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The Capitals just won the Stanley Cup, so YES!

Conch not gonch ...

Again. "That's just the way it is" Seriously? Everything changes all the times. Gay rights was just an obvious example of how things aren't just that way it is. Homophobia is challenged and beaten back. If the gay activists of the 70s and 80s had the attitude of "that's just the way it is" we'd be living in a much more limited world for gay men. And yes this is connected to physical attraction. The gay rights movement opened up gay men's lives to more fully explore the ways we bond with each other. Again being gay is about how we bond with other men, its not limited to physical attraction, that is one aspect of it, and it's debatable whether its the most important. Of course historically when a quick fuck in a public place was the most that a lot of closeted gay men could expect as far as expressing their gayness, physical attraction could get fetishized. We can unpack (pun intended) that fetishizing of the sexual aspect of our bonding.

"That's just the way it is" ... seriously? You can say that after the changes made by the gay rights movement. Things can/do change. "A great way to act (a social norm) on this is for older gay men to value (psychology) their contemporaries ... etc. "

I was talking more about our psychology and social norms, I think you're talking about hormones.

a great way to act on this is for older gay men to value their contemporaries for their looks and stop chasing young kids and start chasing their contemporaries. I keep thinking to my self "its a gym, its' not a time machine." this is something I struggle with to be honest. I am interested in how younger men experience current sexuality - my historicism I suppose. Talking to Victor Powers totally interests me to hear about another person's experience, but no interest in fucking him (and Victor it isn't because you aren't hot ... it's me, not you ... haha.)

He's even prettier up close

Uber was working last October in Montreal.

Every possible moment, yes.

Go see his circus act if you get a chance. He's a great performer on the silks

I hate this kind of sleazy "journalism." I wouldn't want my Manhunt ad (not that I have one) plastered all over the internet off the site - don't know why it's okay just because someone is a celebrity. Feels kind of shitty to be treating "a brother" this way

Garrett and I are getting a room later

I have no issue with a twink saying that. You expect it. My problem is with the mature guys saying the same damn thing except by dad they're meaning guys their own age or even remotely near it. We have a huge problem with ageism and it's not just coming from the twinks. Too many gay men living like Peter Pan and unless your David Geffen it ain't pretty.

That looks like a lot of January - March babies

That looks like a lot of January - March babies

He's on "the pill"

In Canada ... sinko de mayo
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Thank you for the nod in the title to those of us for whom 'hockey' means astro-turf (or grass), a ball and the summer Olympics!

In Canada ... sinko de mayo
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In Canada ... sinko de mayo
http://www.sondrakistan.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/sinko-de-mayo-e1430832198458.jpg

In a heart beat http://summit16.sapns2.com/wp-content/uploads/speaker-dilanian-1.jpg

I went to a Chinese restaurant in a small Washington State town last year and they had no tofu. Weird. I know, off topic.

that's because you have voluntary debauchery ... haha

that's because you have voluntary debauchery ... haha