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It truly is. There are so many delicious sauces served all over Asia. Ketchup is however, perfect with Pomme Frites. Otherwise it doesn't belong on your food.

This is an example where an upfront deposit might make sense. (As much as I'm opposed to sending money to randoms). If you want to spend time discussing your session..that's reasonable. But you're on the clock.

I'm curious why you're not both moving. I recently moved an elderly friend into a facility in Fort Lauderdale. There are a lot of couples there. Many don't seem to NEED the care...I'm thinking just preparing for the inevitable so it's not a burden later in life.

Yummy. Good find. Makes me wish I were a bottom. 🍑

Because eggs are disgusting without spice. I use jalapeño sauce on my eggs. Ketchup is a bizarre default for Americans who lack global culinary experiences.

In the end...it's all theater. Same as the gay guys who want providers to kiss them and pretend they actually like you. None of this is necessarily real...you just need to get into the head-space to want to believe...and want to pay for someone to help you get there.

Absolutely. That joy did not pass my notice. But I know these gentlemen were incapable of that sense of joyfulness outside of their safe-space. Most of my younger gay friends have no problem enjoying a mainstream venue to hangout / make-out / hook-up etc. with same sex partners. They aren't afraid to grind on the dance floor with another boy while their female friends watch and cheer them on in his sexual pursuit. To me ..this is a far more evolved community that should be more comfortable because they enjoy a more diverse system of emotional support. Not just other gays.

I have been in multiple situations over the years where I ended up in a sexual relationship with a man who was described as emotionally vulnerable for a variety of reasons.( Death / break ups / traumatic military experience ) I wad accused of being a "groomer" because these man were straight but I eneded up sleeping with them on a regular basis. I don't agree ...and they ALL came on to me...not the other way around. But my point being that their fragile emotional state left them vulnerable. Thus the accusations of "grooming". That was 20 years ago...so maybe the term has evolved over the years to be more specific to pedophiles. I just know I've been accused several times and none of these young men were under 18.

When I was in my late 20s I identified as gay and this is when I explored gay-only destinations. Just saying ...the only thing that was common in these places was a sense of shame. I think gay men of younger generations have moved past that.

I do, in fact, prefer straight presenting sexual partners. I have often been accused of "grooming" straight friends and associates. So my understanding is that grooming is defined as manipulating someone into a sexual relationship when a power imbalance is in place. Doesn't need to be a minor. Can be anyone who's vulnerable.

I don't like lying to people. "Thanks for reaching out but I am no longer interested"...seems the most direct and honest response without being mean and without all these lies. (I am dating/ I moved etc).

"Posh" ? Champagne 🍾 ? This is a joke...right ?

I've never been to P-town BECAUSE it was described as "all gay". None of that kind of "gay-ghetto" vibe is interesting to me. I've tried a few gay-centric spots when I was younger but it always seemed kinda sad. Old gays hiding in fear that they might be "discovered" . Personally I feel more comfortable in an environment where I am around gay and bisexual people along WITH the support of allies. This call for isolation seems counterintuitive to me. This is what gay people did BEFORE the equality movement. Why keep doing it ?

We DO wash-up before bed time. Many homes in the area don't HAVE showers. Just a bathtub...so wash-cloths (which a lot of Americans don't even OWN) are more common.

I really prefer providers of sexual services to be "nice" in terms of easy to talk to and open minded, intuitive people who can go from nice to naughty when the clothes come off. I like extreme sexual fetishes but trust is important in this realm so I need to be with someone who I know is a good person behind the wild playtime.

Paying to be a "groomer".

I always assumed that with most couples; opposites attract...so both of them finding the same person to be attractive seems unlikely.

Oh...c'mon. That's just ridiculous. Clearly these gay guys aren't worried about being accused of sexual assault.

A bidet is a must when you're not showering daily.

So you guys think all women are the same as your mom ? She's going to shame you for letting loose with some sexy men ? 🤔

"Calvin" WAS a sweetheart at one time. It's possible with the right substance abuse recovery program that his core personality has returned. He has explored the darkest depths of the BDSM world and (thankfully) survived. There was little he wouldn't do in terms of Kink Play, so he's definitely an experienced provider. I wish him well...but would also advise any client proceed with caution. I haven't talked to him for a couple years. But there is some VERY disturbing mental/emotional stuff brewing under the surface over there.

Why not ? This whole thread is baffling to me. Are a lot of you guys in the closet ? I thought the goal of the gay (LGBT..xyz...) movement was INCLUSION 🤔 It sounds like a lot of you want it both ways. YOU want to be "included" but you don't want straight people to be included the same.

MMXNYC is a members only group...so yeah. You need to participate in the organization before you get any "special treatment" options at their place. They are VERY careful to advertise their business as therapeutic only. The various professional masseurs offer sessions in private rooms at the facility. And what happens in those rooms is of course private. But to maintain their professional reputation you can't book anything "special" with a masseur who you don't already have a relationship with.