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He posted on his instagram. I doubt he can afford a publicist right now.

Fat shaming is mean 😂 

Thoughts and prayers for him.

The police have other priorities, like pardoning sex traffickers 

Wonder how Rhyheim Shabazz would react to this guy, who is using his pics to bait clients with the "pay-before-with-paypal scam", quoting him as having a 7" dick.

I used to cruise Chinese restaurants.  I was a wonton slut.   
I used to cruise gyms hoping for a guy who could lift 2000 pounds.  I was a one ton slut.
I used to cruise guys by begging.  I was a wantin' slut. 
I would cruise guys who smoked a pipe. I was a one tin slut.  
I used to cruise guys who were members of the Marsalis musical family.  i was a Wynton slut.
I used to cruise guys at low budget Italian movies.  I was a spaghetti western slut.
 

Onlyfans collaborations where he films your encounter and it gets published, or making personal request videos…. want to watch him wank whilst saying your name and what he’d do to you? Just ask and he will name the price, film the video and provide it to you. That kind of thing. 

If you think of it like that, you won’t succeed. That’s the first consideration. 

I couldn’t agree more.
There’s this one regular I started seeing a few months before COVID. During the pandemic, he asked if I could front him the fee for a future session. I felt bad for him and everything going on, so I sent the money, fully expecting I’d never see him or the money again.
But to my surprise, he came through and not only he delivered but with extended time as a thank you.
Since then, he’s asked for the same favor every year, usually in the first couple of weeks of January. I’ll admit, every time I send the money, I assume it’s the last I’ll hear from him. Yet here we are in 2025, and he’s still showing up.

I don’t care what an escort does in his private life as long as he fulfills what I want. Also, me and my husband (who is a top) hire together so guys who can really top and bottom in a session are *chef’s kiss.” 
I’ve seen members here question the masculinity of providers as if there’s some authentic masculinity. There isn’t. It’s all a performance that we learn growing up and some of us then lean more into what feels “natural” to us. 

I have a "hiring identity". This includes a name, burner phone number and a Gmail account for this hobby. I don't host either.

Posted by the ex of Mr. Cali on Facebook 
God don’t like ugly… #RestInPeaceAnywayz 🌹  

I must be lucky. My new regular actually asked me how he can do better for the next time. He is in his mid 20’s.

Diddy was just convicted under 18 US code 2421. So the Mann’s Act still has bite.

When I’m privately contacted by a member of the forum, I first look at their activity on the site. If they have contributed and shared their experiences, then I’ll give them details. 
If they are a “lurker”,  and I see a pattern that they continuously “bump” and inquire but never take the plunge or share, then I don’t respond. 
I only share my experiences with others who share and those who sometimes take the chance to hire. 
 

 
 

If it were me, I would simply reply to their question -- e.g., I'd say "I'm interesting in hiring you for a 90 minute massage on either July 4th or 5th" or whatever it is.  It seems like that's more likely to result in him actually traveling to your area, assuming he gets other interested clients, than you questioning why his travel schedule is contradictory.  But that's all if you actually intend to hire him.  If you're just attracted to him and trying to figure out what his "game" is, I'd just drop it.  He could very well be doing what you think (gauging the market to see if it's worth a trip) or he might just be marketing himself generally (e.g., trying to get OF subscribers).

I have become cautious of sharing more details of any experience (either good or bad) because of the number of accounts on the site that are merely voyeuristic and just want to read about other individual's experiences for their own pleasure without ever actually hiring a provider themselves.  Whether they do this because they are not in a financial position to hire, are not out of the closet, or are just looking for a fantasy to use makes no difference.  My reviews and comments are moving from having details to being a bit more generic of "thumbs up" or "thumbs down".  
So questions to me about "does he kiss", "does he PNP", "does he bareback", "what does he charge" etc. will get the same response such as "I had a good time, hire him and experience him for yourself" or "I probably would not repeat, your milage may vary."
 

I see no reason to ask that question on a form and every reason to ask that question as part of the. history taking.  I would usually ask the question in this manner.  Are you sexually active.  Most adults reply yes, many with the same old tired jokes. Not as much as I want to or some variation thereof.  After the oh you're so witty moment has passed, the next question assuming a yes to the first is:  Do have sex with men, women or both.  Which is your preferred partner?   This may lead to follow up questions such as when was the last time, how many partners etc.  Other questions such as have you knowingly had unprotected sex with Iv drug users.  Gay men.  Those questions go to both sexes.  If I sense any hesitance in the patient or I see that they are uncomfortable, I explain the need for an accurate sexual history related to possible exposure to sexually transmitted disease.  Unfortunately, I have had more than several patients come in for a routine physical who say that they have never been asked those questions by other doctors.  I explain that this is an essential part of the history but if they do not want to proceed, it would be best to find another practitioner though I will perform the rest of the exam at this time and note the request to not ask sexually related questions.   I can think of at least 5 occasions in which the answers to the questions led to HIV testing and a positive test.  I did not routinely order the test, but I always asked if they wanted to have the test done.    Of those five occasion  one was a pregnant woman who would have had the test done as part of the prenatal evaluation in any case, but she was very surprised at the result.  Another was a man in his 70s who said he had not had sex in 10 years and he had not had sex with a man for slightly longer than that.  His chief complain was fatigue.   
So while I think the question is clumbsily phrased and the whole situation could be handled more personally, I am pleased that at least the questions are being asked.  

Total con. Even if he was real, and for hire, he wouldn’t last very long soliciting for business on Onlyfans. They ban that sort of thing. I bet this guy doesn’t exist, the pics are not him and once you subscribe you get nothing but requests for more payment to see pics / films that are pay per view. Avoid. 

Disclosing your own status is fine.  Disclosing someone’s status is illegal and an invitation for trouble. 
On the other hand, it is still a crime to hide your HIV status from your sexual partners in some states.

3 thousands are the number that you need to master to be considered as literate. 

3 thousands are the number that you need to master to be considered as literate. 

I should have been more prepared with a pseudonym when I started sex work.  But I don’t do well with them!  I always fuck it up and use my real name by accident. 
So Damian it is!