Eric Hassan

Thanks! I'll PM you. RE: Chad - he was doing a lot of broadcasts on Periscope for a while, but I've not seen him on there lately. I would definitely hire him - and I would be a very very very easy hire. He would only need to wear a polo shirt and sit there.
 
I'm interested to hear all the feedback about Marco Rossi. I was a big fan of his in the early 2000's. I lived in Palm Spring at the time and had a fuck buddy who was friends with him - he offered to introduce us, but it never panned out, largely because I didn't want to potentially ruin the fantasies I had about him by meeting him in real life. Seems like I made the right choice, unfortunately.

we’re all different, and while i think there are things we could do to increase our ability to perform, i also think it’s worth your time to learn to accept who you are and how you operate. 
i’m in my 40s and i would say that i haven’t experienced a decrease in my sexual energy but i do know that some days i have less energy and some days i have more - i try to remind myself i’m not a machine and i’m allowed to have ups and downs  so are you!
 

we’re all different, and while i think there are things we could do to increase our ability to perform, i also think it’s worth your time to learn to accept who you are and how you operate. 
i’m in my 40s and i would say that i haven’t experienced a decrease in my sexual energy but i do know that some days i have less energy and some days i have more - i try to remind myself i’m not a machine and i’m allowed to have ups and downs  so are you!
 

we’re all different, and while i think there are things we could do to increase our ability to perform, i also think it’s worth your time to learn to accept who you are and how you operate. 
i’m in my 40s and i would say that i haven’t experienced a decrease in my sexual energy but i do know that some days i have less energy and some days i have more - i try to remind myself i’m not a machine and i’m allowed to have ups and downs  so are you!
 

Speaking in general, based on my experience. 
Everyone finds their own way through a mix of following advice, trial and error and breaking new ground. 
Mixing sex work with other work (including things like having a fans site) works for me. My only advice to anyone doing this work is to do it from a position where you have agency. That’s all. 
 

Reasons for doing sex work are as varied as reasons for doing any other kind of work. Sometimes it’s a necessity for money sometimes it’s a calling. It will impact how dedicated and committed someone is to it.
It’s a lazy assumption to make that people only do sex work out of desperation. The other sex workers I know do it out of choice. So do I. I enjoy it. I like the flexibility, the variety, the excitement, meeting people, helping them to explore their sexual selves and other aspects of their personality that come out in a truly intimate situation. 
I think though that because the work is precarious, and unpredictable (sometimes busy, sometimes not) then it’s important to have a secure source of alternative income from a part time job or other work that fits around the sex work. Flexibility is key here. That gives you the security to build the sex work client base and keeps things in perspective I think.
 

There is also the concept of “expansion”~ Expansion is broadening one’s skill set~ Providing and Escorting are not exclusively about “sex”~ it can also include adventuring, exploring, cooking, medical advocacy, music, guiding people on tours and trips, counseling, esteem building, long-term partnerships that include all aspects of a relationship and can be with or without sex. I I think it’s important to make the distinction that there are different types of providers and different types of services… Not all escorts are prostitutes not all providers are prostitutes not all prostitutes are escorts some people combine all these things together plus more. There are clients I have known for nearly 22 years and the parameters of our relationship evolve constantly… We grow together… Sometimes it’s more physical and sometimes it’s more emotional or psychological or even spiritual…
 Life bonds can happen. While it’s easy to superficially visualize provision and escorting as something exclusively sexual, the reality is that it can be some thing more deeply rooted in cultivating intimacy on the deepest levels in ways that are not necessarily always sexual or physical at all~
  There can even be Love shared~ 

Big assumption that 30’s brings a decline. I didn’t start working in the sex industry until my 40’s. I was far too immature and naive when younger to do this type of work properly. It would have eaten me up. Now I eat it up 🙂 
I’ve always been physically active and am fortunate enough to have good genes I guess so I keep looking fit but more importantly feeling fit and healthy. I don’t drink or do any substances either so I’m sure that helps. 
One thing I learned working as a sex worker is to discard all the lazy stereotype assumptions about sex workers I had previously. All kinds of people do this work and if my experience of them is anything to go by they’re a lot more genuine, decent and open minded group of people than I encountered working in the world of big corporations and board rooms. And a lot more intelligent too. 

 

Wow...  a lot of assumptions here.  
MOST escorts don't live in "the big city with the high life".   In fact I would venture a guess to say very few live the "high life".  All of the ones I know across a dozen cities are just normal guys who are not rich by any means. While some escorts are able to sustain their lifestyle through their work, I would venture a guess that MANY do it as a side gig to have extra spending cash or supplement their income.   You make the assumption that once you hit your mid 30's, it's all downhill and that their escorting days are over.  Some escorts just start hitting their stride in their 30-40's.  Not everyone is looking to hire an 18-25 year old.    There are several escorts that I know who have been able to make a pretty long run out of the activity with no signs of slowing down.   You're making the assumption the escort would not have made provisions for later in life. This is no different than someone in ANY field/career.  Some do and some don't.  As I noted, for many it's not even their primary income.  Those that do have it as their primary income typically are smarter about knowing it does not last forever and have something else they can do outside of escorting.  One started his own massage business...  another went into construction...  another is a motivational speaker.  There are a lot of career options outside of escorting!  

I don't think you can generalize the situation. Aging is a gradual process and while mid thirties is perhaps the peak of male powers in many ways, the descent into the 40's for many is a great time given the added experiences and skills one acquires.
I have hired providers up to around 50 or so and enjoyed the experience. At that age they still seem young to me.

Yes I agree with @Jarrod_Uncutabout using Viagra. It works but don’t get reliant on it. I use it if I’m shooting porn or going to a sex party (not work) but otherwise I don’t use it if I’m seeing clients. In porn I have to cum but if I’m at a sex party most guys just want to stay hard for the evening and cum at the end. In that respect viagra helps to keep hard the whole time.

I think sometimes it’s also psychological - and taking any similar pill (such as a herbal or natural variety) will have the same effect as viagra.
My clients tend to be spread out too so it’s rare I’ll see more than 1 in a day. I can cope with that!!
The advice to exercise and eat well is also good. You need stamina and to be physically flexible. I don’t drink alcohol so I think that helps me keep weight off, as well as the exercise. 

we’re all different, and while i think there are things we could do to increase our ability to perform, i also think it’s worth your time to learn to accept who you are and how you operate. 
i’m in my 40s and i would say that i haven’t experienced a decrease in my sexual energy but i do know that some days i have less energy and some days i have more - i try to remind myself i’m not a machine and i’m allowed to have ups and downs  so are you!
 

we’re all different, and while i think there are things we could do to increase our ability to perform, i also think it’s worth your time to learn to accept who you are and how you operate. 
i’m in my 40s and i would say that i haven’t experienced a decrease in my sexual energy but i do know that some days i have less energy and some days i have more - i try to remind myself i’m not a machine and i’m allowed to have ups and downs  so are you!
 

we’re all different, and while i think there are things we could do to increase our ability to perform, i also think it’s worth your time to learn to accept who you are and how you operate. 
i’m in my 40s and i would say that i haven’t experienced a decrease in my sexual energy but i do know that some days i have less energy and some days i have more - i try to remind myself i’m not a machine and i’m allowed to have ups and downs  so are you!
 

we’re all different, and while i think there are things we could do to increase our ability to perform, i also think it’s worth your time to learn to accept who you are and how you operate. 
i’m in my 40s and i would say that i haven’t experienced a decrease in my sexual energy but i do know that some days i have less energy and some days i have more - i try to remind myself i’m not a machine and i’m allowed to have ups and downs  so are you!
 

we’re all different, and while i think there are things we could do to increase our ability to perform, i also think it’s worth your time to learn to accept who you are and how you operate. 
i’m in my 40s and i would say that i haven’t experienced a decrease in my sexual energy but i do know that some days i have less energy and some days i have more - i try to remind myself i’m not a machine and i’m allowed to have ups and downs  so are you!
 

we’re all different, and while i think there are things we could do to increase our ability to perform, i also think it’s worth your time to learn to accept who you are and how you operate. 
i’m in my 40s and i would say that i haven’t experienced a decrease in my sexual energy but i do know that some days i have less energy and some days i have more - i try to remind myself i’m not a machine and i’m allowed to have ups and downs  so are you!
 

It’s impossible to offend me. To be offended you have to take offence and I choose not to accept the offence. It’s their problem not mine. 
Occasionally clients are impolite (things like avoiding eye contact) but that’s probably anxiety or feeling bad about themselves. It doesn’t bother me, in fact it’s a fun challenge to then help them be less anxious and inhibited. 

Actually I can empathize with the client who said his ass needs a break.😅

One small suggestion I have is why not utilize the "Traveling Providers" forum on here? You can post a thread saying for instance "April 2022 East Coast Tour" and list cities that you are able to or planning on visiting or see where guys on the forum might want you to come. And then edit it as you can lock down more specific dates and cities. Not saying that will come close to solving the problem but I think you'll get at least two or three more reliable bookings.

Just a couple things to add: the experience you will have as a bottom is more related to skill than size. Having a top who knows what he is doing and pays attention to your reactions, asks how you are, etc is key. As many have mentioned, reading reviews and asking folks on this forum will help you find tops who are skilled. There are a lot of hung tops out there who know what they're doing!
 
Also, if you want to talk more about poppers, I'm happy to have a conversation. I'm known for my knowledge and use of poppers, and I'm happy to share info so that anyone can make an informed, healthy choice. I've got a small section about poppers on my blog, and I'm working on a site - brownbottlebrotherhood.com - to be a mega resource for poppers.

i believe that government health agencies are helping folks get PrEP as a way to stop the spread of HIV, particularly in vulnerable populations where there may be poverty and folks might be under- or un-insured. these are not experiments on the populace. rather, it is part of a multi-pronged approach to public health, with specific regard to HIV/AIDS. an example of this sort of planning and execution can be seen in new york state, where the governor has pledged to help decrease new infections, which will lead to a decreased prevalance of HIV and, eventually, to a cessation of new infections. it's a lofty goal, and might take longer than we will be alive, but it's not a willy-nilly experiment.
 
you can read more about this here: https://www.health.ny.gov/diseases/aids/ending_the_epidemic/

Just a couple things to add: the experience you will have as a bottom is more related to skill than size. Having a top who knows what he is doing and pays attention to your reactions, asks how you are, etc is key. As many have mentioned, reading reviews and asking folks on this forum will help you find tops who are skilled. There are a lot of hung tops out there who know what they're doing!
 
Also, if you want to talk more about poppers, I'm happy to have a conversation. I'm known for my knowledge and use of poppers, and I'm happy to share info so that anyone can make an informed, healthy choice. I've got a small section about poppers on my blog, and I'm working on a site - brownbottlebrotherhood.com - to be a mega resource for poppers.

I'm so sad to hear this news.
 
I think of all the people I've met and conversations and adventures I've had and smiles that have been put on my face as a consequence of me being on this site and I'm truly, truly grateul. I imagine we all are, and I hope that Daddy understood he wasn't just running a website, but rather holding a space for our community.
 
Rest easy, Daddy xo

I'm so sad to hear this news.
 
I think of all the people I've met and conversations and adventures I've had and smiles that have been put on my face as a consequence of me being on this site and I'm truly, truly grateul. I imagine we all are, and I hope that Daddy understood he wasn't just running a website, but rather holding a space for our community.
 
Rest easy, Daddy xo