.

Without thinking too hard, I remember seeing:
 
Brad McGuire tending bar in the Castro.
Lito Cruz on a treadmill at the gym -- must have been during a visit because I don't think he lived here.
Jim Bentley more than once, just out and about in San Francisco.
Michael Brandon -- way past his heyday, sadly being "auctioned off" for a date at the Eagle bar in San Francisco, with seemingly very little interest from the crowd.
Various guys at Folsom Street Fair over the years.
Some really cute guy whose name I don't remember was a regular at the gym I went to in the early 1990s. Dark haired but much shorter than I anticipated. My boyfriend at the time told me that a lot of porn stars are shorter than one might think; maybe he knew cuz he got around a lot.

I saw Jason Adonis prowling down a street near the old Nob Hill Theater, looking like he really wanted to get laid. (I was on the bus, so I couldn't help him).

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Had sex with a woman.

Never, Ever have I been fucked.
 
In public..
 
On a Wednesday...
 
Before Sunset...
 
By a black man...
 
Named Biff.

Interesting thread here: [MEDIA=reddit]askgaybros/comments/cq091h[/MEDIA]
 
I do it because there are slim pickings in my area on the apps. Why not pay a few hundred for a fantasy man you see in porn / on Instagram? Better that that fucking some random you're not attracted to just because they're there.

Lol. No. I find the discussion and the conflict to be interesting and engaging to me.

I prefer the "fuckbuddy experience".

@Wolfer, what I do, in order
1. Check if his ad lists what you want to do.
2. Check if there is any weird text in his ad that makes him unattractive to you, not just the pics and stats
3. Check if he has any daddy reviews.
4. Check if he has any discussion thread on M4M forums
If the above is not conclusive,
5. Do a google search on his phone number. This should return only links to his own ads. If it returns ads to other people, big red flag.
6. Do an image search on google for the pictures in his ad. This often will return his other social media accounts, like Instagram, as escorts often use a picture for multiple purposes. Check that the current location of the guy on Instagram matches the current location of the guy on rentmen etc. If name, language of posts, location, doesn’t match, big red flag.
If no red flag came up, it is time to communicate.
7. Write a text explaining where you saw his ad, who you are, when you think of hiring him, and add to that any non-explicit questions. This can be done all in one text, I don’t need to keep going back and forth. As long the basics are agreed, like kissing, top/bottom, we can discuss the details in person when we meet.
8. Make a judgement based on the sanity and completeness of the answers (I am not dealing with answers I don’t understand).
9. Confirm the place, time and price.
 
Sometimes, you will be the first to report, therefore it feels like taking the plunge. But what is life without risks?

Oh Lord. Where to begin. The Venn diagram
for escorts and flakes would show a huge overlap.
 
My rule is contact them once and wait 24 hours. Since responding if their business there’s no excuse for not doing so. Then move on. If they ever contact me (almost never) I politely say “sorry, I made other plans when you didn’t respond” even if I haven’t. Lack of an initial timely response has a large correlation with later disappointment.

Ok, food and people are not the same.