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I can remember two times.  I always thought the top had a lot to do with it, and how I felt about the top.  They were both guys who were so hot that I couldn't believe my good fortune in having bagged them.  They both had the same kind of dick - long and straight.   And they both fucked the same way - deep and slow.

I'm glad your experience has been better than mine.  I had more or less gotten used to all the problems.  I stopped taking it because it started driving my BP very low. For me, Cialis is a better option.  As long as I wear compression socks, I dont have any problem with postural hypotension, I pee great. and I get great boners.

I have been taking it for 9 years now, and I have to say that the only difference from "before" is a different ejaculation. Generally less sperm than before, yes, but if very aroused I still shoot a lot and far, almost like I always did in the past....

What a work of engineering we males are!😊

I’ve had several… one was from a dom I okayed with… it was preceded by some very hot Fetish play and towards the end, I was bound to a table, legs up in stirrups, he moved into me with slow long strokes allllllll the way in and then allllllll the way out. He had an upCurvy dick with big mushroom head… Every once in awhile he would sink that monster very deep and just push… then pull all the way out really quickly~  The build up was phenomenal~    
 This went on and on for the longest time, (45 mins or so…)~   Slow and steady…
 Finally, he took to pounding my hole with short but, fierce strokes and my ass went into intense spasms… I felt like I was having a baby~ My ass was having these waves of uncontrollable contractions… I shot a massive/explosive round of hands free ropes that splashed across my chest, face and hair… it’s was amazing~   
 I’ve given others ass orgasms via fucking and fisting… it almost always involves slow Rhythmic gentle strokes initially followed by sudden fierce pounding… That seems to set things off.
 I think it helps to have an upCurvy dick but, a long flexible dick that goes past your Second gate seems to trigger that as well~ 
 I’ve also developed a technique to bring about a handsfree anal and Prostatic orgasm using the metal toy attached here. The idea is to insert the toy, (either end works and both sides provide a different sensation), applying careful but, constant pressure just behind the seminal vesicles and/or against the pelvic plexus, (see below)~  (each spot is in different locations but, the “s” curve of this toy and the intermittently placed balls can help hit both spots or select for just one specific spot giving focused sensations).
 The first result is basically prostate milking, ( amazing how much precum and jizz you can juice out with the proper careful technique… it’s fun to milk into a shot glass or other fun container~).  Milking is an option… You can keep your prostate fully loaded and skip to this next part. 
  If you aim for the nerve bundle near the pelvis plexus, you forego the majority of milking product but, you feel this constant urge to cum that keeps building up and building up until finally, you sense these unstoppable waves of… hmmm, how do I describe the sensation, “shivering” but, it’s vibrating and intensely “electric” feeling… it makes the hair stand up on my forearms and my nips get extremely hard. 
 The waves come more rapidly until they melt together into an extended explosive crescendo of inner orgasm that is unequaled and vastly different than a penile stimulation orgasm~ 
 I find that it takes a bit of adjusting to find the exact spot that triggers this but, it is so worth the tiny distraction~   
 This is of interest to me because I don’t really masturbate manually, (or at all for the most part unless together with a mate~). If I do any self love, it’s going to be something hands free~   
 Dick orgasms can be intense for me and my dick gets really sensitive… I love continued stimulation to the head of my dick even after I’ve cum… that can often keep me hard and I can often bust a nut on the same hard-on, (via manual stimulation, by fucking some hungry butt or with a finger up the butt & attention to my nips), if done properly using slow stokes and simple observation to see what “touch” is keeping my dick hard~    
 It’s nothing much like the inner assgasm… very separate experience felt in different parts of my body and the sensations are boldly more complex with the prostate and assgasm~ 
 Regarding the metal toy: some guys love the feeling, (starts out cold and warms up once inside your body). Other guys are intimated by the idea of the toy being metal and inside of them~ They fear it’s going to hurt or damage them. What’s important here is that there isn’t any “fucking” motions going on… it’s gentle pressure carefully applied at specific areas near your seminal vesicles and against your pelvic plexus. The technique doesn’t even involve prostrate massage unless you specifically milk it~
 When I cum this way, I feel my prostate  prostate and surrounding areas quake almost exclusively and much less so feel sensations in my penis.   
 Afterwards, the head of my dick is very sensitive and my dick seems to stay chubby for a long time~ I find it really enjoyable and also, extremely relaxing… different than the afterglow of a dick orgasm. 
 To compare the experiences is like comparing taste to smell… connected and yet, quite different. 

Yes, he is attractive, but he is not a leader but a puppet. All politiciens are kind of actors, he is good at it.

@OP, have you had any success with these toys? Do you recommen? Thanks!

As a top, I have been with a few guys who experience anal orgasms. It seems to be a full-body experience, meaning their entire body trembles. For me it's a really amazing and satisfying experience when it does happen.

Yes, for me at least it's almost a whole body experience, but my sphincter will definitely be contracting and legs trembling (even if I'm on my back). It's a really long orgasm for me. Feels great. Although afterwards, my sphincter will be SUPER sensitive, so any further anal play can be uncomfortable until I recover.

I think I've given 5-7 guys genuine, full body anal orgasms, and knowing I got them off in that way is truly flattering... It's up there with getting guys so turned on they anally lubricate...

For a period of time, I took Flomax for prostate symptoms.  I stopped taking it , but that's another story.  Anybody who has taken Flomax knows that it really changes your sex life - orgasm becomes exceedingly difficult and some people (me included) experience retrograde ejaculation where, when you cum, you squirt backward into your bladder.  It's a strange feeling and not very satisfying.    But what happened with me, when I was beating off, is that I started having these earth-shattering anal orgasms, that were like full-body orgasms.   It seemed like a fair trade to me - you don't get to have normal orgasms any more, but you get to have anal orgasms that are almost like out-of-body experiences.

Yes, he is attractive, but he is not a leader but a puppet. All politiciens are kind of actors, he is good at it.

I guess OP would also like to know if there are some tricks to help you be able to have many clients a day, not only like now, that's my nature, I just can make it.😉

I regularly met a provider who has a profile on both Rentmen and Rentmasseur. I contacted him on Rentmasseur, but got a full service. I asked what he would offer for the guys from Rentmen. He told me it was the same. He is willing to offer a full service as long as the client doesn't refuse. 

I’ve a client who was so excited when he first visited he had an ejaculation when his pants came down, before we’d started anything. 
Now when he comes to see me he’s still very quick to climax so to make things more relaxed for him we agree that I’d bring him off orally before massage and then he can relax and enjoy the massage with another climax near the end.
Occasionally if it’s a longer session there’s one in the middle too. He lets me know whether to release him or not. Gradually he’s becoming more able to delay things and learn when he’s too close.
I have a scale I tell him where 0 is totally soft and 10 is cum shooting out. At 8 it’s the point where you know you’re going to cum and it can’t be stopped. So I tell him 7 is the last point where he can go back to a 5 or 6 state of arousal. If he reaches 7 we stop and I massage his head. Now he’s able to recognise 7 and tell me to stop, by saying 7. It’s like a safe word lol. 

I always sleep naked. When I get up, I don't put on underwear but pyjamas. I put on my underwear only when I go out. Since I stay at home most of time during the pandemic, I often don't wear underwear for a few days in row.

A new Health Status feature in the About Me section has been introduced, this feature will allow you to optionally indicate your health status to other users, HIV and COVID19 
How do you think about it?
Are you willing to show your status there?

I'm HIV negative and fully vaccinated, and I've indicated both on my both RentMen and RentMasseur.
However, I'm not sure the HIV question is fair.  I would definitely encourage clients to ask providers individually about their status if they would like to know.  But I feel for those who are positive, aren't comfortable being dismissed out of hand by posting it for the world to see, then either lying or leaving it blank which brings its own problems.  Huh.  Have to think about this one.
My instinct is that "what is your HIV status" is a fair, private, question (even though, yes, people can and do lie), but this feels almost like a strong-arm tactic.  And yet, hyporcritically, I don't feel this way about the COVID status question.
If they are going to ask about HIV, they definitely should have "Yes and undetectable", with a link to what UNDETECTABLE is, as an option.

As a registered client, I put it.
 

I received this email from Rent Men this morning.  Just posting as a public service announcement  
 
The world is changing, so is RentMen!

In the light of the COVID-19 pandemic rattling people’s everyday life, we are taking steps to improve user awareness and provide more informative experience to our members.

We are glad to inform you that as of Oct.22 we’ll be introducing a new Health Status feature in the About Me section of your profile. This feature will allow you to optionally indicate your health status to other users, so they would be able to make informed decisions.

In addition, note that the current COVID-19 SAFE MODE will be removed with the introduction of the Health Status feature.

As always, don’t hesitate to contact the Webmaster in the RM chat, if you have any questions or experience difficulties with the new feature.

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I just got an email on rentmen that this will be added to their site starting Oct. 22

I would put my status on no worries. If that is going to make the client more comfortable.

Oh yes I got a message from Rentmasseur about that recently. It’s a good idea. I’ll put my status on there, both Covid and HIV.
People do hire on the site for more than just a massage. Most of my clients from there want more than just massage. If they’re receiving oral or want to suck me then they’ll care about sexual health. The clients that care about these things are the ones I like. The clients who have disregard for their sexual health are not so welcome. 

So far, no.  Any guy I’ve met who is listed on both is really just an escort.

Yes, I’m a provider. I think he misunderstood. But the crucial point is that I don’t guarantee or promise (or charge for) more than a naked happy ending massage in my sensual massage service. If more happens (as in sex) then it’s because it feels right for both my client and me. That way there’s no pressures or expectations. My clients get a great sensual massage, they get release, they can it’s erotic and relaxing.