JBrian72

It could be because I am drunk right now but I was laughing so hard at this that I cried. I hope you don't mind man. Reading this is the perfect way to end my day. I think you win!!!!!!

Many moons ago..... Jake Deckard. I was young (maybe 20 years ago) and enamored of the pics he was posting on the internet. I had never been to a masseur before and reading up, and ogling over his pics, I created this great big fantasy of how wonderful it would all be and how happy and satisfied it would make me. Well, I arrived 15 minutes early - anxious to be there. I didn't think much to have the desk guy call up to say I was there. Jake wasn't very happy about my early arrival - which I can now totally understand - he gasped and sighed and over the phone said I should wait. I was upset at myself for being early and sat, waiting in the lobby. Once I went up, in my nervousness, I think I said all the wrong things which made him appear even less happy with my presence (I think I tried to ask him what else he did other than massage and he might have taken that as offensive - which I really didn't mean in a bad way, as being a masseur is a totally legitimate profession, and I was awkwardly trying to make small talk)...Maybe he had personal stuff going on as well, I don't know. Well, during the massage, not sure of how to go about it, I tried touching him but he kept batting my hand away, huffing and puffing like I was ruining his routine - a master doing his work... So I just gave up and laid there, miserable - with some hot dude who I totally offended mad at me and distant. My fantasy of how wonderful it would all be shattered and I couldn't stop wondering wtf I did. Finally, at some point, when he was ready, something started poking my head and I outright asked him, "May I....?" That was kinda weird. I imagined it would have been sexier than that. It was mechanical - no warmth. I half nearly choked, gave myself a HE, and left. I walked down the street sad, mad at myself for I-don't-know-what. I'd have to say that was the worst experience I've ever had.
 
Years later, however, watching Tim Kruger rip Jake's asshole apart on video gave me a sick sense of pleasure, LOL..... Thanks, Tim!

Sometimes when you're face down, with your arms at your side, and palms up, certain things get close and are just begging for a little squeeze.

True... the casual rub is a nice surprise. Hehe.

It's always nice if they are sitting on you to feel a little extra something or if they are stretching across you and you get a handful is a good bonus and a cue they are ok with mutual touching.

I always like the casual rub against my hand or thrill of the unknown of a fully naked masseur....the anticipation usually is greater than the actual, but sometimes am very pleasantly surprised.

I saw TJ when he was visiting my city. I remember the conversation more than the massage. That's not to say it was lacking, but I just found I really enjoyed talking to him more than most massage therapists I've seen. He's really laid back, wasn't fussy about me running late, definitely wasn't a clock watcher. Great sense of humor, but can come off a bit spacey.

TJ is a very nice guy. Much more attractive than he is skilled in massage. He also has an awesome body. He has the nicest ass for a thin guy that I have ever seen!

Use a virtual phone number... It has happened to me with one masseur, I do not need to be discreet, but it's a annoying.

That is one hot AF 40 year old if those pictures are accurate/recent!

I had somewhat similar experiences. I started getting massage at 25. Most of the therapists were older and eager to play. In my 30's and 40's, I had many pleasurable experiences with therapists, often around my age. Now that I'm older, I tend to look for therapists over 30, although I have been surprised by the interaction I've had with a few therapists in their 20's.

He's been my habit for a while now, whenever I get a chance. And I may go out of my way to create that chance :-). Chicago has a ton of masseurs but Indy holds a real treasure.

He was lean, yes a little hair on his chest...bald I don't remember. I just know that he was absolutely the best sensual experience I ever had with anyone....he knew a mans body and how to be erotic will all of a mans sensitive points....I would leave drained because of the experience but so in touch with my body and my sensuality.

I think I remember who you are talking about. I forgot his name but I saw a guy on Geary also.....the massages lasted a long time and he used many different things to sensualize the body. We was especially fond of the rear end as I remember....haha. He was one of a kind.

Yes this has always been an issue for me. Almost mid 50s' (wow where did that time go) I always feel like uncle pervy if I am getting a massage from someone in their 20s. Though I do on rare occasion. I have had really good massages from every age group over the years. Though some of the worst have been older guys 30's to 50's. Age doesn't always bring expertise and some just have natural skills at an early age. I think if you are hiring someone in their 20's read the text in the ad carefully. That and the pictures are good clues. If it is all about them and little about the client experience you shouldn't be surprised by a bad massage. A photo of the massage space is a great clue to the type of experience you might encounter, a 20 something that has taken the time and effort to create an environment conducive to a relaxing massage is usually one that cares about his clientele. In all honesty when we were in our 20's we probably would have preferred to massage athletes and models over paunchy old guys but that is the trick, finding a person who generally cares about the client no matter what age or how he looks.

My current 'Go To Guy' is 50 years younger than I am. I don't think age has anything to do with it. There are professionals and amateurs of all ages.

I'd say it's more about mutual attitude and chemistry than age differences. I usually look for masseurs 30-40 years younger than me, and have had great results. Yes, probably more of my share of misfires from the age group I'm using for massage. But it's my preference, my due diligence, and my result.
 
Also, I take exception when someone uses the word "pervy" to describe a client liking the older/younger vibe.

I had somewhat similar experiences. I started getting massage at 25. Most of the therapists were older and eager to play. In my 30's and 40's, I had many pleasurable experiences with therapists, often around my age. Now that I'm older, I tend to look for therapists over 30, although I have been surprised by the interaction I've had with a few therapists in their 20's.

A Single Man (2010). With terrific acting from Colin Firth - and beautiful Nicholas Hoult as every gay man's dream college groupie. Based on a novel by Christopher Isherwood it portrays one day (November 30, 1962) in the life of a college professor (George) who has recently lost his longtime partner and is contemplating suicide. And whenever I'm having one of those crappy days I remind myself of what George tells himself on November 30, 1962: "Just get through the goddamn day."

Undertow https://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/undertow_2009

Have not tried him though I've checked out his ad as well. I think im more intimidated by his body art

Bryan give a great massage. Has a nice studio in his apartment in Rogers Park. Very skilled and a nice guy. Therapeutic and sensual - definitely recommend as I have seen him a number of times over the last few years.

That's a good approach too. My approach is to NEVER use my real phone number to contact them. I use a virtual phone. So when Tai texts me it don't get an actual text, only when I login to my virtual phone account I see all the texts he's sent me. Even after months of me not replying he keeps sending them. Also I can change my virtual phone number at anytime if needed.