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Do tell. There's extra beef on the menu over there ?

There's a few attractive providers on RM who show up during a search that have been inactive for a while. Classic case of "I missed the boat". 😔

Same with the "Me-too" movement. Makes no sense why you'd wait 20 years to bring sexual misconduct to light. But I would point out that most Americans have a strange relationship with their seuxal selves and SHAME is a big factor in why people refuse to discuss it.

Conservative ??? 🤔 Who are you referring to ? I live in NYC. Most of my friends are artistic/creative types and I am raising two kids in an open marriage with a woman who used to identify as gay and so did I when I was younger. That's "conservative" to you ?? I may not be a full fledged homosexual, but I AM a man who is attracted to men and I've been around the block with the gay boys enough to know how all this works. And I am a contributing member to this site which is welcoming the LGBT community INCLUDING the "B" whether or not YOU are so grossly bigoted that you think bisexuals should just keep their opinions to themselves. Reubens may have liked his women round and I am aware that there are plenty of men who like a little meat on the bone. But what we are discussing here is F*A*T not "portly" "dad-bod" or "chunky". Anyone who is attracted to OBESITY is nonconforming with human nature. It's a fetish. Which is fine....but stop pretending that it's normative in the gay community. it's just not. If a provider is going to offer a discount it's because you're younger / fitter or better looking than most of his other clients. Not because you're the prize hog at the County Fair.

I don't know how you guys do it. I RARELY EVER hire someone for ONE hour of sex without meeting them once first. ( usually hire them for massage first to catch a vibe ). I can't imagine paying $$$ to spend two full days with a complete stranger only to discover we can't stand each other.

I believe that's a rule violation. Social media needs to be publicly posted on their pro page or shared here privately.

In NYC now.

I think it certainly counts as "sex" but I can share that in MY relationship sex with men is not considered "cheating". My wife is fine with occasional hook ups with men. Particularly with paid company, but would draw the line if I were to be seeing other women. So yeah...it "doesn't count".

I second this opinion. Two full days is an expensive hire, to be winging it with a provider who's ability to connect with your personality is unknown.

Exactly. Sadly some contributing members in this conversation are convinced this gaslighting was genuine desire.

Yes. True. Thank you for noticing. 😘

Grindr should have a feature to adjust for "confounders". 😝 Everyone claims to be 8 inches.

No one said that relationships don't exist between old and/or fat people. We were discussing gay men who actually have a sexual PREFERENCE for FAT men... not two chubby dudes who fell in love. All animals choose mates based on a variety of signals but primarily HEALTH is an overwhelming driver in this decision-making process. That's why very old and very fat people are never chosen unless some unique person has a fetish that drives away the natural inclination to form bonds with a healthy partner. The 85% you speak of are people who are average or formerly good looking people who's bond has grown past their need for physical beauty. But this isn't the subject at hand. We are discussing prostitution...not love.

Same here. Super annoying Thanks @RadioRob That worked.

Are they measuring all these penises or are they asking ?

There's always someone out there with a fetish for just about anything

No. I am not. I simply coax them into wearing a jockstrap, I make them think I have an underwear fetish, not a revulsion to uncut dick.

Yes.

I agree. So much easier to deal with when it's an ugly person..

Cooking wine lasts longer on the shelf. If you always have a bottle of wine open, it's use is unnecessary. I use it myself because I don't like to waste good wine deglazing a pan. Yes there's sodium in there ..so what. Just adjust your recipe. I'm not 90 years old and avoiding salt.

We all have an origin story. Which is why it's ridiculous to attempt to apply YOUR standards of what's "normal" sexually to another person with a different origin story. Sexuality is a private matter with lots of subconscious drivers. For whatever reasons I generally favor men with dark hair and brown eyes. So Latino men often catch my attention...but I usually pass knowing what I'm going to have to deal with down under. (Unless they're SO sub that i wont be expected to reciprocate). So I sympathize with the OP who started this thread. There are some places in Latin America where hospitals will recommend circumcision for baby boys. So it's not an impossible find. In a pinch, I just ask an uncut bottom to wear a jockstrap so I don't have to look at it. 🙈

Most likely true. I grew up in an all white American small city where everyone was circumcised. So that's what looks "normal" to me. It's a reasonable argument that had circumcision not been the standard, I wouldn't be repulsed by it. But the fact remains that I didn't see an uncut dick for many years. So my mind says "yuck" when I see one. Nothing I can do to change that.

@Simon Suraci If you're not specifically addressing a person, you're not "putting others down". Not everyone subscribes to this lady's tea party attitude of: "If you don't have something nice to say, don't say it at all". My grandmother would enjoy your company, but, personally I'd be bored. Life would be very dull if everyone just smiled and agreed with each other. Differences of opinions make for a FAR more interesting conversation, as long as you don't sling insults directly into someone's face. I don't agree with your call for a fascist Disneyland kind of control over conversation. Sorry.

Why are you even bothering with this person to begin with ? His prices are more inline with a porn star...and this one's not much to look at. So time to move on. Rude or not rude he's not worth these prices.

You seem to be completely misunderstanding my point. I said we shouldn't judge others for their turn on's. I equally believe you shouldn't be judged for your turn OFFS We go around this wheel all the time here. Only you have ownership of your sexual preferences. As long as you're not a child molester or a rapist it's no one's place to judge what you like ( or dislike ) or make negative comments about one's right to express said likes (or dislikes)