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How to tackle safety concerns for sensual/erotic massages
jeezifonly replied to dk582's topic in Questions About Hiring
You’re hiring a massage, right? You have the right to set boundaries. It doesn’t matter why. “Only manual contact, please - I know other clients may expect oral play, but I’m more comfortable with just hand to body contact.” If he apologizes tip him really well. -
Anyone try Paul in Glendale, CA (Los Angeles)
jeezifonly replied to NoahMathews89's topic in Spas & Masseurs
It’s common for bodyworkers to be working and gaining experience in spa or sports-therapy situations, where the reviews are left for the facility/operation, not the individual. I’m personally more troubled by how he thinks the location of Hartsook/Vineland is in Glendale. -
If Size Matters, What's Your Minimum For Masseur/Escort?
jeezifonly replied to Knightrider's topic in The Lounge
Shortest side, along top. Snug up to pubic bone measured to penis tip, while as erect as it gets - that’s the maximum insertable length at peak thrust. All the rest that traditionally gets “factored in” isn’t going inside, period, and is just window dressing. Don’t get me wrong, I love looking at a beautiful window wall, but don’t tell me the drapes hide a sliding glass door to a terrace with a view of the city when they’re just covering a porthole. 😱 -
If Size Matters, What's Your Minimum For Masseur/Escort?
jeezifonly replied to Knightrider's topic in The Lounge
A scientifically accurate 7 is quite marvelous. ( It’s usually advertised as a 9 ) -
As long as they stay away from the lip-plumpers, why not? 💋
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GAIETY THEATER - GONE 20 YEARS...... RIP
jeezifonly replied to + BOZO T CLOWN's topic in Male Strip Clubs
Occasional trips to NY in the late 80’s led to noticing the ad in The Village Voice. Finally went in 1990, always hit the Gaiety whenever possible until it closed - always fun, occasionally thrilling… a call-back to my secret cruisy skulking well before coming out. I feel bad for the younger generations that missed out entirely on such places, before every available dick in the city was on your phone. -
How to deal with physical discomfort after hookups
jeezifonly replied to ShortCutie7's topic in The Lounge
If that’s the case, some of your aches may be amplified by fever. Happy Z-Pack! 🥂 -
No Chat Option, No Contact Number. How to Contact??
jeezifonly replied to Jayse's topic in Questions About Hiring
What they may learn about the in-person part of their business: If clients want to not bother, you can’t stop them. -
Do you pay for poor performance?!?
jeezifonly replied to str8mixed's topic in Questions About Hiring
We should remember that the nature of the encounter/arrangement is human-to-human. It’s exactly why we pay. But, Humans aren’t machines with 100% task-performance ratings. Losses will be suffered occasionally. C’est la Guerre -
I recall when we cared more about the invisible Living than we do the famous Dead. We’ve been reconditioned. The former no longer drives “engagement” I guess. Marcel made a name for himself as a branded entertainer for a very specific audience, was very successful with it, and seemed well regarded (and loved) by those in his immediate circles. May they find peace for their loss. He left his public with evidence of the joy he had in life, that’s enough for me.
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Why does it have to be so complicated?
jeezifonly replied to + Pensant's topic in Questions About Hiring
You don’t say what area you’re in, but in LA, for example, everything is so far away when you don’t know the region (gotta know more than DTLA and WeHo) it’s got to be very intimidating for anyone here for the first time on a budget. The client always has the power to simplify. “ok, thx for getting back, I’m sorry we’re not a match. Travel safely” -
Very few people had heard of Mike White when Season 1 began. (I thought Chuck and Buck was wonderfully odd and touching) He surprised us continually through that first season, and again throughout Season 2. I’m just going to let him work his magic for the next few weeks. The show’s prevailing message throughout, for me, is “stay the fuck away from big resort chains, and stay home more”
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As a life-long “supervisor” in my work roles, I might be concerned about personal safety and well-being of workers on my team, off the clock, if they shared something specific about a personal matter or other job (gig) coming up, but never felt any action was mine to take. Same here - essentially a professional relationship, but with the nature of the interaction crossing into optional emotional attachment, which for some clients, inspires a need to protect the provider. Providers that appeal to me are never under 40 and my instinct to protect a fully-grown man is limited to family and close friends. Further personal investment works for some, it seems.
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Not all guys performing in gay porn provide compensated service off camera. He is a performer, and simply may not be interested any one of his fans beyond keeping them subscribed. If he’s a really big success on OF, then hour for hour, escorting is likely a losing financial endeavor. You searched his name here, I bet, and if nobody had something to say, it’s a reasonable guess he is not a provider.
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Giving in to a stereotype: Musicals, best parts?
jeezifonly replied to + Just Chuck's topic in Live Theater & Broadway
Hint: I imagine this thread belongs in a more specific Forum about Arts and Entertainment if you want more engagement. but… My relationship to musicals is as old as I am. Love the form as a rule. Big part of my 40yr work life. Fun fact: I worked with Broadway Role Originators of: Billy Bigelow (Carousel) Annie (Annie) Pippin (Pippin) Anthony Hope (Sweeney Todd) Bobby and Marta (Company) Count Carl-Magnus (A Little Night Music) As great as on-screen adaptations of musical theatre pieces are, seeing the literature performed live is second only to being allowed into the process of making it. -
Several guys do the multiple personality thing. It’s how they’re available right now in Dubai this afternoon, but available this evening in Maui. They use it partially as market testing, I think. There’s an Adam/Max in San Diego who’s been doing it for years.
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It’s the streaming that got small. Fame comes at a much quicker pace than the development of talent. I have a really hard time distinguishing between lithe younger women all wearing same long drapey hair with same dentistry and same lip fillers. I may have seen them, but most credits they have are genres that I don’t watch a lot. I can appreciate the work, if it’s good, in what I’m watching. But on a scale of 1-100, my level of performer fandom overall rests in the low single digits.
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I’m digging the new season. Tanya is present via two characters, who have now recognized one another. I think the girlfriend trio needed more bonding time ahead of filming - not buying the ‘known each other forever’ claim. Love seeing Carrie Coon blond and out of a corset, tho. Most everything til ep5 (of each season) has been exposition and tension exploration - slow by nature, and Mike White’s instincts for pacing work for me. Found the Valentin/Gaitok exchange interesting… Forget Schwarzenegger - I want to see Goggins and Isaacs hate-fuck. 😁
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How long is the perfect length of time?
jeezifonly replied to Andysquestions's topic in Questions About Hiring
I mostly hire massage. Rarely is 60m enough for a first time, in order for him to do his best version of mixing therapeutic and sensual, so 90m for me. -
Traveler “XxxYyyyy”
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News that will bring a tear to the eyes of CoM members
jeezifonly replied to samhexum's topic in The Lounge
I always thought that a chain called PECKERS would have been fun. Serverboyz wearing bike shorts, tight crops. (A woodpecker logo, obvs) Menu highlights would’ve included several items made from zucchini, sausages, cucumbers, and bananas, providing decor themes. -
Boomers created the Ultimate Path of Least Resistance No generation since needs to go back. Doing things the hard way builds character and behavioral skills, but ain’t nobody got time fro that
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