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I got a massage from this guy years ago in San Diego. He was strictly theraputic and said a few body shaming things to me at the time. I was very nice and let them go but he was very arrogant and full of his own grandeur. I am also not a bad looking man but he hated guys that had any weight on them. It is interesting to see his developments after a few years. I think he is still very picky about who he sees. Not really a gay affirming man and should not be in this business.

I never use the Russians based in NYC for massage. Too many tricks, fakes and scammers. My advice is stay away from them.

Has anyone experienced massage with Kris? He is from LA but visiting SF this weekend. Mostly good reviews but one not so good one on RM. Thanks for anyone's input.
 
https://rentmasseur.com/KrisEvan

Hey all - have him on the radar. Has anyone had a massage with him? https://rentmasseur.com/RevitalizeUrCore

Gentlemen,
 
This guy is the real deal. Saw him today for a massage while he was visiting Oakland. Totally enjoyed the massage...he is very thorough and puts a lot of care into it for sure. Agree with another post that he was soft spoken when I first arrived, but was very personable, engaging, and talkative after the massage. He was not rushing me out the door like some do...sat and chatted for a bit well passed the scheduled time.
 
He is a very nice guy. Totally unaffected by how stunningly beautiful he is. Kind with absolutely no pretense or aloofness that some guys seem to develop when they look like he does. And sexy Russian accent!
 
Recommend highly!

I contacted Josh while he was in NYC recently. We had a discussion and he explained his menu of sorts. It was made clear to me that he was more into an escort experience than just a plain old message and if interested, he was more than willing to meet expectations. He seemed like a really nice guy. When asked about a return to NYC, he said that if business was good, he would return. I caught him towards the end of his visit here and he said that despite the NYC competition, he had quite a few calls interested in a guy from San Fran.

I never use the Russians based in NYC for massage. Too many tricks, fakes and scammers. My advice is stay away from them.

I never use the Russians based in NYC for massage. Too many tricks, fakes and scammers. My advice is stay away from them.

Once again this Forum saved me from wasting my money. Thanks guys for info.

I've paid for the platinum MF ads for over a year and it's been a worthy investment until these changes. This month I switched to the basic plan, and will remain there until their growing pains subside. Personally, I've only had good interactions with their tech support, whom I've called upon a number of times in the last year. It's understandable that providers would be upset at their lack of communication, but also consider what it'd mean for them to be candid about this situation - evidence in court against them. They aren't going to come right out and say "oh hey guys this sesta things has us all spooked so we're making a lot of changes!". They have to play it cool, even if it means ignoring/delaying indignant complaints. It's fun to be mad, but let's direct our energy at the dipshits that created this law. And remember that female providers (esp trans) will feel the weight of this law exponentially more than anyone here. We can just go back to the spas and bars. They will have to go to the streets/pimps and there will certainly be deaths/missing persons on their end. Food for thought.

He is great. Very large man. Good massage and fun play.

He is great. Very large man. Good massage and fun play.

If you get positive reviews here then that is 90% of confirmation to use this guy. Clients can be such jerks to a masseur....and potential lookie loos are the worst. Closeted guys who just want to feel sexual by texting with a masseur, guys who are so nervous and spend hours communicating with the masseur and never actually book an appointment...the list of things that waste a masseurs time is long. I have met some great masseurs that were not super friendly before our first meeting but after that boy was it a great friendship. The texting for an appointment was far different for the second appointment. Instrutions from a masseur are usually a copy and paste thing...if you see him a few times then you might suggest he word the instructions in a more gentle manner.

If you get positive reviews here then that is 90% of confirmation to use this guy. Clients can be such jerks to a masseur....and potential lookie loos are the worst. Closeted guys who just want to feel sexual by texting with a masseur, guys who are so nervous and spend hours communicating with the masseur and never actually book an appointment...the list of things that waste a masseurs time is long. I have met some great masseurs that were not super friendly before our first meeting but after that boy was it a great friendship. The texting for an appointment was far different for the second appointment. Instrutions from a masseur are usually a copy and paste thing...if you see him a few times then you might suggest he word the instructions in a more gentle manner.

A sligthly different perspective: He doesn’t know you yet, so he hasn’t separated you from the possibly large number of men who waste his time with emails and requests for pics.
 
Like you, I get turned off by curt emails and texts, but I’ve also come to realize that it might not mean anything. If he’s outright rude, avoid him. If he’s just guarded before he knows you, he probably has his reasons. I wouldn’t consider guarded/curt messages a deal-breaker at this stage.
 
Good luck!

One of the reasons that an escort or masseur shaves is it lessens the chance of getting crabs. Crabs latch onto pubic hair and lay their eggs on the hair. Without hair they cannot do either.

One of the reasons that an escort or masseur shaves is it lessens the chance of getting crabs. Crabs latch onto pubic hair and lay their eggs on the hair. Without hair they cannot do either.

One of the reasons that an escort or masseur shaves is it lessens the chance of getting crabs. Crabs latch onto pubic hair and lay their eggs on the hair. Without hair they cannot do either.

Hi guys I’m going to Denver this weekend and wondering if anybody has a great masseuse that they could recommend for a sensual/erotic massage.

I agree with @Kody S - it really depends where you live and whether you have done your homework. There is a shortage of great masseurs in Boston so we definitely benefit from some of the regular travelers who visit like Rob, Brad, Ethan etc from NY. Euro Adam, Taylor and of course Rainer and Ryan West. The forum is an absolute must for vetting the visitors as many are the kind of crappy, untrained “finish yourself” guys none of us want to see but there are the regular visitors and once in awhile the “masseur on vacation” or en route to Ptown that is worth seeing.

I agree entirely. In the past, I found that you can have a very good time with young men, even in the 18-20 age range, if you are very clear. I always set out exactly what I had in mind and suggested a first date where we’d meet for drinks, talk and get to know each other. I explicitly stated that if we both wanted to take matters further, I’d need to check that we were sexually compatible on that first date.
 
I met my share of no-hopers or guys with inflated expectations, but then I struck gold.

I have had very much the same experiences with SA. It takes work. I find that there are a lot of 18-20 year olds that have no idea what they are doing or why they are on SA. I stay away from that age group. After you get away from the scammers and fakes.... the biggest problems are the flakes...guys who engage very nicely at first but then just drop out of communication..those can be frustrating if you feel you have connected...but I just move on. I agree about the no allowances and I never send any money in advance. Also the best way to book flights is with miles. That way if you need to cancel you get your miles back for a small fee. Some airlines don’t even charge you for putting the miles back. If you charge a airfare to your CC you will most likely will loose the fare or pay a large cancellation fee...unless of course you are flying them unrestricted coach, business or first class. There are definately some great guys on SA. I hear that they get very weird requests or not very well done requests from Sugar Daddies. If you respect them, state clearly what you will give and communicate nicely you can meet some cool and nice men.

I have had very much the same experiences with SA. It takes work. I find that there are a lot of 18-20 year olds that have no idea what they are doing or why they are on SA. I stay away from that age group. After you get away from the scammers and fakes.... the biggest problems are the flakes...guys who engage very nicely at first but then just drop out of communication..those can be frustrating if you feel you have connected...but I just move on. I agree about the no allowances and I never send any money in advance. Also the best way to book flights is with miles. That way if you need to cancel you get your miles back for a small fee. Some airlines don’t even charge you for putting the miles back. If you charge a airfare to your CC you will most likely will loose the fare or pay a large cancellation fee...unless of course you are flying them unrestricted coach, business or first class. There are definately some great guys on SA. I hear that they get very weird requests or not very well done requests from Sugar Daddies. If you respect them, state clearly what you will give and communicate nicely you can meet some cool and nice men.

I haven't written in the forum for quite a while, but I wanted to chime in because I have had good experiences on SA. I have been hiring escorts for years with about a 50% satisfaction rating even with the reviews. I guess I am just very particular in my taste. With SA, the satisfaction rating for those that end up in my bedroom is significantly higher, probably because I have spent some time getting to know that person prior to the physical fun. The arrangements that I have had:
 
covering expenses during outings and vacations with some spending money for a 21 year old college student/amateur MMA fighter
Pay for play with a "straight" college baseball player (interactive, deep kissing with me topping him). Usually 2-3 hour sessions for $200
4 month live in for a 20 year Aussie exchange student
 
I've had several encounters with hot young guys in the "trial" or meet and greet phase. I've also encountered the obvious scammers and cheats, but never have gotten too far with any of them so a meeting was never close.
 
One arrangement that I have not participated in is anything that includes any allowances. I am very clear in my profile about that and that seems to deter a lot of the scammers, although I still get a lot. I am very clear early in the process that I would like intimacy to be part of this.... I get from some that they are not sure about that and I tell them politely, good luck and move on. Several times these "I am not sure about that" guys end up saying they might be OK with it and I try tehm out during a meet and greet- usually end up too awkward so it is a one time thing.