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If you find that a sneeze guard above the cruise ship buffet makes you feel safe, wear the shield.

Finish that sentence for us. For me it’s making a perfect hard-boiled egg, and cleaning the remote.

Gee willakers, kids! My first exposure to gay porn was in a theatre in SFO in the late 70’s. The acting was non-existent, the lighting and photography (16mm) pretty poor, and the men were every kind- twink to jock to daddy. The action ranged from boring meh to crazy hot, and featured a lot of outdoor action shot on Fire Island. It was the sex education film I needed to come out. I converted a rented VHS copy of it years later into digital and still have it... Its real appeal is from the associated memory of the rush of it being my first time with all of it, and the cruisy setting of where I saw it. The stuff from that time and early 80’s was all grittier, and it became more scripted, staged and polished as videotape provided more detail, better color and lengthier format. The men became smoother, prettier, but often less engaged in the scene, with wider use of stunt dicks for closeups, as this was all pre- Viagra. Gay-for-Pay is, I think, the worst thing about porn from the 90’s on. I still watch some old-school (70-80’s) scenes that make me explode like I was young again. That said, these days I love seeing 1080p capturing talent like Nate Grimes and Sherman Maus...

It’s a question of trade-offs. I don’t hire on a regular basis. I allow myself the treat if I’ve been eating at home, avoiding online “boredom shopping”, etc. I have worked for non-profits my entire career. I’m better situated than coming generations who do the same work will be at my age. I was able to buy some rental prop in a good market, and income from that and the 401k is it. And right now, I only wear my summer diamonds. Some’re diamonds and some aren’t...

Seems so. But like they say, ‘if you push long enough and hard enough on a door that says “pull” you’ll eventually get in...’ ?

He offers massage, period, per those who’ve booked him and gotten a good massage. He offers massage, period, per those who asked what session includes, and got a disappointing reply. I’m guessing that he offers massage. Period. He probably could work at a high-end spa, but would give up control of schedule and fee-setting. Lots more providers out there, Jazboy

I used to bring my own bags, which is not permitted right now without having to step outside to bag your order. I don’t mind bagging - I always help with bagging (did help, anyway...) but the table for doing so outside the store is in full sun. I have been experiencing more pkg crushing, tearing and damaged produce and eggs since allowing store workers to do it all. Ah well. Grateful for ability to cook well, and for easy access to ingredients - right now too many in our world have neither.

I wouldn’t be surprised if it’s a legit AMW (Actor, Model, Whatever...) career that he’s after...offering legit massage and taking off clothes on basic cable does not mean anything about his sexuality, nor damage his career... which is on hold like everything else right now. Gorgeous indeed.

MikeBiDude and RodHagen understand the OP. Everyone else seems to think the OP was in a quandary about how to raise the children that will result from a single encounter...

Please don’t let us bond over common hates and dislikes... not right now...?

Please don’t let us bond over common hates and dislikes... not right now...?

Happened upon a podcast clip of two African American guys talking sex and a caller asked about this - one of the hosts said that he was uncut, and used a cotton pad or two with hydrogen peroxide swabbed all over the head and foreskin if anything seemed funky. I tried it and there’s no stinging or anything, so after a good wash if there’s an aroma give that a go

Happened upon a podcast clip of two African American guys talking sex and a caller asked about this - one of the hosts said that he was uncut, and used a cotton pad or two with hydrogen peroxide swabbed all over the head and foreskin if anything seemed funky. I tried it and there’s no stinging or anything, so after a good wash if there’s an aroma give that a go

I speak only for myself, but I consider even lame compliments part of the transaction. If the attributes being fictionalized in the moment were all true, I wouldn’t be paying to get laid, now would I? ?

You’re correct about the marketing! But most medical interpretations around prolapse are the result of accidental trauma - the notion here, of gradual and deliberate measures taken toward the control of the prolapse, is not factored in. When internal forcesapply pressure (google weightlifter + prolapse) the rectum pushes suddenly through the anus a lot of damage is done. ( Hark! Listen to your body!)

Chicago Symphony playing Mahler 2nd.

It’s a niche thing. Even guys who are real experienced with bottoming still would have to put more time and effort into isolation and control of the muscles involved, along with sheer will in the moment. It’s not “caused” by anything, it’s the result of physical effort and fun play with a partner who like seeing it. Don’t forget - the factory setting of the aperture is ‘closed’. A perma-gape would require regular extreme dilation (say, daily routine of sitting on a big cone- shaped toy and letting your weight help you down slowly and holding that stretch for a while. Thrusting action not a real factor - but slow and girthy toy play will allow both sphincter groups to be relaxed enough. Then when you “bear down” with lower abs, usually right after withdrawal of toy or hand, a small portion of the rectum will be visible, getting larger and as it passes through the anus, and will retreat once you relax. If you are not already into extreme penetration as a top, it won’t appeal. I have gotten mine to just peak out for a moment, and I haven’t been with a top who is a good coach for it- but some guys who worship hole are way into it, and know how to use play to make it more likely. Aging universally reveals new limits to your body’s elasticity, so using Kegels can help retain the factory setting of closed...

Personally I do not look for a mirrored experience, time-warped or not. When I was first out, my doppelgänger worked in a retail store I shopped. I would also see him out dancing, and my clubbing friends thought we should go out- or hook up. We never did, and I don’t regret it. My taste for older, ethnic and hairy men was there at that age, tempered by the youthful freshly-out need to say yes to everything once - or twice. If he’s decent looking, uses his writing skill well in his profile, I’ll investigate further. If he can make me laugh, he can make me come.

If only I hadn’t taken my crystal ball to the shop for a tuneup in January... Without its consultation, I have had to rely on my gut. It said no in March, and will probably continue to say no through early fall at least. Please stay safe, brothers

It’s hard to find a really good masseur. Good tops less so - they’re operating on instinct rather than training. Cross-check Rmasseur with Rmen in your area and use that to find your perfect tabletop...

If you are interested in having bodywork done, you’re going to want a guy who has a table. Unless he has a bed with a face cradle. You indicate that you are looking mostly to get fucked. If that’s the case, either bed or table can work. If both of you together would add up to 500 lb, then bed. Ask the provider how he usually works. I have had a number of great massage-plus meetings that were table only, and the segues from work to play were very easy.

For many, this is a hobby, likely one of several for each of us has. There are hobbies that require money, and those that don’t, and being wealthy provides less hesitation in that consideration. Look thru any craft supplier in store or online and you’ll find a hundred hobbies that can demand lots of supplies and equipment (and lessons...) that can add up to a couple hundred dollars monthly. I used to spend lots lots on CD music (classical mostly- lots of multi-disc items) and now I can get most of my appetite sated using platforms I’m paying for already. I’m not a good traveler, I love to cook, I’m not a fashion fiend - so airlines, hotels, and restaurants and clothing retailers get less of my money than they do of other people’s. Since I don’t travel my provider is likely to spend money I pay him locally. “Money is like manure - not worth a thing unless it’s spread around, encouraging young things to grow” Now, I’m not personally into ‘young things’ but my hobby money always results in ‘growth’ ??

It seems the need for personal anonymity for both client and provider (not including the guy whose parents actually named him Hot9inRocket..) can naturally breed mistrust. Emergency issues come up, but blowing off either way is not right. For providers: what can a first time client say that makes you comfortable enough to put the appointment in the calendar on the phone (just like going to a new barber) and then arrange subsequent offers around your need to keep that appointment?

Wow if you can’t find one in NY then it may just be timing - record numbers of young people are leaving the Big Apple for health AND finical risks. I bet you’d do better with an individual search for each locale that’s on your travel list. It’s a popular type in every city I would think, but not at all mine, so I haven’t noticed a decline in the frat type ads in LA that isn’t proportional to an overall reduction in active providers right now.

I think Murphy’s approach to this is very much his usual - strong style, good dialogue, and some great work from significant (if miscast) actors as well as fresh...faces. But the overall arc of the story is what I lose track of. It seems as though the larger point of the story gets divided and tidied into the social victories he’s romanticising. I do always love how he always gets Jessica Lange to walk a tightrope over the River Schmacting and never fall in. I think that young Mr Platt has a certain appeal, but I will probably never buy him as a character who is NOT rich and precocious. (Titular casting in this one therefore perfect.)