DrownedBoy

Sir, you know more history than 99% of the guys I hire.

Why does it surprise you? People who spend frivolously rarely become rich, and people who become rich didn't get there by being generous.

I wonder what the "background fantasy" for that one was... I forget where (I think a BDSM magazine I borrowed from a college friend), but I read of a (straight) Jewish couple where the guy wore an SS uniform and the wife was a member of the "resistance."

There's no rule saying he has to take his clothes off in front of you....

Thanks for all your suggestions. I started cracking down. If an escort agrees to a time, then at the last minute wants 2 hours later, I cancel. Hopefully my regulars will get the hint.

I guess I don't know then - only that the rules don't seem to be equally applied in all places to all people.

(and he's blocked.......)

@azdr0710 and @lanyc - although the Deli rules have changed, I still insist on discussing session details in private. So do many other posters here. If you want to ask them something, click the person's avatar and then click the "Message" button at the top. However, before anyone PMs me, be advised that I met with this guy once, years ago, and don't remember that much.

It would only be blocked if the provider raised an objection to it. Few providers raise objections to 5 star reviews.

Have you ever seen this? Blacklisted Clients - Bad guys database - CheckPunter

What he said.

He seemed nice when I texted with him, and his rates are within newbie normal, but I haven't had a taste for twinks lately.

Mr. Marcel says he's a "public figure" who's a "participant of numerous tv shows in Europe." So....if a reverse search showed him as some famous model, I guess I should assume it's him?

Not quite. Let's put it this way - when I was 22, a person who saw me on the street thought I was still in middle school, and when I bought booze, I had to show 2 IDs. And if I had known how to hire online and had the money, I definitely would have hired.

I have to ask - did you card him?

He's steadily putting on muscle, which you can tell from the photos, and which I confirmed the last time I saw him (he's one of my regulars but less available than the others). I don't know if he'll become a twunk, but he has stated his goal is to keep getting bigger.

Unfortunately, I've encountered providers who specifically took this line of work because they _don't_ like being on time. Bad career move.

I met him. He's a meth-addicted con artist. Stay away.

I took the plunge and tried him, after deciding I judged his tone too harshly before. Personally, I loved the experience. He's an excellent kisser, and muscular to boot. He's also extremely nice if you're nice to him. Drawbacks would be his limited English (luckily Google Translate smoothed it out), and that certain habit of forgetting to fully charge your phone before arriving, which makes you more likely to let him go after you blow your load. Since he got me to blow my load for the first time in awhile, I really didn't care about letting him go 90 minutes into the 2 hours.

That's what happened to me. Despite the fact I'd hired this guy 6 times before, he just kept playing games and saying he "made a wrong turn" until I cut him off. Late is one thing; making the provider think you're coming when you're not is another.

I suppose I've been too lenient, because my regulars are arriving way too late (1 to 2 hours). How can I politely, but firmly, make clear that I need them to be more punctual? Once, I reluctantly cancelled a provider after he was 90 minutes late, and he was so angry at being "rushed" that he blocked me. If I kept making last minute changes with a provider, I'd be ashamed of myself. How do clients do it so easily? Punctuality is one trait I've never encountered.

On RentMen, Chicago's unfortunately lacks such providers (unless they're visiting). If anyone knows other sources, please let me know.

Also, it's becoming more and more likely that a recession is coming. If history is a guide, it might be like the one during the late 70s and early 80s, the last time they had to stop high inflation with big interest rate hikes. Recession = fewer clients and more deperate providers.

I wonder if it's the same guy I encountered, who used to post in this forum. His ad has popped up and down quickly in Chicago before, and I'm forgetting his name. African American with muscles and a bit of facial hair. I booked with him too, then days later, a few hours before the session, he asked for a deposit. I immediately canceled the session. You have to have a complete lack of brain cells and self control to fall for a scam that old.

Yes. Some really popular and in demand guys, like Uriel, use deposits to weed people out. Otherwise their fees are reasonable. If you see escorts with no reviews or only a few demanding deposits (which I've encountered), just walk away.