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Like @bostonman I did jury duty once and I enjoyed it. It was for a week and there were several cases. I enjoyed it as the justice system interests me, and the judge invited us to ask questions if anything seemed unclear. Also I met 2 nice people on the jury who turned out to live near me

Personally @purplekow I feel this topic should be in the Fetish Forum.

I hate early morning flights but I hate even more arriving in a new city very late at night. The only way I have found to make early flights palatable is to spend the night before at an airport hotel.

AFAIK he’s not at all successful as a model. He tried working as a personal trainer in NYC for a while, but that’s an expensive city and a tough place to make it as just a trainer. Undoubtedly, extracting money from gay guys online is his best economic opportunity. I do know that in the past he’s relied on “friends” for “support”.

Interesting view @Walker1. I feel that Nick is just a photographic prick-tease.

Well said @Justin7402. That was always my approach when hiring.

I don’t know where you’re based, but if you can get the TV station…Al Jazeera TV News has carried excellent filmed reports of the situation in Colombia. They have local correspondents speaking from Bogota.

I enjoy getting massage regularly but I expect it to be non-erotic. Over the years, I had 3 different guys do more, but it was always the masseur that initiated it. 1. At a gay hotel in Key West, the masseur finished me with a handjob. He didn’t ask me what I wanted so I paid but only gave the usual tip. 2. At a European resort, the masseur started chatting about sex once I’d mentioned I’m gay. He told me he ‘loved to rim a nice ass’ like mine so I told him to go ahead. He was talented and when I turned over, he finished me off with his mouth. I paid and added a large tip. 3. In London, the masseur expressed surprise at my being gay. He made complimentary remarks as he touched me and asked finally if I wanted to top him. I said ‘No, I’m feeling lazy but you can suck me off if you want’. He wanted, as he said he ‘loved the taste of cum’; it was to completion - I paid the fee with the usual tip, and he asked to see me again.

Sorry to hear you’re suffering @Rod Hagen. (I’m no expert on this but I had a problem that affected my feet and in consulting experts, I was advised to do exercises to prevent this developing). Conservative measures to treat this are stretches and exercises to the lower leg muscles and feet. I assume you’ve been shown how to do these? I‘d suggest doing the stretches 3-4x daily. At home, elevate your feet and apply ice packs. And I assume you’ve already done the obvious: switch from running to swimming, throw away any worn athletic shoes, and never wear flip-flops!

Lube, and lots of it.

The one problem, if you like to have sex with ‘straight’ men, that I can foresee is that you’d have to be very explicit and specific in what you want to do/have done to you. I know what I enjoy in bed and I used to say “it’s a menu, not a checklist” as there is a range of things I enjoy. But with a man who identifies as ‘straight’, it would have to be a checklist to avoid disappointment and a poor experience.

I agree with you @Reisr30 as I’ve had similar experiences. Some 12 years ago, I was having a sustained fling with a hot young actor in LA and we often went out for dinner. He was then half my age yet we never had a negative reaction. Sometimes we got smiles from other men when eating out in West Hollywood, and so he would make a definite point of picking up the check; I tried to look like a kept man. But in Manhattan there were looks. Perhaps it is just curiosity. I don’t recall us being the object of comment as we both dress quite smartly for dinner. I do recall one time on the UES when at a table not far from us, a man in his 60s was entertaining a twink in his early 20s; that table did excite quite a bit of comment and I felt sorry for them as the young man looked embarrassed.

I don’t care how a guy defines himself. I only care about what he’ll do with and for me in private. As others have mentioned, I enjoy a man who kisses deeply and passionately. And my ideal hire is a muscleboy who‘s ready to bottom for me and suck me off to completion. The closest I’ve had to a “straight” man was a rather handsome and well-muscled personal trainer in Australia. We connected via a mutual friend, met for drinks and he suggested we go to my hotel room for “some privacy”… He did all that I like and after I gave him his money, he went home to his pretty girlfriend and a young baby.

You have great taste in men @LD19847 And @tsgarp his ad states he meets at a rented flat near Marylebone

I asked @tassojunior because maybe you have been there before... maybe you feel it’s like Dubai… maybe you think foreigners are immune... but the laws in the Maldives against homosexuality are quite clear…“up to 8 years imprisonment with the possibility of whippings, house arrest, fines, or deportation”

Have you done this there before @tassojunior? I wonder how it will be viewed in a country whose official state religion is Islam.

I hope the weekend goes well for you @WolfCompanion You say you’re a “little anxious” and you may want to confide that to him. He may also be nervous. What may help you is if you say what matters to you - I’m thinking of a range of things such as I like to eat healthy food, I need at least 7 hours sleep a night, I’d like to have some personal time each day - and perhaps you can ask if he has made plans for you both. And to get it out of the way, perhaps you should ask for half your fee on meeting as it is your first time with him.

+1 @Keith Ambrose describes it well. When I hired, it was for a mid-afternoon or early evening date. I always found bottoms preferred to be pounded before dinner, less so afterwards.

+1 He works and I’m retired. We made some changes: as a ritual, we cook a large Sunday lunch together; we repeat this one midweek evening each week when we prepare a lavish dinner; and we have steadily drunk up all the grand wines I’d stored previously.

It could be the downside of OnlyFans (as far as we’re concerned). Perhaps he’s making enough money of OF and doesn’t see the need to do personal sex work

Some findings published in the UK a few days ago suggest that upto 10% of people who become infected with the virus suffer “long Covid”. Obviously, much more research is planned because of the range of problems suffered by people but I was surprised at the prevalence of long-term issues.

When the escort has bills to pay ?

I guess it’s true that a young man visiting NYC is likely to stay somewhere rather basic, like a hostel or cheap hotel. It’s why I always preferred to meet in my place.

Those guys must need to ingest a lot of protein on a daily basis. And the guy on the extreme right looks awfully like the bodybuilder Diego Sechi

Forgive my ignorance @Oaktown but what would it signify if this cute 21 year old “who likes to do everything” is living in a half-way house?