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Big car = small dick. 
There’s a strong correlation.
 

So I’ve fallen for the okie doke many times now so don’t feel bad or think you’re stupid cause it happens to the best of us from time to time just don’t make a habit out of it and consider it a contribution to your karma. I always figure that they must be in a pretty fucked up place to go through all that to get a couple dollars so they probably need it more than I do and that’s a blessing.
I recently violated my own policy of not making deposits and not only did he play me, he kept trying to get me to send more! I was deeply disappointed but I knew better from the start. Take it as a class and learn the lesson. No money in advance unless you already know them and trust them to come through.

The above quote was from a discussion of Apollo Phoenix (one of the best, IMHO!) in the Deli section. I thought it might be a general topic for discussion here on the Forum, for both clients and any providers who care to discuss.
In my case, I have found an escort I see once or twice a month on a regular basis, who states in his ad that he loves to “serve” his clients. I have never tired of his ability to always surprise me in the bedroom.
Somehow he’s been able to find all my g-spots, some of which I didn’t even know I had before I met him, and vary his attention to specifically different areas of my body in each of our sessions, surprising and delighting me each and every time I see him, and making every time we meet better than before.
I’ve been using his services since September of 2021 (my first post-pandemic hire!) So yes, he is definitely one of the most talented lovers I’ve ever met, who knows how to vary our interactions each time enough to make our sessions delightfully different/surprising every time!
As he states in his ad, he loves to serve, and it’s become obvious to me now that the more he’s able to turn me on, the more he gets turned on himself. That, in turn, turns me on even more, which turns him on even more…and leads to an unbelievably soul-shaking climax.
What makes him truly special for me is the feeling that by letting him take over furnishing my pleasure, his pleasure increases. I am not young, and I’m overweight, basically not a hot guy, but I always leave my times with him feeling beautiful, and knowing that he also is happy that he is able to make me feel beautiful!!!
Not Viagra, or Protestant work ethic in his particular case, no. Just the pleasure of both of us knowing we have enjoyed the “dance” each time we are together!
TruHart1 😎

Please make this a T-shirt. 

This year I've been hiring almost exclusively non-English speaking Latinos, and I insist they speak only Spanish and correct mine.
It's a great addition to Rosetta Stone, real (but very simple and basic) conversation. And I file the Zelle payments as "Spanish instruction".
They seemed more flattered to end up as a language tutor than finding it weird. And glad this hobby can lead to personal improvement.

He might be genuine. A friend once met a guy on Adam that thought he was too good to be true. They agreed to meet in person and he was as advertised. It's a rare occurrence but it happens. Take a chance. You will know sooner than later if he's a scammer. Just keep your eyes open and your wallet and heart closed until you find out more about him!

I'm truly versatile, in that I enjoy both topping and bottoming equally. I really love flip-fucking. So for years, I'd listed Versatile in my RM profile, and made a point of mentioning that I'm truly vers and love both.
However, the vast majority of clients want me to top (no complaints there!), so a year or so ago I switched to Vers/Top on my profile. This has more to do with client expectations and desires than what my real preference is, and from what I'm reading here it sounds like other guys have done similar. Comes down to finding a niche and giving the customer what they want.

Yeah the local grocery chain by me does points as well that gives you gas savings so once every month and a half I can cash in my points for usually 40 - 60 cents off a gallon.

Not always true lol. You need to tell the provider what you are looking for and he will tell you if there is a match.

I wasn’t complaining about the scheduling issues. I turn down business and it’s fine, that’s not my problem. My complaint was the enquiry that doesn’t end with either of ‘I’m booking’ or ‘thanks but no thanks’. You’re just left hanging. Thats unacceptable. Sometimes those guys ask again months later…guess what. I ignore them. 

Frankly, he doesn't owe anyone an explanation, and in reality, whether he needs it or not is immaterial. If that's what he wants, he is entitled to ask for it, and decline any engagement if the client is not prepared to accept it as a condition of meeting him. He can then move on as if that client had never been a realistic prospect.

Sorry that happened. I would never hire a guy that young. Around 25 is the minimum age for me, but prefer guys in their 30s and even early 40s. 19 year olds just don’t have the maturity, nor the development, both mentally and physically. They are also more likely to be on the skinny twinkish side of things, which is not my type.

That may be true for New Orleans. But some cities are just outliers for no clear reasons. Philly is one and San Diego is another one. 

Deposits take many forms.  Reminds me of experience with a 30-something “twink” still operating in New Orleans.  Apologizing in advance for the sour grapes, but sometimes the best reinforcement comes from true stories.  

Days before our first meet, he had a crisis with his mini storage contents being auctioned for non payment unless he had $181 by 5PM.
I sent the money - cha ching - plus a bit   Total $250.
As the date approached a couple days later, “the vet was too expensive so now I don’t have the money to replace the tire to make the drive to your house.”  I sent the money plus a bit - cha ching - another $250…I accidentally sent twice…so then I’m $750 into an overnight that has yet to happen.
He did show for our for our first meeting…if I recall about 2 hrs late…but I was doubting until he rolled into the driveway  
Within 24 hrs of his arrival at my house, this situation started a spiral into the most dramatic chaos you could imagine.  In the end, over the next 30 days, the “deposit” turned into $3,300 (to avoid eviction, groceries, ransoming his car from the impound lot for unpaid tickets….) that was to be repaid at $100/wk. of course, he missed a couple of planned engagements as well for lame excuses.   Naturally, I’ve not seen a dime and his situation seems to have spiraled further out of control rendering him completely untrustworthy to me.  
So, first, I own the fact that I allowed myself to be hustled.   But let’s call it what it is:
- outsized deposits rooted in chaotic life management issues are not the mark of a professional and are a major red flag
- life’s too short to get pulled into someone else’s drama
A token deposit for a well reviewed professional gentleman is a valid business tool for them and evidence of good faith from you - particularly if they have costs to get to you.  But when the request is rooted in a shaggy dog story to make you feel like an a$$hole if you say no, then it’s likely a hustle.   Just say “no” and cancel the plans.  If you’re conflicted about it, PM me for moral support   
As to this situation, I’d be more forgiving and tolerant if he’d made even a token attempt to repay.   But his attitude is one of entitlement because I had the money to “give” so he shouldn’t have to repay.   Such is the mark of the hustler who doesn’t have the standing to get a legitimate deposit but still wants money upfront.
 

Unfortunately a lot of these unprofessional providers live chaotic or on the edge of chaotic lifestyles. They’ll manage to show up for you a couple of times and it’ll be fun but eventually they’ll let you down because ‘they have to’. They didn’t mean it (they rationalise to themselves), their need is more important than yours (they tell themselves) and they definitely maybe mean to reimburse you (they tell you) but somehow it never happens and time moves on. Their life becomes more chaotic and they forget. 
The red flags for these guys are always there: irregular replies, indications of drug use, unpredictable behaviour etc but they look hot and are enticing so you overlook it all and get drawn in. Hire professional guys, it’s much better for your sanity and your bank balance…
 
 
 

Blame the loss of quality on OF, JF etc. The illusion of easy online money makes a generation lazy and entitled.

A4A is now the home of scammers and crazies. I had stayed away since the covid. 

Blame the loss of quality on OF, JF etc. The illusion of easy online money makes a generation lazy and entitled.

A4A is now the home of scammers and crazies. I had stayed away since the covid. 

A4A is now the home of scammers and crazies. I had stayed away since the covid. 

To get closer to the truth, you may need to subtract two inches 😂.

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