DrownedBoy

Escorts who are good at that usually, in their RM ads, will say they "welcome first timers" or something along those lines. Look for that.

Man, I wanted to hire that guy when he was younger. Never put things off.

Yup. The newer, younger escorts (even those new to RM without a single review to their name) are asking too much. A recession will give them the course in economics they need. Like someone above said, I also live in an area with pages of escorts who want my money...and in the past month or so, there were even more. Since the so-called "business world" came up, I should also mention that with the coming recession, CEOs and other executives have announced that the first candidates for layoffs will be the people who refuse to come to the office, or don't get there enough or in a timely manner. An entire generation is going to have to grow up quickly and drop their bad habits.

I wrote a thread on my personal experiences here in Ask a Provider. TLDR: As a client, you have to be firm, and willing to cancel a session or cut off a provider, to make sure they arrive on time. As for providers who arrive on time - that's how you tell who the professionals are. EDIT: At the risk of sounding like an old curmudgeon, I'd add that I see this pattern most often with younger providers. Must be a side effect from the whole "social promotion" trends in public high schools - as long as you show up, you graduate.

God! 😄 ; I got arrested for trespassing and resisting arrest. ...Easy going and laid back personality.

Until the Great Socialist Revolution sweeps the U.S., this is not condescending. It's reality....the same reality I got taught when I was that kid's age.

Here's an idea - when you make a website, put a "Q&A" section with all the questions you've gotten.

Guys - one thing I noticed is that if I click on a link to a specific escort - the links we always list in the Deli - it won't open to the exact page in v7. Has anyone else noticed this?

That's called racial profiling...and it's pretty illegal for a business to do that....

I wish I could unread this....

Others here already answered the question for RentMen providers - marketing. I don't think it's so much for straight females as an attempt to signal different things. It's been so varied, but generally I find bisexuals are less likely to bottom or kiss. Also, they tend to market themselves as more "masculine," even though I've hired "bisexuals" that were definitely totally gay, * * * The "bisexual" label in the general population is different. Among younger people, it's become almost "cool" to claim to be bisexual, even if they're totally straight. Sorry, but kissing a member of the same sex once while you're in high school doesn't make you bi.

MintBoys has that "live in boyfriends" section they first put up during the pandemic, but MintBoys isn't exactly the most reputable site. Also - at the beginning of the pandemic, MintBoys asked customers to write them with "success stories" from that section. I haven't seen any...

Ever see that scene in A Game of Shadows, where he "interrogates" Holmes? That's the kind of Moriarty this is. EDIT: Although he also reminds me of the LARPers at my university who would dress up like vampires. A little crazy either way.

Yup. Wants to be some rich guy's trophy husband.

See this thread. Basically, if you live in a liberal metropolitan area, escorting (but not hiring) an escort is legal. Also, as @sync pointed out, those same cities that made escorting legal most likely also are sanctuary cities - meaning you can't legally threaten someone with the ICE, and even if you did, you'd be ignored. However, such protections don't apply in U.S. conservative areas. A sick b@stard from Arizona: Report: Ariz. Sheriff Threatened To Deport Boyfriend : NPR

Ditto to most of this. Most "client contacts" I received were visitors from out of town, who I'd either seen before, or expressed interest in (but was unable to meet). I can think of 2 times a local provider reached out to me (not counting the desperate - and ignored - RM messages I received during the pandemic). 1. A kid I stopped hiring because he was always very late. He needed money, but has yet to understand that people with money usually have to follow a strict schedule. He got so persistent that I blocked him. 2. A guy called me a few weeks after our first session. That was 6 years ago, and he's still my favorite regular.

Hence, for the "Reason" in Venmo, I try to say, "paid back the money I owed him."

He's a hell of a lot bigger than when I hired him during a Chicago visit. But...that would have been at least 6 years ago.

Gotcha. Plus he's pretty short; not sure if he's my type of bodybuilder.

Same quote for his Chicago visit. HOWEVER, I'm willing to pay that much....if he can deliver on the muscles. @Jomo I know you don't want to review, but can you confirm how his muscles looked to you?

Of course. Even on Grindr, I've been contacted by people who, unsolicited, tell me they're into something really different (like scat), right before blocking me immediately. (one day, I'm sure that guy will block someone who really is into scat - poor him )

I'd love to try Grindr - such a larger market! - but it probably wouldn't be long before my "looking for generous" friends meet my "don't need anything" friends.

Yeah. Mr. Biceps decided to visit Chicago, and I really enjoyed spending the night with him. An extremely nice guy, good conversation, and an excellent kisser.

I prefer having regulars (mainly so I don't have to re-explain my RP every time), but I'll try someone new. People retire from the business. However, during the past 2 years, I haven't met any escorts that I'd want to add to my regular hire list.

Even if this guy is real..... Not only is he straight, but he literally doesn't list a single "into." He probably charges 200 to flex only.