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I usually keep it to a very simple text.  One sentence that’s to the point. If I don’t get a response, unless I’m really hot for that guy, I don’t send a second text.  I have one guy that a sent a text to that’s coming through town….muscular and hot as hell.  He didn’t respond, no problem, there are other guys to ask or save my money for.  I’m not trying to entice, this is not a date.  This is for an uncomplicated meet up with someone I find attractive enough to spend money on, nothing more, nothing less.  Respect goes both ways, if they don’t respond; better to know how they are in that moment than to waste money and find out in the session.       

I usually keep it to a very simple text.  One sentence that’s to the point. If I don’t get a response, unless I’m really hot for that guy, I don’t send a second text.  I have one guy that a sent a text to that’s coming through town….muscular and hot as hell.  He didn’t respond, no problem, there are other guys to ask or save my money for.  I’m not trying to entice, this is not a date.  This is for an uncomplicated meet up with someone I find attractive enough to spend money on, nothing more, nothing less.  Respect goes both ways, if they don’t respond; better to know how they are in that moment than to waste money and find out in the session.       

Drove to LA this year, the furthest I’ve gone for some play dates.  Didn’t realize how expensive it was going to be (nickeled and dimed for everything from parking to shopping bags) but would totally do it again.  I did quite a few free things to make up for the other expenses.  In that time one of my providers introduced me to the sling….and I enjoyed the hell out of it.

When a couple stops trending…..it’s time to move on.  

Funny, I used to draw.  I started doodling again last night.  Better than a stick figure but far from real life portraits.  The goal is to create a life like drawing of a gorgeous naked man that would be worthy of hanging in a museum...or an erotic book cover. 

Funny, I used to draw.  I started doodling again last night.  Better than a stick figure but far from real life portraits.  The goal is to create a life like drawing of a gorgeous naked man that would be worthy of hanging in a museum...or an erotic book cover. 

Funny, I used to draw.  I started doodling again last night.  Better than a stick figure but far from real life portraits.  The goal is to create a life like drawing of a gorgeous naked man that would be worthy of hanging in a museum...or an erotic book cover. 

The innocence of being new to the gay lifestyle (once the innocence is gone....) Going dancing in an actual gay bar/club (the gay cowboy bar was my hangout) Letting a total stranger talk me into hooking up in his car after a drink Life before social media, this is the extent of social media I do....Facebook is evil Gas below $2 Yesteryear gay porn stars (Billy Herrington, Rico Dulce, etc)

The innocence of being new to the gay lifestyle (once the innocence is gone....) Going dancing in an actual gay bar/club (the gay cowboy bar was my hangout) Letting a total stranger talk me into hooking up in his car after a drink Life before social media, this is the extent of social media I do....Facebook is evil Gas below $2 Yesteryear gay porn stars (Billy Herrington, Rico Dulce, etc)

The innocence of being new to the gay lifestyle (once the innocence is gone....) Going dancing in an actual gay bar/club (the gay cowboy bar was my hangout) Letting a total stranger talk me into hooking up in his car after a drink Life before social media, this is the extent of social media I do....Facebook is evil Gas below $2 Yesteryear gay porn stars (Billy Herrington, Rico Dulce, etc)

Had this happen before, but went ahead with anyway. I made sure I was extra rough during the encounter to make a point that I didn’t appreciate the deception. 😈

Had this happen before, but went ahead with anyway. I made sure I was extra rough during the encounter to make a point that I didn’t appreciate the deception. 😈

Had this happen before, but went ahead with anyway. I made sure I was extra rough during the encounter to make a point that I didn’t appreciate the deception. 😈

Today I was turned down by a massage therapist that I had frequented on occasion...permanently.  No real explanation why, just that he was semi-retired and that he no longer wished to see me again.  To give you a little background, I have been his client for about 4 years on and off, always with something extra special at the end.  He has always been paid and I have always respected him, his practice and his home.  I'm totally baffled by this because I feel like we had a rapport with each other and I felt that we connected because we did chat at the end each session and we even know the same people.  I attempted to ask why, but he has blocked me. 
I know there are other therapist out there, and believe me I intend to replace him, I just wonder.....have any of you had the same experience?

There is a porn model in town and quoted $350.  I can see why but I can't justify that kind of money for 1 hour.  $300 is the limit, no matter who the guy is.  I paid more for a guy that was very considerate and bought me a drink from Starbucks on his way to my place.  Very sweet of him, so I gave him extra for being thoughtful.
 

Unless they are asking to hook up for free, which rarely happens, they need money.  Nothing to be flattered about….

Unless they are asking to hook up for free, which rarely happens, they need money.  Nothing to be flattered about….

Unless they are asking to hook up for free, which rarely happens, they need money.  Nothing to be flattered about….

Unless they are asking to hook up for free, which rarely happens, they need money.  Nothing to be flattered about….

Unless they are asking to hook up for free, which rarely happens, they need money.  Nothing to be flattered about….

Unless they are asking to hook up for free, which rarely happens, they need money.  Nothing to be flattered about….

A couple of weeks ago I went on my "make up for 2020" trip and met a provider that I had been wanting to meet for years.  After we took care of business we ended up talking for a while.  He let me peek behind the curtain of what his life is like and I had no idea just how much work it is to be a provider. 
He started with showing me his, what we call at the gym "gear" and then told me how much it costs.  Although I'm not a faithful to the gym as I used to be I never used anything to give me an edge to make me bigger.  I've never been approached by a dealer either but when he told me the price I was stunned.  Then he told me about gym memberships, the diet, the clothes, and the plastic surgery and other medical expenses.  I was surprised just how much went into him being the persona of this person online.  On top of rent and a car payment he said he did well but he had his moments that things got financially strapped.  He then told me about the other ways he brings in money, like videos, worn apparel, pics, appearances and collaborations.  He told me that while it pays, it's not nearly as lucrative as one may assume. 
He had a roommate, that wasn't in the biz and that was never home.  I was surprised by that as well, I assumed he lived alone till I saw the bathroom and feminine products laying around.  He told me Vegas was starting to get as expensive as California and that his apartment was considered a decent place but not fancy. 
He was a very nice guy, and drop dead gorgeous with an amazing body.  I thanked him for giving me a new perspective.  He told me most clients don't ask and really don't care about what goes into the art of making the fantasy a reality.  I told him not many guys are talkative after our time is up.  He gave me a good bear hug and sent me on my way. 
To all the providers that make the fantasy a reality....Thank You!!!!

I'm pretty quiet unless I'm getting rimmed, then I get loud. When I'm with a provider, I sometime wonder if they are making noise for me or if they are really into it. I hired someone recently and he started to moan and talk a little but after a while he stopped. Sometimes the talking and moaning takes me out of the moment but don't stop other guys from doing it.

As Connected as I want to be.
I work in a field that has more than enough gay people that I interact with on a daily basis.  Everyday is Pride!!!!  As for the bars, clubs and neighborhoods, there are all basically gone.  Being gay is just that….being gay.  It’s easier to live your life than it was when I first came out and honestly it’s a breath of fresh air.  Hopefully that won’t change.  I do think the rise of social media and the cell phone has drastically changed the way we interact with each other, not necessarily for the better. 
 
 

As Connected as I want to be.
I work in a field that has more than enough gay people that I interact with on a daily basis.  Everyday is Pride!!!!  As for the bars, clubs and neighborhoods, there are all basically gone.  Being gay is just that….being gay.  It’s easier to live your life than it was when I first came out and honestly it’s a breath of fresh air.  Hopefully that won’t change.  I do think the rise of social media and the cell phone has drastically changed the way we interact with each other, not necessarily for the better.