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I would spread it between a credit card payment, car note, and student loan - and a little left over for donuts to share with my boyfriend in our underwear.

POC colleagues tell me its best to avoid prejudice-revealing topics with clients because its not worth the stress of trying to reason with them or worth losing future work over something that obviously didn't prevent them from being hired in the 1st place.  And if their is anything that can help a man become more accepting, its accepting cock 😆
It's not as easy for me to avoid these topics with clients - not only because I'm an opinionated know-it-all with a big mouth, but because of how my race presents a different situation than that of my POC colleagues.

White folk often assume other white folk want to hear about and will agree with their somehow unprejudiced grievances with POC or "liberal" politics - they also do it because they want to argue about it and can't (or won't) do that with POC. In the past few years clients have been much more likely to do this unsolicited. When offended by these beliefs, it kills my sex drive. At that point, I'm willing to lose further work with a client for the opportunity of changing their mind.

The way I see, if white men were to just let each other think and behave however they want...look where that has gotten us. More appropriately, look where that has gotten people unlike "us".

POC colleagues tell me its best to avoid prejudice-revealing topics with clients because its not worth the stress of trying to reason with them or worth losing future work over something that obviously didn't prevent them from being hired in the 1st place.  And if their is anything that can help a man become more accepting, its accepting cock 😆
It's not as easy for me to avoid these topics with clients - not only because I'm an opinionated know-it-all with a big mouth, but because of how my race presents a different situation than that of my POC colleagues.

White folk often assume other white folk want to hear about and will agree with their somehow unprejudiced grievances with POC or "liberal" politics - they also do it because they want to argue about it and can't (or won't) do that with POC. In the past few years clients have been much more likely to do this unsolicited. When offended by these beliefs, it kills my sex drive. At that point, I'm willing to lose further work with a client for the opportunity of changing their mind.

The way I see, if white men were to just let each other think and behave however they want...look where that has gotten us. More appropriately, look where that has gotten people unlike "us".

POC colleagues tell me its best to avoid prejudice-revealing topics with clients because its not worth the stress of trying to reason with them or worth losing future work over something that obviously didn't prevent them from being hired in the 1st place.  And if their is anything that can help a man become more accepting, its accepting cock 😆
It's not as easy for me to avoid these topics with clients - not only because I'm an opinionated know-it-all with a big mouth, but because of how my race presents a different situation than that of my POC colleagues.

White folk often assume other white folk want to hear about and will agree with their somehow unprejudiced grievances with POC or "liberal" politics - they also do it because they want to argue about it and can't (or won't) do that with POC. In the past few years clients have been much more likely to do this unsolicited. When offended by these beliefs, it kills my sex drive. At that point, I'm willing to lose further work with a client for the opportunity of changing their mind.

The way I see, if white men were to just let each other think and behave however they want...look where that has gotten us. More appropriately, look where that has gotten people unlike "us".

I have a buttload of instant tests for my own personal use to make myself feel comfortable. Living in California, I no longer ask for proof of vaccination because of the high vaccination rate and low Covid levels near me. I just make "sure" I don't have it and hope they will take care of themselves. Right now, the alarmingly high levels of STIs are more concerning to me - so I will ask clients about how often they are tested and make sure they know which tests to get.

POC colleagues tell me its best to avoid prejudice-revealing topics with clients because its not worth the stress of trying to reason with them or worth losing future work over something that obviously didn't prevent them from being hired in the 1st place.  And if their is anything that can help a man become more accepting, its accepting cock 😆
It's not as easy for me to avoid these topics with clients - not only because I'm an opinionated know-it-all with a big mouth, but because of how my race presents a different situation than that of my POC colleagues.

White folk often assume other white folk want to hear about and will agree with their somehow unprejudiced grievances with POC or "liberal" politics - they also do it because they want to argue about it and can't (or won't) do that with POC. In the past few years clients have been much more likely to do this unsolicited. When offended by these beliefs, it kills my sex drive. At that point, I'm willing to lose further work with a client for the opportunity of changing their mind.

The way I see, if white men were to just let each other think and behave however they want...look where that has gotten us. More appropriately, look where that has gotten people unlike "us".

POC colleagues tell me its best to avoid prejudice-revealing topics with clients because its not worth the stress of trying to reason with them or worth losing future work over something that obviously didn't prevent them from being hired in the 1st place.  And if their is anything that can help a man become more accepting, its accepting cock 😆
It's not as easy for me to avoid these topics with clients - not only because I'm an opinionated know-it-all with a big mouth, but because of how my race presents a different situation than that of my POC colleagues.

White folk often assume other white folk want to hear about and will agree with their somehow unprejudiced grievances with POC or "liberal" politics - they also do it because they want to argue about it and can't (or won't) do that with POC. In the past few years clients have been much more likely to do this unsolicited. When offended by these beliefs, it kills my sex drive. At that point, I'm willing to lose further work with a client for the opportunity of changing their mind.

The way I see, if white men were to just let each other think and behave however they want...look where that has gotten us. More appropriately, look where that has gotten people unlike "us".

I have a buttload of instant tests for my own personal use to make myself feel comfortable. Living in California, I no longer ask for proof of vaccination because of the high vaccination rate and low Covid levels near me. I just make "sure" I don't have it and hope they will take care of themselves. Right now, the alarmingly high levels of STIs are more concerning to me - so I will ask clients about how often they are tested and make sure they know which tests to get.

This was a great final season for this show! Although it came across as sci-fi from the 80s or 90s (like gay marriage or the toppling of the patriarchy didn't happen before these people got off earth) its nice to see a family friendly sci-fi adventure with a lot of great Macguyver style puzzles.

This was a great final season for this show! Although it came across as sci-fi from the 80s or 90s (like gay marriage or the toppling of the patriarchy didn't happen before these people got off earth) its nice to see a family friendly sci-fi adventure with a lot of great Macguyver style puzzles.

I would spread it between a credit card payment, car note, and student loan - and a little left over for donuts to share with my boyfriend in our underwear.

POC colleagues tell me its best to avoid prejudice-revealing topics with clients because its not worth the stress of trying to reason with them or worth losing future work over something that obviously didn't prevent them from being hired in the 1st place.  And if their is anything that can help a man become more accepting, its accepting cock 😆
It's not as easy for me to avoid these topics with clients - not only because I'm an opinionated know-it-all with a big mouth, but because of how my race presents a different situation than that of my POC colleagues.

White folk often assume other white folk want to hear about and will agree with their somehow unprejudiced grievances with POC or "liberal" politics - they also do it because they want to argue about it and can't (or won't) do that with POC. In the past few years clients have been much more likely to do this unsolicited. When offended by these beliefs, it kills my sex drive. At that point, I'm willing to lose further work with a client for the opportunity of changing their mind.

The way I see, if white men were to just let each other think and behave however they want...look where that has gotten us. More appropriately, look where that has gotten people unlike "us".

That would be a start!
 

Maybe I should contact the moderators as I have texts from him confirming his username. 
 
He post a lot about providers flaking on him when he’s the one that flakes and screws with providers for fun. 

I will join the minority of client opinions here in saying to ask for a deposit. Even if it's $25. While I realize some clients want extreme anonymity, those who don't need or want that shouldn't have a problem with a small deposit. 
We put deposits down for services all the time outside of escort work. If we're seeing someone for the first time, sometimes we even offer. That makes me feel like we've secured the time. Generally, once we've met a provider they do not ask for a deposit again. 

This is pedantry. Most doctors will charge you for a missed appointment if you don’t cancel with sufficient notice, same for dentists. 
Electricians, landscapers, etc, are coming to your house. So if you don’t pay, they don’t do the work. They’re not sitting in a hotel waiting for you to show up.
if you were to do extensive landscaping work, remodeling your home, etc, you would likely pay a deposit before work begins. You would also have a contract. 
 
if you don’t want to send a deposit to a new provider, then don’t. But if I were in their business, I’d probably insist on it.

This guy is a legit stalker - and that is not something an individual wants to have on his record or reputation. I encourage you to share his info here and with your escort friends to prevent him from doing this to others. Discretion is important, but it means fuck all when it comes to being stalked. Put him on blast.

I use phone numbers and emails when chatting with a new client who isn't exactly forthcoming. Run their phone number through Linkedin and FB (or pay for a service) to find them. Once you know his real name, its not hard to find his address. Once you know his address, its not hard to send them a card and encourage them to stop stalking escorts "for fun" - or to show up with a bunch of escorts, a camera, and maybe some pitchforks.


 

I have a buttload of instant tests for my own personal use to make myself feel comfortable. Living in California, I no longer ask for proof of vaccination because of the high vaccination rate and low Covid levels near me. I just make "sure" I don't have it and hope they will take care of themselves. Right now, the alarmingly high levels of STIs are more concerning to me - so I will ask clients about how often they are tested and make sure they know which tests to get.

While they're in their last season, it's still a beautiful, interesting show.
Good to see Parker Posey back in the cast.  She makes for an interesting wildcard.
https://www.netflix.com/title/80104198

If you are into sex clubs during Covid, Steam Works in Berkeley is still open. And don't forget: the ban on sex clubs in SF was lifted. There will be more to come - investors are scrambling to find the right space. I'm very excited to see what they come up with.

POC colleagues tell me its best to avoid prejudice-revealing topics with clients because its not worth the stress of trying to reason with them or worth losing future work over something that obviously didn't prevent them from being hired in the 1st place.  And if their is anything that can help a man become more accepting, its accepting cock 😆
It's not as easy for me to avoid these topics with clients - not only because I'm an opinionated know-it-all with a big mouth, but because of how my race presents a different situation than that of my POC colleagues.

White folk often assume other white folk want to hear about and will agree with their somehow unprejudiced grievances with POC or "liberal" politics - they also do it because they want to argue about it and can't (or won't) do that with POC. In the past few years clients have been much more likely to do this unsolicited. When offended by these beliefs, it kills my sex drive. At that point, I'm willing to lose further work with a client for the opportunity of changing their mind.

The way I see, if white men were to just let each other think and behave however they want...look where that has gotten us. More appropriately, look where that has gotten people unlike "us".

An intermediate solution is to disclose this information to inquiring forum members in a PM - if you are not comfortable disclosing it in a public forum.

It may also be a good idea to search for who you’re looking for in here to see if he’s been reviewed, since many of us have. You can search by RM URL, or search the 5 digits in their masseurfinder profile (mine is 24130) to see if they’ve been reviewed here. 

You said you've hired around 20 guys and only 2 have delivered what you want. Maybe stick with those 2 then if you enjoyed them. That way you don't even have to explain to someone new all you're looking for and hoping it works out.