Shawn Monroe

When I was still working in office, my hours were set from 12-2 (for a lunch appointment if one came up), then 5-11. 
Once a client reached out and asked if I could meet “on my break time from 2-5” and I had to respond that I’m not just lying on the couch during that time; I was back in the office. 
just saying this to say that sometimes routine is important. Jumping at the chance to take any and every appointment can hinder other parts of your life. 

There are ways to get around this - I go to the gym at 6:30 am, so it’s out of the way. That being said, I can’t take appointments after 10pm to be ready for the gym. 
 
either way I’m agreeing with everyone here - routine and boundaries are important. 

There are ways to get around this - I go to the gym at 6:30 am, so it’s out of the way. That being said, I can’t take appointments after 10pm to be ready for the gym. 
 
either way I’m agreeing with everyone here - routine and boundaries are important. 

There are ways to get around this - I go to the gym at 6:30 am, so it’s out of the way. That being said, I can’t take appointments after 10pm to be ready for the gym. 
 
either way I’m agreeing with everyone here - routine and boundaries are important. 

When I was still working in office, my hours were set from 12-2 (for a lunch appointment if one came up), then 5-11. 
Once a client reached out and asked if I could meet “on my break time from 2-5” and I had to respond that I’m not just lying on the couch during that time; I was back in the office. 
just saying this to say that sometimes routine is important. Jumping at the chance to take any and every appointment can hinder other parts of your life. 

Also, some muscular escorts (including some I met)  have problems with body dysmorphia. They have a psychological need to work out to keep their bodies looking good. In the 90s we called them body fascists. 
 
Ironically,  such gym addicts often have self esteem issues. In college, I watched a skinny little twerp who knew psychology manipulate a muscular Black gym bunny and law student into his bed.

I’ve learned that you need to set boundaries doing this work. It’s easy, and tempting to take clients at any time, even changing your plans to accommodate a client.
Unfortunately that’s a recipe for dissatisfaction because you fail to make time for important things. Keeping fit is an important part of the job, just as making time for yourself. It’s not a 9 to 5 job (thankfully) but that doesn’t mean you work anytime 7 days a week.
I carve out time to go to gym, see friends etc and I generally won’t cancel those things to see a client, especially if it’s a short notice booking, which a lot are. 

Is this a question or a complaint?

What if your boss went to you and said “I know your salary is this, but we are going to pay you less, for no reason. Will you take it?”
 

analogy aside, some do it in a completely tactless way. First message will be “hi Shawn - looking for an appointment. Do you offer discounts?”

What if your boss went to you and said “I know your salary is this, but we are going to pay you less, for no reason. Will you take it?”
 

What if your boss went to you and said “I know your salary is this, but we are going to pay you less, for no reason. Will you take it?”
 

First, welcome to the forum. I can only provide (and maybe) some insights based on my own experiences, but by now you might know that different people experience different things.
I didn't struggle with feelings afterwards when I decided to finally hire because I did not hire until I was sure that I was not going to have feelings of regret, shame, embarassment or anything negative that can impact my wellbeing. (Probably like you are doing now) I decided that it was more workable for me if I worked on those feelings and their source first. I rarely take actions that I am not 100% sure I can take without consequences. What I found in my case were the typical twisted notions of sex within a client/provider setting coming from my Christian upbrining, which were quite hypocritical and inappropriate. Something else that I found was that I was already paying and had paid for sex many, many times before in other ways:
Going to bath houses Going to peepshows Going to adult movie places Paying for drinks at a bar to a guy I'm interested in Going to sex parties None, not a one of those things are free, and the purpose of all of them is sex. So yes, I have been paying for sex for quite some time.
Then there's the convenience factor. Some of the service that I have looked for in providers have to do with my overal mental and physical wellbeing; it's noit just sexual pleasure alone. Others look for a deeper connection in the form of a "boyfriend experience".
Like you, I am married and I have no interest in having any committed relationship with another person. My husband does not/cannot provide everything there is for me to have in terms of physical or sexual contact (no need to get into details on that).
I also found that something that helped was the use of sensual and erotic massages since it is meant to be a relaxing, "put you at ease" experience with sensual/sexual elements.
I'm not a provider, so I will not comment on the question that you have to them. I defer to expertise on that.
I hope this helps. Again, welcome to the forum.

Some clients ask to book the first appointment of the day. I know why!
I rarely see more than 2 a day. Most clients don’t expect me to cum, and then once they’ve cum that’s their interest in me cuming done with! 
I sometimes get clients who ask for me to cum but I don’t make any promises. Usually it’s ok. Today I saw a client with another masseur, we did a 4 hands but it was more of an escort style session and I cum in the clients mouth (we were taking turns to spit roast him). It hadn’t been discussed except of course the client had said he wanted that kind of session, which is usually how 4 hands develop. 

 

<Simon creeping out of the shadows, skin burning more and more intensely>….
I never schedule back-to-back appointments when I know for sure each of them wants me to cum. Even if I *could* do it doesn’t mean I should. I’m all about quality control. I want the client to be happy with my intensity leading up to and including that special moment. Lots of cum too. I don’t want to shortchange anyone with a modest dribble, now do I?
I’ll do two or more per day when one or more of the following apply:
1) I know one or more of the clients doesn’t want/need/expect me to cum, or prefers me not to cum.
2) The appointments are spread out i.e. one in the morning, one in the evening. That’s the typical scenario when I have more than one.
3) I have backup i.e. another guy the client hired for us to tag team together. Not a substitute, but more to get me going and the client going moreso than 1:1. These are uncommon, but great to have (and super fun too!).
4) I have a lot saved up from not ejaculating in day(s) prior for whatever reasons, some related to my work, some not.
5) Client wants a tantra style session wherein the client, myself, or both of us achieve extended non-ejaculatory orgasms. These can be quite intense, and most clients aren’t up to all that. A handful are. Since I don’t ejaculate, but still have an orgasm, I carry over the built up sexual tension and energy to my next appointment.
Lots of clients want my cum but aren’t willing to pay for that level of service. I don’t cum for regular massage clients, even though they request or beg for it. When I explain I can’t cum six times a day on command for a massage (which is hard, honest work on its own btw), most seem to understand. That’s most of my business. Since I am only cumming for those paying escort rates, the economics of it all tends to balance itself out well.

He said “lurk this sub” like we aren’t here in broad daylight. I live. 

So never quite the Cream Pi but getting close.

Depends how much cum they want and where they want it. 

He said “lurk this sub” like we aren’t here in broad daylight. I live. 

Back in your hidey hole!  🙂 

He said “lurk this sub” like we aren’t here in broad daylight. I live. 

He said “lurk this sub” like we aren’t here in broad daylight. I live. 

He said “lurk this sub” like we aren’t here in broad daylight. I live. 

He said “lurk this sub” like we aren’t here in broad daylight. I live. 

He said “lurk this sub” like we aren’t here in broad daylight. I live.