MikeyGMin

We've met. He has an unbelievably tight hard body. His beard is shorter, and in my opinion, more attractive. It is definitely not a rub and tug. It's not cheap but I was satisfied with the overall experience.

My personal opinion is that lack of reciprocity has less to do with cleanliness then it does the ravages of time. Rimming is actually my favorite activity. I get lost in the look and feel of a beautiful bubble butt and can't get enough of it. But let's be honest, age is not kind to a man's ass. I certainly have not been able to do enough squats to turn back the clock.
 
I would have little interest in rimming a young man with a flat, nothing kind of ass, and there is no way in hell you would get me near a time ravaged little old man ass.
 
There's also the numbers issue. I have gotten giardia one time from rimming many hundreds of times. Since escorts have an exponentially higher number of contacts then someone like myself, that risk for them would be much greater.

I agree. I love it when a man totally owns his age, but I can understand shaving a few years. Especially in your early thirties. I've seen guys on this forum say they will not consider guys out of their twenties, so why not stay 28 for five or six years? As long as you are really fit and can pull it off.
 
However, there ain't nobody out there who can pull off a decade or more shave.

No, but I bet if she refused to have sex with black men you would probably have no problem calling her a racist.
 
I actually do think it's homophobic -- especially with her comment that she doesn't know what they do in their private lives -- but I doubt the crossover male models give a shit since they get paid more to do gay porn. At the very least it demonstrates a lot of ignorance about disease transmission. You would think someone in the sex industry would stay up on the science. And don't they do pre-shoot testing in straight porn the same as gay porn?

Just spent a couple very enjoyable hours with a new guy in Austin. Pictures are accurate. An amazingly tight body. Review in progess.
 
https://rent.men/Connorevans

This is the one situation where I would be motivated and feel obligated to explain myself. I have a regular who has enhanced my life for almost 2 years. The only reason I would stop seeing him would be a change in my financial situation. Even though he's not exactly the self-doubting type, I would still want to tell him that.

LOL. I recommend that you never say this to a Persian.

That is one of the sweetest gay coming-of-age movies ever made. When this thread first started my first thought was the scene where Jamie and Steve are coming home from their first visit to a gay pub. Running through the park so joyfully and stopping to make out. I couldn't find a clip of it though.

Saw this a while back and it stuck with me.
 

I honestly can't say how much was technique vs my normal difficulty climaxing, but I was "almost there" for a good 30 minutes until I was exhausted and wanted to stop.
 
Note: he is very clear about what gets massaged. He has some good technique to work up to the main event, but you spend no time on your stomach getting your back rubbed. Not a good fit if a Swedish or deep tissue massage is your first priority.

To get around this particular issue you should be able to put both e-tickets on your phone, but to answer your original question, no. I can't think of a single person I know (over the age of 12) who does not have a smartphone

Hmmm. Certainly tedious if overused, and doesn't really apply to the sentence you chose, but I can't think of another way to express in writing when you are truly stunned by something. Which is the only time I would slow my speech down like that.

I have worked in finance (that's my excuse) for a high-tech company that makes all this crap -- for more than 20 years -- and I don't have a clue what he said either!

You’re showing your age!

It's generally pretty difficult to "get" something that doesn't float your boat. I don't get the attraction to twinks at ALL. (I mean seriously...ewww.) but I get that it's a valid variation on what people like.

Lol. The change of attitude has NOTHING to do with you "pioneers" and EVERYTHING to do with the development of PrEP. I'm glad you survived and hope you didn't infect too many people along the way.

I don't really agree. It doesn't need to be a lack of self-esteem that makes you acknowledge that the vast majority of young guys are not interested in older guys. So if your idea of success is scoring with young guys, outside the escorting world, it's just a fact of life that you have to come to terms with. I think what's really key is to not let that be the determining factor in your happiness or self-satisfaction. Those are the guys who make themselves miserable and let it impact their self-esteem.

It's the nature of the apps. I go through this all the time with a (young) Persian friend of mine who is honestly looking for friends and not hook ups. I keep telling him that when someone says they are open to friendship, what they really mean is, "let's fuck and maybe we can be friends afterwards." He's really a cute guy and gets all kinds of messages. Which promptly end as soon as it becomes obvious he is serious about the friendship thing. It's a different issue, but the same mentality.

Or gonorrhea or syphilis or Giardia or crabs or a host of other STIs. Having sex with another gay man (who is unlikely to be pure and virginal) is a risk-reward calculation. However, the calculation has changed significantly over the last few years for a LOT of people. For others it has not and that is fine. Why do something that is over you're comfortable risk level if it's going to take the enjoyment out of the whole thing? At the same time, the finger-wagging at those who HAVE changed is worthless noise.

I think there's a fundamental difference in the dynamics of male/male and male/female relationships and attitudes about casual (compensated or not) sex.
 
Times are changing -- slowly -- but this is still a very patriarchal society and female "virtue" has a value to straight men that does not have a corollary in the gay male world. There is also a sizable difference in the stigma placed on female sex workers that requires additional compensation.
 
Finally, and probably most importantly, is that gay men can more easily access alternate hookups. They may not be the insanely hot young men we have hired, but there are plenty of acceptable peers if you just lower your expectations. It has always been easier for gay men to get sex. I know that things are loosening up in the straight world, but I don't think they are anywhere close to the traditional and current state of our hook ups. Gay men know this, so the cost/benefit is unlikely to ever be the same. At least not in my lifetime.

No one will ever know until they hit that moment, but yes I do believe it. I base that on the death of my partner. I regretted then, and still do, the years I spent away from him in the military. It jump-started my career, but I would rather have had the extra time with him.

No one will ever know until they hit that moment, but yes I do believe it. I base that on the death of my partner. I regretted then, and still do, the years I spent away from him in the military. It jump-started my career, but I would rather have had the extra time with him.

We've established that that is NOT Nick Jonas in post number 12. I don't even think it's a Photoshop. I don't think it's him at all.
 
This is him just yesterday.
 
http://www.justjared.com/2018/04/17/nick-jonas-shows-off-buff-biceps-at-the-gym/

When I met him he was very enthusiastic about his escort work but his passion was art. I hope that he has found a way to pursue the latter and did not have an experience that soured him on the former.

No one ever knows what's really going on in anyone's head, but I sure don't get that feeling from Nick Jonas. Like he is in any way disdainful out of the attraction by gay men. All I see is an extremely hot and talented young man who seems very comfortable in his skin and his sexiness. Even though he's the youngest, he was the driving force behind the success of the Jonas Brothers. And have you seen his sex scene in 'Kingdom?' Damn! If that's gay -baiting I want a whole lot more of it! :D