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We will agree to disagree. The thread isn't about the subway. It's about getting your hour-boy an Uber. Whether or not stabbings are up or down from 1993 🙄..the point I am making is that the presence of mentally ill drug addicts ( who showed up in 2020 ) makes for an unpleasant and seemingly unsafe environment. I am not playing games determining my statistical chances of being attacked by one of them and I wouldn't put my new-fuck-friend through that either. Uber at night in NYC is reasonable. (Unless you're a cheap-ass who doesn't really care what happens to your date after you get-off.)

I LIVE in NYC. The subway is currently a security problem at night, whether you choose to ignore it or not. I would gladly pay for my "date" to get home safely.

During the day, you could walk faster than a taxi. But at night a taxi is a safer alternative, now that the subway is full of mentally ill drug addicts. I'm guessing most escort appointments are at night, so taking an Uber is reasonable.

Really ? I thought the cop was the hottest one. To each, his own.

I think people can be cruel when they end a relationship. Its difficult enough to see your time wasted when things don't work out. But a drop of kindness toward your ex doesn't take as much effort as it does to be mean toward them. That said...I would have loved some angry sex with that cop 🤪

Then here's an example of when "age shaving" could have been applied without anyone feeling cheated. The photos definitely demonstrate a provider with a great physique. But when I see 39 listed as the age and no face pix, I am immediately put off. Had he aligned his age with his LOOKS (let's say early thirties as opposed to 40) I would have followed up instead of passing him by. I've said it many times. A provider's age should match his looks. It doesn't necessarily need to match the calendar.

🤔 Obviously I don't WANT a happy ending if I don't find the guy to he attractive !

Travel to Thailand and get a training in Thai massage. Costs will be similar in total with lower cost of training+flight+ hotel but you get to travel and learn a superior form of therapeutic massage.

I would hope to leave VERY happy after a $300 massage.

The US is tip-crazy. Tipping is supposed to be a thank you for services above and beyond the.standard. Unfortunately like restaurants, masseurs in Spas are underpaid so your "tip" is much of their paycheck. A private masseur will charge far more and doesn't need to give a cut to anyone else. So for very standard service no tip is required. Anything above and beyond: the provider should be compensated with 20% to 25% depending on how far beyond the service went. Or round up to escort rates ($200 -$300) if sexual serviced were added to the session. If I get a great massage and an exciting happy ending from someone who I am attracted to, I will tip generously as a way of opening the conversation about the availability of additional escort services for the next meet.

Lots of top energy in the first few photos..lost my hard-on immediately when I saw this hunk-o-manhood in lace panties. Pity

I was never much of a bottom. But when I was younger I attracted a lot of older very masculine men who were tops...so I would be expected to bottom after a "date". The physical act is uninteresting to me but the mental/emotional aspects of a handsome, masculine male using me for his pleasure would overwhelm whatever physical discomforts I had. I also enjoyed several sex parties where I would lay in a sling and let everyone fuck me for hours. In that case the sheer sluttiness of the moment was the alure..(and of course getting fucked in a sling does make taking lots of dick easier.)

Yeah...but if your provider didn't have a room mate or live with mom and dad, you might be PAYING more. So be sure to thank her on the way out the door.

Dildos are more rigid than a real penis. Therefore it's always going to be a little more difficult to jam up the soft tissue of your asshole.

There are enough trans athletes that they should just make a new category for them. It's just ridiculous for women to compete against a former man when it comes to sports. Former women in men's sports work at a disadvantage and I might be less critical of the crossover .

No dildo feels like the real thing.

Maybe your "toy" is too big for a beginner

Are you trans ?

"Dildo" is a very general term for a lot of different size sex toys to shove up your ass. An actual dick will feel different as much as the whole encounter will be. But the first few minutes of getting anything inside your butt ranges from uncomfortable to painful. (Unless you're a huge bottom slut). It's a lot of mental/emotional stimuli that make it pleasurable. Doing it yourself is good practice but not a great representation of the actual act.

You don't.

I think it's closed-minded to assume everyone thinks like you Lots of men have zero interest in being a bottom no matter what the "possibility" of the circumstances.

Maybe they check the price of your hotel and figure you can afford more. Doesn't hurt to ask.

You assume that everyone is versatile. Labels matter when you're not.

Sexy guy, but his Twitter feed leads me to believe he's a bit of a drama queen.

There was a beautiful story in the news recently about an elderly couple in Holland who had both reached terminal conditions and chose to end their life together holding hands during the assisted suicide procedure. I found that to be a very humane and beautiful way to go. Since we're all gonna go sometime.