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Very true @WilliamM It is the same in general terms. Obviously if like the OP you aim to make friends with a view to “benefits”, you have to be sure the other man Is gay and not just gay-friendly. That’s why I found the gym fruitful. I was known to be gay and a nice guy, so I had a mix of gym-friends - some str8, some gay and some just relaxed about being friends with a gay man. I guess the OP will have to invest some time and energy in making friends. I didn’t really understand his reference to the “Rentafriend site” as I certainly don’t imagine the OP thinks it’s a way to meet an escort on the cheap, but I guess that if you befriend another gay man, you may find it develops and you have a friend-with-benefits.

I don’t think so @jimmyLA but I feel it’s key to find the right person and become friends (as you put it, “guy friends”) first. Look for someone who enjoys the same activities as you or shares the same interests, and you can build a relationship from there. Over the years I’ve had 2 such relationships. The first is someone with whom I had exactly the type of friendship you describe: we had the gym in common (met there, worked out together, I invited him for a meal). We had sex occasionally after the gym. I invited him on (non-sexual) dates and we had a couple of vacations together. The second was someone who was my physical ideal and sexually we were utterly compatible, so lust was what we had in common. Tho we tried sharing various other activities, sexual dates were far and away the best for both of us. I’ve stayed friends with both men. I’ve been very clear that when I have an exclusive boyfriend, I don’t cheat on him. Both men seem fine with this and when I’m single, I have 2 nice guys to meet and if they want, we play together.

I don’t think so @jimmyLA but I feel it’s key to find the right person and become friends (as you put it, “guy friends”) first. Look for someone who enjoys the same activities as you or shares the same interests, and you can build a relationship from there. Over the years I’ve had 2 such relationships. The first is someone with whom I had exactly the type of friendship you describe: we had the gym in common (met there, worked out together, I invited him for a meal). We had sex occasionally after the gym. I invited him on (non-sexual) dates and we had a couple of vacations together. The second was someone who was my physical ideal and sexually we were utterly compatible, so lust was what we had in common. Tho we tried sharing various other activities, sexual dates were far and away the best for both of us. I’ve stayed friends with both men. I’ve been very clear that when I have an exclusive boyfriend, I don’t cheat on him. Both men seem fine with this and when I’m single, I have 2 nice guys to meet and if they want, we play together.

Very cute...Jakub when he was young. Chunky now he’s older. And @Oliver you have him in your “Soaked” selection right now too!

I don’t think it’s common. I wonder if it came about because you were on your back, legs up and as you say he was pounding away hard...so your abs would have been tensed for a long time.

Yes, I have shared my experiences in hiring with several close friends. There’s no reason to be ashamed. And it can be helpful to discuss private concerns with good friends. i was not being “negative” and I was polite to you. I felt your post was ‘making a mountain out of a molehill‘. This is your post in essence: You are in LA to look at houses to buy; You tried to arrange a date; You told the guy you wanted a couple of specific things; He wanted to charge extra to do so; You declined to pay extra, so there was no date. I bet this has happened at least once, and perhaps several times, to everyone on this forum. Or indeed to everyone who has ever tried to arrange a date with a working guy.

Woof!

Very interesting thread @WilliamM. Thanks for posting the review. i saw the opera a few years ago at the Teatro Colon in Buenos Aires. The orchestral playing was superb but the production itself was bizarre, with some very racist overtones injected (and I wasn’t sure if this was a reference to the anti-Semitism of the time).

I mean this politely @Unicorn but why do you feel the need to broadcast every little aspect of your life? Don’t you have a friend you could call and meet for a coffee, then laugh about this? I think it might be more helpful for you.

He’s a beauty. It‘s a pity his cock is small

I’m not an escort but I’m sure @Keenan is right about communication. What may help you have a great first date in real life is if you convey clearly what you find attractive, romantic and sexy. I’m guessing that you must have seen some gay porn at least... For instance, I have a passion for handsome men and good underwear. I will be undressing a good looking man and I find it sexy if he’s in tight white briefs. I still recall fondly a blond muscleboy-bottom who noticed my passion and told me he shared it. Before each further date, he used to call me and ask what I wanted him to wear: jockstrap or briefs, coloured or white. He said it excited him on the way to me that I’d be horny at the prospect of stripping him. Similarly, I enjoy lots of things but I really like foreplay with lots of kissing, using tongue, and I really enjoy being sucked off. The same goes for sexual positions; I like to top but I don’t like a guy sitting on top of me. There must be some activities that you find more arousing than others, and some sexual activities that you definitely want to explore so mention them specifically beforehand. I don’t want you to miss out on something you’d enjoy simply because you’re too diffident to mention it to the guy you’ve chosen. I hope you have a wonderful time with him.

I’m not concerned about security staff and the screening process at airports. I take the same view of them as I do of staff in an hotel - whatever you worry about, they’ve seen it all before.

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Pretty young man @Whitman. I’m petty and I hate the fact that he pleased Rick Day before he had the chance to please me. I feel we deserve to see him full frontal. Below is the best I can find on a quick search.

Very much so. The rooms are large, the beds are big and towels are plentiful. Service is obliging and aware of its gay clientele. During my various stays, I’ve had several fit-bodied men (much younger than me) stay overnight, on some occasions with PDA in the lobby and by the pool, and never a problem.

As you wish @Autumnal https://lmgtfy.com/?q=shane+smith+nipples+&t=i

I like The Chamberlain Hotel in WeHo https://www.chamberlainwesthollywood.com/specials-and-packages i enjoy staying in an ‘Executive King Suite’ but even the ordinary suites are spacious with large beds etc. The hotel prices seem reasonable to me, as there’s a decent rooftop pool and also on-site parking. It’s 4*

If you “loved it” @Poincare wouldnt it be easier just to get the two Cubans together for a repeat performance?

You certainly create some interesting threads @Unicorn. @sam.fitzpatrick has put it beautifully “kindness is easy to choose when honesty can be hurtful on things that don't matter”and I’m glad that your paid companion was kind to you. Perhaps I‘m cynical but I feel that good escorts will compliment their clients, especially on parting. It generates goodwill and adds to their reputation. In turn, that leads to new and repeat business.

Underwear is a very personal purchase @joethomas Whenever I had a ‘new’ young man, I enjoyed buying him new underwear - usually tight white briefs - and some jockstraps for the gym and running. I really think that you should be there to ensure that the “order” Is correctly filled: underpants must fit well and enhance the attractiveness of the young man.

Please report back on the return on your investment. And let us know when dividends are paid out.

I too preferred his build when younger

As a top, it’s always sex before dinner. I find the cardio gives me an appetite. The bottoms I’ve dated always preferred it too. With overnight dates, I find some bottoms are happy to be topped again after dinner while a few want to douche first. If the bottom doesn’t want to get topped again, I’m always happy to receive full oral service before sleeping. And on waking, it was pretty much 50:50 whether the bottom wanted to be topped or just to give me oral to completion; either way, I‘m happy.

I never played with https://rentmen.eu/NUMBERONE_CZECH but saw him frequently at the gym. If it’s the same guy, rather than someone using the same online name, he’s been around for at least 15 years so I guess he’s nearer 40. He does have a big dick. He also had a lot of plastic surgery on his face: he ended up looking rather odd, but further, more recent work corrected that so he looks pretty normal now.

Perhaps I can try to translate for you. (Earlier in the ad, he said he was a “top experience”) “Also I can sit back and get serviced by a sub” “I’m more than happy to play in groups, as long as they consist of other equally hot, young muscleboys”