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Yeah...same for me...but since we weren't having sex that didnt really mean anything to me. It was more important to me that he couldn't get ME hard !! (In spite of his superior good looks).

Wow. 43 down to 31 ? THAT would explain a lot about the facial pixilation. (Much cheaper than plastic surgery) 😉

A valid point. However my impression is that in escort ads, "boyfriend experience" is a separate category from anal and oral because its about emotional connection, not penetrative sex.

The article clearly states he offered to pay an undercover officer for a blow job. So a client, NOT a provider. As far as gay or straight. If he were gay he'd be able to get a free blowjob every day of his life. Women are more complicated creatures and aren't so easy to get what you want / when you want as is the case on a gay hook up site, like Grindr.

Any good escort will work to make you feel that way. Unfortunately - REALITY CHECK - you are likely one of MANY clients who he makes feel "special". You're not. When you start having feelings for an escort it's best to move on. That always ends badly. Ive heard more than one sad, obsessed client here on C.o.M. who has bought into the magic, and felt betrayed when he got a peek behind the curtain.

Hes a great looking guy for sure. Body is totally on-point. Unfortunately, I would have to give the massage a B minus grade. Strong hands..yes...but was all over the map with his technique. Kept grazing his fingernails over my body which felt like 🕷 spiders...(and for someone who used to go camping when I was a kid..that sensation is opposite of relaxing.) Generous with showing off his cock and MT but tried to jerk me off while I was completely flacid. So limited ability to read-the-room. Very nice young man...but the whole experience was awkward. Wouldn't repeat for massage. Maybe as a bottom where I was in charge of the situation, it would have been more fun. But dont know if he's available for full escort service. Or how expensive.

I remember a televised tour of the apartment by Joan Rivers when she was still alive. In classic Joan humor, she quipped: "This is how Marie Antoinette would have lived....if she had the money."

I dont have any "shame". I am extremely sex-positive. But then I am neither "queer", nor was I raised Catholic. So please dont lump me in with your own issues. I happen to have a total fetish for cum play. So I'm rather the opposite on the "ick" factor. I love watching a bottom get loaded up from both ends at an orgy. I simply choose not to participate in unprotected ANALsex, because I choose to LIMIT my risk factor to catching an STI. I've just been lucky on the oral-sex having never caught anything, in spite of being frequently engaged in group sex and hundreds of sex partners. So basically lowering my risks...but not avoiding them altogether. Every person needs to navigate the risk factor to his own degree. In all my years of same-sex activity, Ive never allowed anyone to top me without a condom. Thats my most strict limit. I have occasionally topped others raw...but only with people I knew. RARELY ever with a stranger...and I remember always being a bit paranoid for a few days after, when I did fuck a hot random. I would always get tested within a couple days time. Thankfully I've never had a single STI with the exception that I test positive for Hepatitis B without ever having experienced any symptoms.

Massage, Modeling and Body Worship ...these types generally prefer to engage only in sex-adjacent services. Unlikely to offer anything "too gay"...but willing to let you "be gay" in front of them. (Finish yourself off while admiring my beauty). Sometimes that can be fun...but if they're ACTUALLY straight...then not really. If a guy doesn't even get hard..then its a total turn off. Need to at least be a bit of a closet case or bi to make it work. I dont mind servicing a "str8" guy. But I'm not PAYING someone for the pleasure of just LOOKING. 👀

Same. I would simply pass on anyone who refused condom use. I grew up during the AIDS epidemic so condoms were pretty de reguieur when I was in high school and college. Never had a performance problem over their use, since I never had sex without them. Ive had some unprotected sex with people who I knew ..but that is still today a rare occasion for me. I am completely uncomfortable sticking my dick in a guy's ass knowing that 100 different gay men recently dumped a load inside him.

Everyone's favorite toss-around term for things they don't agree with..."fascism". I wonder what broad stroke definition Sullivan was using in this article 🤔. There has always been a dynamic between powerful people and young attractive men and women who use their beauty to get ahead in the world. I've worked at Calvin Klein and witnessed this dance on daily basis. There was a lot of tail wagging and ass sniffing (so to speak) and I had the impression everyone knew the game. Even with myself..I was hired to a position I really had no business having at such a young age..but for the fact the head of the department's eyes popped out of his head when he first met me. Oggled me, fawned over me and made plenty of innuendo about "helping me get ahead". In the end I never did sleep with him, but I certainly understood that I might have to, in exchange for the opportunity. In my opinion, had I actually done so...I would NOT be of the opinion today that I had been so coerced into sex with this man that I would subsequently be seeking restitution for sexual misconduct. I would merely be chalking it up to one of many life's twists and turns that a young person must engage in his way up the ladder. I think most of these cases are nonsense and wholly opportunistic. Everyone knew that Bruce Weber used his fame to get laid, back in the day. I dont recall anyone at that time claiming he was "raping" his models. The industry was so sexually charged when I worked in and around the fashion world (90s) that everyone was fucking someone on a daily basis. It would be more shocking to discover that Bruce hadn't sampled the goods.

Agreed. Some very unfortunate choices.

The robocops will get you on the word "generous" on certain platforms.

Well...IF you're assuming everyone is hiring a TOP...then yes. For me: I couldn't possibly care less about the size of a man's penis. I am far more concerned about the plumpness of his posterior. 🍑

Who knew ? Well in NYC, EVERYONE knew. It would be shocking to find somebody in society and/or the arts who didnt know. Very disingenuous to claim "bisexuality" if that's what hes doing. Yes. Hes been married to Diane for decades but everyone knows that it was a marriage of convenience and friendship, not an intimate sexual attraction.

I travel through Newark all the time. I always take the NJ transit from Penn Station to the Air Train. Terminal A is only a pain in the ass because you need to board a bus after the Airtrain to complete the journey. You simply need to allow an extra 10 to 15 minutes to your alloted travel schedule. You can also walk there. It's about a 12 minute walk from the last functional Air Train Station to Terminal A. Both are minor inconveniences compared to getting stuck in vehicular traffic.

Ive also tried them both. To me..I would absolutely pick Sensual MasseurNJ over Caleb. SMNJ is highly skilled and provides a much better massage as well as a more intuitive erotic experience. Caleb is handsome for sure and a nice fellow, but he lacks both training and intuition in his massage work. Although he is very generous with his body, I found his attempts at eroticism to be awkward and lacking in reading my body language. SensualMasseurNJ was expert in all categories...and a nice looking, young man.

He's adorable. Very sweet kid. But sadly he is top only. So I passed on the opportunity to get him into bed. Hopefully he expands his repertoire some day because he has a tight round ass 🍑 that I'd love to make good work of. For all the bottom customers out there...he seems like he'd be good company.

From what I've read, he was Dealing with it by NOT dealing with it. The Church of Rome has already spent more than $5 Billion paying off families of the victims of child abuse by Priests who were simply moved from parish to parish when accused of sexual misconduct.

🤩🤩🤩 T.G.T.B.T. ??🤔

Most likely, your companion's actual daddy is fat. I get lots of kids with a daddy fetish chasing after me, and I am far from fat...so definitely not required. More than likely those who actually have overweight fathers, will imprint a beer belly as desirable quality in a candidate to try and get the love they dont recieve at home.

Humans are mammals. Mammals prefer young and healthy sexual companions. QUOTE: "In many species, younger individuals are considered more desirable for mating due to their perceived fertility and vitality." "While not always about mating, young individuals can be favored in social groups for their playfulness, energy, and potential for future contributions to the group." -Wikipedia A desire for an older mate is an aquired mental fetish. The craving for youth is a biological impulse.

Thanks for clarifying, Noah. Please post another photo or two and your profile may get more attention. Single photo profiles, don't do as well as those who share a little more of themselves. Good luck.

Always annoying when a provider can't be clear on his profile, about his looks. Im not hiring them for conversation ....😉