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Lots of guys who escort/massage do so as their main source of income. You don't need to convince anyone here of the responsibilities of "bringing home the bacon". We get it. But ..you need to realize that ALL people who run a small business do so by accepting ALL the risk that comes with that business model. There are people who fail because they keep doing the same thing over and over and don't spend time analyzing WHY they are failing and changing how they do business (We all know who I am talking about). I hope the advice given by the professionals is helpful and adaptable to your situation. As a client I also spend time vetting a potential hire by analyzing the tone of the communication and thinking carefully about the type of person I am going to be meeting. You need to weed out the weirdos and focus on the nice guys and try to establish a regular relationship so you're less exposed to flakes and fakes.

Thank you @mike carey I hear a voice of reason in this thread from some of the other providers. You need to learn to "read the room". Stop the freaks who are sexting with you by insisting a first timer pick up a phone and have a conversation. I am married with kids myself...so I completely understand discretion. But if a mature adult man hasnt figured out a way to work out his method of discretion around his relationship...then THAT alone is a red flag right there. @Vin Marco seems to have figured it out and limited his exposure. I suggest his advice be read more than once and some time spent applying it to your own business model. As Mike pointed out..I won't waste time repeating the obvious. Time to move on to LISTENING to the very good advice being given and using it.

I like that he added his high school yearbook photo. 🤣

All gay men are 8 inches or above. (According to every profile)

Was it ? I think everyone said the same thing. Don't lie to your friends. Hardly "mean girl" territory.

As always @nycman you're the voice of bareback denial. FACT: Syphilis can live in your body with no symptoms. After time it reaches a level where no known cure exists.

I dont think that's always true. Personally I like to hire people for an erotic session. I'm not really into full-on-sex with a complete stranger. I've had a lot of satisfying sessions over the years with erotic masseurs.

Ask the question = get an answer. You don't want to be judged, then you could consider keeping your private life private. Once you share your thoughts you will get opinions that you may not like. I don't judge people for how they run their sex life. But I do draw an ethical line at deliberately lying to people who you consider to be your friends.

I picked up some balloons for a birthday party last week. I noticed there was something "off". Their usual gigantic Balloon display was empty. You could still choose something from the racks and have it inflated. It felt almost like they were getting ready to wind down this service, although not close the entire store.

Definitely worth the trip to Nutley. (He advertises as nearby Montclair). I booked a 90 minute session of mixed therapeutic/sensual/ erotic for $300. I have to say that was probably the BEST mixed modality session I've had in many years. He's definitely a trained masseur with strong hands that dig in deep and he knows where to dig. As the session proceeds he mixes in sensual touch and some erotic teasing. The build up from teasing to overtly sexual was wonderfully intuitive. I was rock-hard and really turned on for quite some time before he finished me off. I was also pleased to receive a relaxing neck and head massage after my full-release. Something that really stands out when so many other providers just sort of abandon you and turn on the lights after you shoot your load. SensualMasseurNJ is a good looking guy, very fit with a thick muscular rugby-boy body and a great ass. Not a fashion model, but very boy-next-door sexy. On top of all this he's a kind and giving personality and very generous with his body. I cant say enough good about this guy. Says he travels too...but I prefer a massage on a table. I tipped generously as the session was above and beyond my expectations. So the total was expensive for a massage but fine with me for the very well composed erotic offerings in the mix.

He's not incorrect. American style pizza 🍕 is a popular global food phenomenon. So much so that even in Italy you will find American style pizza served in the major tourist areas. Over the last twenty years and 40 countries..I can't think of one destination where American style pizza wasnt an offering in the main tourist district.

Hopefully not. With 25% of the ENTIRETY of the wealth of the American middle class floating to the top 1% over the last four years....Corporate greed is a HUGE problem that could use a symbolic martyr to keep the public awareness alive.

For free ? Don't all the kids monetize their pretty bits now ?

I had one cousin who I used to hose but he was really, really pretty.

I think a commercial kitchen with lots of help to clean is more conducive to cooking Goose. My relatives had old farm style kitchens that weren't pretty but you could hose down after a big meal.

Maybe I will set up an Only Fans just for my ass. 🍑

This whole case is beginning to feel like a scene from the Hunger Games.

One anonymous (headless) photo? Hmmm

Sounds 😋 delicious. I am envious of that meal.

Exactly. Let's drop the Daniel Penny mentions. Completely different issue. (Although smoking hot guy after I saw that shirtless pic with those big juicy nips) 🤩

Why would anyone trained in Thai massage be using a Theragun ? I would never respond to a profile picturing one of those becasue I immediately assume this is a lazy or untrained person who doesnt know how to use his hands.

It's more theatre for public consumption. You can see how Corporatocracy has affected our culture and the media.

Truly good Thai masseurs come and go in NYC. Most of the guys I've met are here from Thailand on student visas. Since Covid I've barely seen any listing's for authentic Thai.

The torso pix appear to be from different people or different periods of time. The first photo is from a 40 year old man while the last is more like a 30 year old.