Kufrol

Please, read carefully. I said "young black urban boys from the hood", which is still a generalization but significantly more restricted than how you are paraphrasing. You probably do not work closely with at risk populations as I do. By no mean I mean all young urban black boys from the hood hold criminal records, I just imply that you have to get used to those cases if you are engaged with that specific population. I do not even mean that holding criminal records mean that they are criminal, I am just pointing out to a fact common in communities victims of discrimination.
Maybe it is my bad English, but I reread my post and I still do not see anything wrong about it. Peace!

"curious to read others' opinions about this"
 
Here's another thought. Maybe not ask for others opinions then.

Or for hiring one?

What if the crime was working as an escort?

Not sure if i would call that a "violent" crime, tho it might involve multiple huge explosions!

It's actually probably a worthless and possibly predatory website. Somebody once thought that it would be the next-new-good-thing for escorts, but it probably really isn't. It's become a revenue generating website, and in some instances, a website where anyone can post un-verified information about someone else who might have a grudge and blackmail them into removing said posted personal information.
 
The information contained within, could very well be self-generated by the website-owners to simply create revenue for the owners of the site. Public information about people is just too easy to obtain to consider otherwise without better vetting of the people running it.

http://blacklistedjohn.com/

Don't let the Newbie label go to your head I've been escorting for a long time and this is my first time on a forum, but yes this is ultimately about the passing of information to ensure the client gets what they pay for,the provider can feed his family and pay bills. All go home at the end of the day safely and satisfied.

For all of us, and for @bigvalboy Especially right now, this can be a source of comfort during these times.
 
https://rainbowsbridge.com/Poem.htm
 
http://belovedhearts.com/Welcome.htm

oh BVB....so sorry if this means sad news.....happens every few years for us dog lovers and it's entirely miserable.....take it day by day and remember the fun times

If you have lost a loved one, I hope the wonderful memories will soon eclipse your grief.

If you have lost a loved one, I hope the wonderful memories will soon eclipse your grief.

If you have lost a loved one, I hope the wonderful memories will soon eclipse your grief.

At the risk of sounding cavalier, karma will eventually catch up to him. Venting is healthy, especially in a forum such as this one.

Wow!

At the risk of sounding cavalier, karma will eventually catch up to him. Venting is healthy, especially in a forum such as this one.

As a licensed Couple and Family Therapist, I have spent many years with clients who have literally dragged their partners into therapy - demanding that their PARTNERS CHANGE! It doesn't work that way. You are only responsible for one person in this life... and that's YOU. Sometimes, if you make changes in your life, your partner will also change, but don't count on it. I encourage my clients to say the newly-revised SERENITY PRAYER:
 
God, grant me the SERENITY to accept the people I cannot change.
COURAGE to change the person I can.
And the WISDOM to know..... it's me.
 
Good luck on your journey.

Even if your goal is to save your relationship, you should absolutely talk to a divorce lawyer to learn your rights. Frankly, the grounds for divorce, even adultery, rarely have anything to do with the financial disposition. You need to know the laws of your state, and it may temper his position if he learns that he can't really take everything from you. And his refusal to have sex may give you a lot of legal ammunition if you need it.
Having spent 40 years practicing family law, I can tell you that same-sex breakups are just as messy as opposite-sex divorces. So know your rights while you are trying to save the relationship.

Well that sucks. Sorry that you got stiffed. When I hire a masseur or an escort I usually make sure they count the money or I count the money in front of them. It is somewhat awkward but I want to make sure he's paid his dues and then some ;-)
 
I think for future appointments you should tell clients that you can only take them an hour past the original one if he's running late. Just say you have another appointment in a couple of hours after you appt with him. Then don't book him again. LOL

At the risk of sounding cavalier, karma will eventually catch up to him. Venting is healthy, especially in a forum such as this one.

Meet in a hotel
Suite for the first time? No please meet in the lobby or something for your own
Safety!

As the person who started this thread more than a year ago, I decided to take a look at what's been posted. Tons. And lots of it good. As for me? Well, one of the reasons I've not been on here for a long time is that I met someone from Seeking Arrangements. And we've been in a "relationship" since late summer of 2016. I had quite a few good experiences and quite a few bad ones (including some really clueless guys). Then in last summer of last year, I came upon a 25 year old guy on the site. He's 4.5 hours from Manhattan. He's 25, putting himself through college at a very good school, teaches gymnastics, and has his own training business/gym. He's very self-sufficient, has been on his own since he was 19. Comes from a solid middle class family who live upstate. He called himself an "alpha with a heart." Loves older men, can't relate to young people his age. And he does physique competitions. We texted for a couple days, I thought it had promise so we agreed to meet halfway at a hotel. Because of his limited schedule he said he'd have to leave in the middle of the night to get back for a client appointment at 6 am ....
 
So we met. It was non-stop talking for 3 hours as we instantly got along. He was very masculine, very alpha. At one point, he said "get over here" and he got on top of me and we stated making out and fooling around. We went to dinner and then settled in to watch a movie in bed. He was obviously very tired (he seems to be going 24/7) and at one point he fell asleep. I let him sleep. I thought it was clear that we had made a connection and that I would be interested in an arrangement with this guy. I was sound asleep and then around 3:30 I felt movement. I figured he got up to leave. I was half asleep when -- not saying a word -- as he was leaving he leaned over me and kissed me on the forehead. I thought this is a keeper.
 
We spent several weeks back and forth texting -- he unsure if he had the time to do this but wanting to -- but I felt there was something good here. So we eventually settled on a week to go to my lake house. We discussed money and we were all set. By the end of the first day, it was clear something was going on. I wanted to say something, he sensed it and said go ahead. I told him it was crazy but I really liked him and it would be a real fantasy to date. He said "why do you think it's a fantasy ...."
 
It's 7 months later, and we're still together. We realized that week we had a real connection and decided we should be together. No money has ever exchanged hands. I've tried helping him out from time to time but I usually have to be some money in his jacket pocket or something. He really doesn't want it but I know he could use it. He's very drived, goal oriented, ambitious ... we haven't had a cross word or argument. Our only real conflict is that because he's so busy we don't get to see each other as much as we'd like.
 
I wake up each day thinking this is too good to be true but then I get a text in the morning saying "good morning sweetie, have a great day, love you ..." and I realize that it is really happening. He's basically a younger, way hotter, more masculine version of me ....
 
So I'd have to call Seeking Arrangements a success for me. I didn't find what I was seeking there (something uncomplicated) but I think I've found something much better. I have no idea how long this will last but I'm very happy for right now.

I believe it. I'll bet it can vibrate as well.

Tayte Hanson does NOT escort and NEVER HAS because he is.........ooops, sorry wrong thread.

Lmaooooo