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That's the problem with thinking with your small head and not your big head.  The explanation of, 'I was too horny and he was too gorgeous for me to leave' might explain not walking away.  But it doesn't explain staying, getting something out of the meeting for yourself, and then running off without any compensation for the provider's time.  

Early on, when things were obviously not going the way you had hoped, why not just call it a night before even engaging?  His behaviour sounds awful, but why go through with it without donating for his time?  It sounds like you took advantage of the situation of there being law enforcement in the building.  Would you have done the same thing if you hadn't seen the firemen and police?  

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Wait. You booked him. Met with him. He got off. And you stiffed him? Why would that be cool?

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5+? I've seen those pics when craigslist was still the place to go to! Lol. 

5+? I've seen those pics when craigslist was still the place to go to! Lol. 

Guys. These pics have been recirculated so many times for me to recall. Known scammer. 

I'm sure your mom didn't have a clue 🤔😆

He's been around on occasional weekends. Super hot. Is a model. Does a good massage and a nice guy. 

Definitely this! Don’t rush it. If I’m filming a movie and I’m bottoming then I douche with a shower attachment a few hours beforehand until the water runs clear. Then half hour before filming I use a bulb to make sure it’s all ok. Even then sometimes if we’re doing lots of positions and the top is hung then there might still be a bit of mess unfortunately. Nothing too bad but just enough to stop, clean up and carry on.
If I’m seeing a client and he’s said he might want to top then I’ll use a bulb douche half hour before the client visit. Mostly with massage clients the fuck is one position, doesn’t last long and they’re usually not as large as porn models. I really don’t like to be douching too regularly because it’s a pain in the arse, quite literally lol. Much simpler to just top! 

😂. Yes. Circumference. Lol. 5" diameter would be a traffic cone!

Now in Hell's Kitchen:  https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/43288/

Totally agree. 

I tip the same at Asian establishments as I would an African or European massage establishment in NYC.
Seriously though... Any message establishment where the men are employees, I give them a tip for a good massage, plus a generous amount more for sexual services because sex is not part of a massage.  For independent providers, they are their own boss and set their own rates, so I pay them what they asked for, and sometimes more if they go out of their way to accommodate some special request.
Again, massage is not sex.  If you want sex, pay an escort his advertised price.

If a massage place charges $ 65 and you get such a crappy massage that you feel you should only tip $ 30, then I am curious why you're going to a crappy place in the first place. Was any of that worth your $ 95  ???
Any decent massage is $ 120 to 150 these days.
So if the service was good, you give the place $ 65 for using their bed and the masseur $ 65 for doing the massage

Totally agree. 

Too bad he doesn’t do sensual any more. 

Over many years, I've developed a sensitivity to allowing mutual touch to be, well, mutual. In other words, I try not to get grabby right off the bat, and allow myself to relax and let the masseur do what it is he does well. If I've chosen someone who has a good reputation and I like the way he describes his massage and I like his reviews and any communication with him, I'm intrigued to experience what HE does. I always try to choose someone who can combine therapeutic techniques with sensual and erotic touch. I try not to choose someone who is therapeutic only--OR someone who has no therapeutic skills at all and is using the massage as a means of finding escort clients. No offense to escorts--some of my best friends are or have been escorts. But I'm looking for guys who have developed their individual ways of combining massage with sensuality and eroticism.
So here's what I do--and what I DON'T do: I generally try NOT to grab and pull or interfere with his rhythm and technique. As he massages my back, I let my arms hang down the sides of the table, but I hold off touching his leg until he's done serious back and shoulder work. I just breathe into his touch. That creates a physical connection between us that is entirely in his control. It establishes that I respect him as a practitioner. And he of course can begin to "read" my body without his touch being overtly sexually charged. Once that mutual trust and respect has been established and he can see that he's got me moaning and groaning a little bit, I let my hand touch his leg. I might give it a little squeeze, but I definitely do NOT grab it--I still want HIM to be in control of where on my body he's touching me and how the massage progresses from therapeutic to to sensual. Relinquishing that kind of control is part of why I'm there. I try not to break the spell he is casting over me. I also try not touch his dick until he moves it near my hand. But once he does, I touch it and maybe hold it--but again, it's touching WITHOUT grabbing or breaking the mood. At this point he's probably massaging the inside of my thigh, maybe between my cheeks, maybe sliding his hand beneath my hips, maybe touching my balls and cock. If at that point he presses his crotch near my head, I might break the spell a little, raise my head and suck him--but just for a bit, again being careful NOT to signal that you want the massage to be over and all you want to do is cum and leave. Remember--he's not a trick and he's not just an escort--he's an erotic masseur. He's also a human being with a lot of joys and sorrows. And he's had experiences you can't even imagine. It's like a dance--but you have to let him lead. He can probably teach you a helluva lot about connecting physically, sensually, and erotically with another man. Whether it progresses further is up to the two of you. As they like to say on this board, your mileage may vary.  But if you travel far...tip accordingly.
All that to say that my advice is: Don't try to control it. Choose well. And allow yourself to let it happen. 
 

Assets are actually too big. Looks like he had a BBL and looks lumpy

i assumed he was fake too, but he was responsive in the dm so i took a chance. as dutchal pointed out, he's romanian. he said he almost moved to L.A. for a boyfriend but it was too far away from his family. as noted, his heavily inked pix are the recent ones, and he now has a dermal piercing on his neck. i have a feeling he might come back to nyc.  

i saw him yesterday. unless he's had a change in plans, i believe he's on his way to miami today. he's sexy, handsome, and his "likes" seem 100% accurate. he was chatty, cool, forthcoming, personable, and he has a major dick, but he's really specific about how he uses it. he's obv extremely seasoned, has boundaries (he kisses, but no tongue, knows exactly what kind of bj gets him hard.) he said he was here as a tourist, and everyone tells him he should come for a few weeks to work, he doesn't seem to have plans to. i don't bottom, but if you like to get worked over by a bossy top, he might be the dude for you.

I'm sure your mom didn't have a clue 🤔😆

Looks like his pics. Very cut. Friendly. 

I’ve recently tried both of these masseurs (separately). Both very friendly and both look even better than their pictures. CalebBlanco uses lotion and doesn’t travel with a table (which I don’t really love) but works very hard and can get pretty sweaty (which I do really love). SensualMasseurNJ travels with a table and uses oil though so he slightly wins out in that regard. I plan to keep them both in rotation
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