MscleLovr

An interesting thread @SirBIllybob. I liked the reference to the very charming sociopath Ripley, though LRD defeated me. This is as good an “arena” (as you put it) as any to discuss this. Answering your questions, I guess most of us have encountered such a person at some time in our lives. And I suspect many of us know innately the difference between a person glossing over some glitch in their life or career and a person engaged in extensive fabrication and fantasy. For myself, I always checked out a guy online before a first date. I think it’s an essential first step nowadays before meeting a stranger. One can find out a lot about a person by using technology. There’s nothing “douche-y” (as you put it) about this research. For the same reason, I keep strict control over my social media posts and disclose little that can accurately identify me, my location, my interests etc. Also in getting to know someone, ie on the first few dates, I’m relaxed but I pay particular attention to what he says and how he behaves towards others. I look for inconsistencies in his statements and remember what I’ve been told. One of my ‘golden rules’ is that if a guy doesn’t behave well and treat me and others with kindness on our first and follow-up dates, I won’t take it further: if a guy can’t be very nice for a couple of hours, his behavior will not improve with more contact. Over the years, I’ve encountered 2 sociopaths. One was through volunteer work and one was met socially. Both were exceptionally charming and eager to please, anticipate my needs etc. I know such persons can be quite dangerous and the only ‘remedy’ is to cut all contact and change phones, email etc.

I don’t like bulked-up, steroidal bodies. I like natural, muscled athletic types. Exactly the role I had in mind for him :-)

It‘s your fantasy @WilliamM but I’d like to see the coupling of those two. Bring in Garrett Neff and we’d have a good playgroup. Currently, for that money, I’d hire the young actor David Corenswet. As I’d want a multi-hour coupling, it would be expensive but so worth it.

IRL it’s an almost criminal waste of a nice guy that Darren Criss Is str8!

Don’t fret @Letmeworshipit. I’m a dedicated and ready feeder so I value a skilled cocksucker. And I’m sure many other men would also value you.

I accept what you say @Phlmuscle. But you seem not to realise that there wouldn’t be “any indication of escorting” at parties or on a photo-shoot. Before I started to live together with my guy (more than 6years ago), I was a serial male-modeliser. As an older and generous man, I had no trouble meeting handsome young men and dating them. I even went to parties after fashion shows and socialized with them. Whether the young men were str8, bi or gay was irrelevant to me: I was always friendly and nice, and my approach to a guy was respectful in public. What mattered to them was that I was discreet in public; what mattered to me was what they were happy to do in private. Over the years, I have also been invited occasionally to private sex-parties where barechested fit young men (models, personal trainers, actors) in jeans mingled in public with older men like me. The venues were either private homes or hotels. Generally at such parties, public interaction was limited to guys kissing in greeting or showing some affection. When there was mutual interest, I retreated with a guy to a bedroom where we explored our compatibility in private. Often we made out and I got sucked off before we left the bedroom. I’d arrange to see the nice young man for a dinner-date soon afterwards, and it would progress... At parties with muscleboys and models, I never heard guys discuss escorting or being an escort. That was seen as applying strictly to guys who advertised. There was some chat about what another young man would do or about how generous an older guy was. I always mentioned that I was happy to help or support a nice guy. Mutual benefits were readily understood.

I am eagerly awaiting “Hollywood”, the new Ryan Murphy show on Netflix. It starts on May 1. It seems very promising with lots of male nudity and featuring David Corenswet on whom I have a major-crush.

I very much enjoyed both seasons, and I have a mini-crush on John Krasinski.

I liked Fratmen and Fratpad. They were cute, horny guys. I liked Nash especially....masturbating in bed and in another scene, in the shower. I can’t recall the exact details but there was a minor scandal when he and another guy were outed as members of a college wrestling team - the Nebraska Cornhuskers stayed in my mind for some reason.

Agree 100% @big-n-tall Just once have I hired a guy who didn’t kiss. Luke in San Francisco was a handsome 24year old blond muscleboy. He’d agreed to all my requests but specified no kissing. I thought it’d be fine but without prolonged deep kissing, it just wasn’t that exciting.

Freeing up for stress relief?

I can’t generalize....but I do recall 2 guys who both featured on AAG originally. IIRC they were named Anthony and Lucas/Luke. Both were goodlooking and nicely muscled, not bulked up nor inked - my type. They went on to finance some international travel working as an escort duo maybe 10-12 years ago. I had a memorable date in London with them.

I agree @WilliamM. I really like Frankie’s physique and I find him very exciting as he’s not so bright but very compliant.

If you want to see Nick naked and/or see his dick, there are plenty of such pics on the internet for free. IDK what he has on OF. A mutual acquaintance tells me that IRL he’s more into teasing and showing off, not really sexual.

What's the name of the movie @poolboy48220 ?

My “rule” is if clothed, they’re shy and/or closeted if they‘re naked, it’s a bromance if they’re naked and erect, it’s promising

My “rule” is if clothed, they’re shy and/or closeted if they‘re naked, it’s a bromance if they’re naked and erect, it’s promising

What? Been hired? French-kissed a man? Been topped and liked it? Sucked cock and swallowed a load? Or done all that NOT for money? Why so coy @JulianLondon ? He is great-looking ;-)

What? Been hired? French-kissed a man? Been topped and liked it? Sucked cock and swallowed a load? Or done all that NOT for money? Why so coy @JulianLondon ? He is great-looking ;-)

I‘m much older than any millennial @newatthis but I do need clarification. Have you found the elixir of youth? Is your hair as luscious and lustrous as when you were 40 or so years younger? And if your hair today is the same colour, where did you purchase it? ;-)

I can’t comment on Vance’s skills, but I’d find it difficult to get past his Charlie Manson-like beard. Admittedly, wearing a mask will cover a fair amount of the beard.

No @MikeBiDude you are not odd; you are discerning. I do the same, usually using Brazilian beans, and we drink our morning coffee from handmade Japanese coffee mugs. A pour-over is easy, great value and truly brings out the full flavor of the coffee. My boyfriend refers to the time I spend silently making our coffees as my Zen time and knows not to interrupt me.

My sofa was graced by this young Italian a few years ago. He’s blond now and has put on muscle; he looks very good. My sofa and I wish this young American graced us with his presence but wearing less clothing.

Great idea for a thread on this issue. I have a global travel policy, renewed annually, underwritten by Allianz. I checked with them and my current policy does include coverage for this disruption. They cautioned, however, that my policy expires end-November and the new policy will NOT cover disruption from Covid19 or any other pandemic.

By any chance are you thinking of the massage film with Chase and Coleman (from Sean Cody I thInk, not CF)? See message #1657