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I am not judging anyone's sexual tastes. I am curiously asking WHY people are so opposed to condoms. There's a big difference.

Then I'm confused. Fire Island was definitely full of older-in-shape men with money. ( At least in the Pines ) The Grove was full of Lesbians. I didn't see many children. That's the only difference I hear.

I totally feel you, there. I did have some good success in the early days of online hook ups....Manhunt, Adam4Adam and GayRomeo ( now Planet Romeo ) but I agree...Grindr is so full of fakes and flakes it's nearly impossible to actually snag a "snack" anymore.

Why would you lube up BEFORE you put on a condom ? 🤔 Sounds like you never bothered with condoms. I was a teenager in the middle of the AIDS crisis ...so I didn't have a choice. I was also sexually active with girls...so I additionally wanted to make sure any "family planning" was in MY hands, not just hers.

I've been to Fire Island, ( both the Pines and the Grove ) but never been to Provincetown..what's the difference ? 🤔

I seem to be the outlier here. Everyone talks about how it feels so much better without a condom. Are you guys slapping on a garbage bag or something 🤔? Outside of the annoying 20 seconds it takes to open a condom wrapper and place it on my cock...the sensation difference is SO miniscule to me I see ABSOLUTELY NO reason to choose risk of spreading contagious diseases. I think it's all mental if you think it's that different.

Exactly my experience. The party-gays seem to be more clique-ish than the mean-girls were in High School.

And you didn't answer my question. What are you basing your judgement on ? How do you feel that you KNOW your attackers were "straight" ? The statistics are readily available online to back up my statement

..which is find ridiculous. What a world these millennials are creating ! No wonder they are always depressed.

I'm sure you WANT to believe that but the statistics don't line up with your thoughts on the matter. Men are men.

I disagree (slightly). Once the system allowed mentally ill people the right to self determination, half-way houses were set up as methods of integrating them back into society. Consistently they failed to volunteer to remain in a structured and healthy environment. Mentally ill people will more often choose the freedom of the streets.

Which makes sense since 10% of the population is gay and another 12 to 15% are actively bisexual. (Obviously the polling can be way off..but here the numbers make sense. )

Did "society" fail them ? We used to have institutions to help...but circumstances surrounding their rights of self-detemination took precedence, and here we are with civil rights intact and more people on the street because of it.

Well ....ok. But personal experience and general statistics are different things. If you care to share. I am genuinely curious...are you quite confident two of these men were straight identifying? Were you very young ? Was there a big difference in power dynamics ? One of mine was by an openly gay men who was a friend of a friend and the other was an unknown closeted gay man. I knew he was so becasue I had sex with him twice after the initial sexual assault. (Fucked up..I know). But I was pretty mixed up myself at the time.

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The statistics would disagree with you. The percentage of the population who commit sexual assault is around 30% whether they are straight or gay.

I think men are naturally predatory. Gay men are just as sexually charged as straight men.

So....offering someone cash to someone who is in a position inferior to your own, in exchange for having sex with you is now "rape" ? Y'all are in a LOT of trouble. 😉

I've been raped twice and I was a very fit/ muscular and strong wrestler at that point in my life. Once, I was the victim of having been raped by law enforcement and handcuffed and once being slipped a roofie. I don't think physical strength precluded me from being sexually assaulted. There are always ways around someone fighting you off.

I haven't seen an Asian massage parlor yet that DOESN'T play this game. Advertising with some very fit muscular headless torsos only to discover some pear-shaped 40 year old chain-smokers who actually work there.

I definitely see that. Just off the top of my head I can think of several that have been around since the 1960s along suburban strips that have lost the majority of their Prime vendors to new and better locations further out in the spreading suburban regions. What's left over are muffler shops, "vape" stores, pawn shops and discount liquor warehouses. Management at Denny's seem to have felt that it was good strategy to stay put. Unfortunately the people who now populate the mid-burbs are increasingly poor and will hit McD's and Bojangles before they seek out a sit-down meal where they have to tip a waitress.

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There is definitely a convenience to hiring as opposed to hooking up. This young man is clearly marketing himself to people who enjoy the convenience of escort services, not people who NEED escort services.

Well if you're a "perfect" gay...then you're probably not paying for sex. He has a right to pick and choose who he wants to fuck. He's not running a soup kitchen or a hospital. He can turn away everyone he wants until he finds a client who meets his standards.