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https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/sensuous-vs-erotic-massage.159134/
 
Up your Odds of having the Erotic Massage move further toward BFE Escort service:
 
A: Be better-looking, hotter, younger, and more hung than the masseur.and show proof when booking.
 
B: Pick the right man at the perfect moment. Be lucky.
 
C: When contacting, booking, negotiating, confirming, preparing, and meeting don’t do ANYTHING that’s remotely dickish or stupid: follow directions in profile, be generous, warm, flexible, truthful, considerate, hygienic, a terrific Host or Considerate guest, and then be prepared to pay his Upgrade if the erotic massage he’s providing if is insufficiently erotic. (You might be surprised at how far his erotic massage actually goes beyond a
Rub’n’tug!) Now, if you don’t think Upgrade is the right move in the moment be honest, polite, expressively grateful (tipping) and remember this is your first encounter, kind of like a mutual audition, and if the erotic connection seems real, you can book his Escort session later. You will have gotten 1st time over and now you know his skill level, and he will have high regard for your behavior as an excellent client. Worst case is that you got a good-to-great massage and some nice access to his assets, and your climax was way above average.
 
D: See A

In the broadest of terms, the ‘sensual’ is with client undraped, consists of mostly body-work, on table or mat, with your release, and may or may not include nudity and/or mutual touching of the provider. ‘Erotic’ can be simply an enhanced version of their ‘Sensual’ with less body-work, but more contact with provider, who would more likely also be nude for all or part of service. Or it can include oral stimulation, reciprocal or not, full body contact, digital or penile penetration, or might even move to bed and basically be a full BFE. In short, the difference is whatever the provider says it is...
I sometimes really want the bodywork, and other times I want more full contact and access to the masseur’s body. I think it’s best to speak via phone, say “I’m looking for something like a legit spa massage but with release” or “I’d be interested in your most interactive service - can you tell me what might look like?” The nuance in his answers may be more telling if it’s not all via text. YMMV and as 45 often says, EMJOY!!!

In the broadest of terms, the ‘sensual’ is with client undraped, consists of mostly body-work, on table or mat, with your release, and may or may not include nudity and/or mutual touching of the provider. ‘Erotic’ can be simply an enhanced version of their ‘Sensual’ with less body-work, but more contact with provider, who would more likely also be nude for all or part of service. Or it can include oral stimulation, reciprocal or not, full body contact, digital or penile penetration, or might even move to bed and basically be a full BFE. In short, the difference is whatever the provider says it is...
I sometimes really want the bodywork, and other times I want more full contact and access to the masseur’s body. I think it’s best to speak via phone, say “I’m looking for something like a legit spa massage but with release” or “I’d be interested in your most interactive service - can you tell me what might look like?” The nuance in his answers may be more telling if it’s not all via text. YMMV and as 45 often says, EMJOY!!!

In the broadest of terms, the ‘sensual’ is with client undraped, consists of mostly body-work, on table or mat, with your release, and may or may not include nudity and/or mutual touching of the provider. ‘Erotic’ can be simply an enhanced version of their ‘Sensual’ with less body-work, but more contact with provider, who would more likely also be nude for all or part of service. Or it can include oral stimulation, reciprocal or not, full body contact, digital or penile penetration, or might even move to bed and basically be a full BFE. In short, the difference is whatever the provider says it is...
I sometimes really want the bodywork, and other times I want more full contact and access to the masseur’s body. I think it’s best to speak via phone, say “I’m looking for something like a legit spa massage but with release” or “I’d be interested in your most interactive service - can you tell me what might look like?” The nuance in his answers may be more telling if it’s not all via text. YMMV and as 45 often says, EMJOY!!!

Gee willakers, kids! My first exposure to gay porn was in a theatre in SFO in the late 70’s. The acting was non-existent, the lighting and photography (16mm) pretty poor, and the men were every kind- twink to jock to daddy. The action ranged from boring meh to crazy hot, and featured a lot of outdoor action shot on Fire Island. It was the sex education film I needed to come out. I converted a rented VHS copy of it years later into digital and still have it... Its real appeal is from the associated memory of the rush of it being my first time with all of it, and the cruisy setting of where I saw it. The stuff from that time and early 80’s was all grittier, and it became more scripted, staged and polished as videotape provided more detail, better color and lengthier format. The men became smoother, prettier, but often less engaged in the scene, with wider use of stunt dicks for closeups, as this was all pre- Viagra.
Gay-for-Pay is, I think, the worst thing about porn from the 90’s on. I still watch some old-school (70-80’s) scenes that make me explode like I was young again. That said, these days I love seeing 1080p capturing talent like Nate Grimes and Sherman Maus...

I guess for me it’s not a matter of saying “I don’t sleep with black guys” as much as it’s “I find a killer smile and defined cheekbones attractive.” Does that mean I wouldn’t sleep with someone with a baby face? No. I think I’m open to seeing each guy for what he is, whole package. I don’t make a conscious choice to only consider white guys, or Asians, or whatever. I allow my eyes to alight upon all things and enjoy what pleases them.

Better at binge watching... youtube, netflix, etc. We're a sedentary society and those aren't accomplishments...
 
Changing subject:
 
I'm retired and I'm doing fine, my income and expenses are the same. Unlike some who have allegedly found peace I just can't help wondering about all this uncertainty and how this is affecting those who lost their jobs. I knew a recession was coming next year or in 2022 but I never imagine a pandemic.
 
I'm helping several relatives who are unemployed and at the same time keeping distance from them. I look forward to forget 2020 and I hope we all we'll learn the lessons.

Right here.
 
Lifetime revenue by day of the week:
 
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Kevin Slater

Counting my blessings.

Finish that sentence for us.
For me it’s making a perfect hard-boiled egg, and cleaning the remote.

I used to bring my own bags, which is not permitted right now without having to step outside to bag your order. I don’t mind bagging - I always help with bagging (did help, anyway...) but the table for doing so outside the store is in full sun. I have been experiencing more pkg crushing, tearing and damaged produce and eggs since allowing store workers to do it all. Ah well. Grateful for ability to cook well, and for easy access to ingredients - right now too many in our world have neither.

It’s a question of trade-offs. I don’t hire on a regular basis. I allow myself the treat if I’ve been eating at home, avoiding online “boredom shopping”, etc. I have worked for non-profits my entire career. I’m better situated than coming generations who do the same work will be at my age. I was able to buy some rental prop in a good market, and income from that and the 401k is it.
And right now, I only wear my summer diamonds.
Some’re diamonds and some aren’t...

He offers massage, period, per those who’ve booked him and gotten a good massage.
He offers massage, period, per those who asked what session includes, and got a disappointing reply.
I’m guessing that he offers massage. Period.
 
He probably could work at a high-end spa, but would give up control of schedule and fee-setting.
Lots more providers out there, Jazboy

It’s a question of trade-offs. I don’t hire on a regular basis. I allow myself the treat if I’ve been eating at home, avoiding online “boredom shopping”, etc. I have worked for non-profits my entire career. I’m better situated than coming generations who do the same work will be at my age. I was able to buy some rental prop in a good market, and income from that and the 401k is it.
And right now, I only wear my summer diamonds.
Some’re diamonds and some aren’t...

He offers massage, period, per those who’ve booked him and gotten a good massage.
He offers massage, period, per those who asked what session includes, and got a disappointing reply.
I’m guessing that he offers massage. Period.
 
He probably could work at a high-end spa, but would give up control of schedule and fee-setting.
Lots more providers out there, Jazboy

What will you do in the future when you no longer waste time going to the store?

Perhaps his moniker might serve as a heads up

Perhaps his moniker might serve as a heads up

Happened upon a podcast clip of two African American guys talking sex and a caller asked about this - one of the hosts said that he was uncut, and used a cotton pad or two with hydrogen peroxide swabbed all over the head and foreskin if anything seemed funky. I tried it and there’s no stinging or anything, so after a good wash if there’s an aroma give that a go

Happened upon a podcast clip of two African American guys talking sex and a caller asked about this - one of the hosts said that he was uncut, and used a cotton pad or two with hydrogen peroxide swabbed all over the head and foreskin if anything seemed funky. I tried it and there’s no stinging or anything, so after a good wash if there’s an aroma give that a go

Happened upon a podcast clip of two African American guys talking sex and a caller asked about this - one of the hosts said that he was uncut, and used a cotton pad or two with hydrogen peroxide swabbed all over the head and foreskin if anything seemed funky. I tried it and there’s no stinging or anything, so after a good wash if there’s an aroma give that a go

Happened upon a podcast clip of two African American guys talking sex and a caller asked about this - one of the hosts said that he was uncut, and used a cotton pad or two with hydrogen peroxide swabbed all over the head and foreskin if anything seemed funky. I tried it and there’s no stinging or anything, so after a good wash if there’s an aroma give that a go

If only I hadn’t taken my crystal ball to the shop for a tuneup in January...
Without its consultation, I have had to rely on my gut. It said no in March, and will probably continue to say no through early fall at least.
Please stay safe, brothers

Chicago Symphony playing Mahler 2nd.

If only I hadn’t taken my crystal ball to the shop for a tuneup in January...
Without its consultation, I have had to rely on my gut. It said no in March, and will probably continue to say no through early fall at least.
Please stay safe, brothers