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Correct. Having wrestled in school, it’s the exception to see that on the mat; off the mat, yeah it happens. The intensity of the sport really does take over your focus. Adrenaline is pumping, and your mind is solely on the match and executing your technique. Sure, there are moments of physical contact, but the training ingrains discipline to control your body’s responses. Singlets don’t provide much coverage, as they are designed to be form-fitting and functional rather than modest. But the emphasis is on the match, not any potential distractions. If ever there was a stray thought, it was quickly overridden by the rush of adrenaline and the determination to win. Wrestling is all about mental toughness and staying locked in, regardless of any external factors.

Worth repeating:  not a hookup place. 
Wi Spa is not a sex club, it's a community center. I take my own family there.
People take their children to Wi Spa. DO NOT CRUISE THERE!
Please, please don't cruise there. 

But he is quite good looking, and good company.  I did not get a narcissistic vibe from him at all. 

I see what I'm interested in and my good sense (and closer reading) goes right out the window . . . 

I see what I'm interested in and my good sense (and closer reading) goes right out the window . . . 

But he is quite good looking, and good company.  I did not get a narcissistic vibe from him at all. 

I did meet with him in his former iteration.  I liked him, although he's declined to meet with me again for the activity we engaged in.  We had tentative plans to connect over other, less overt activities, but haven't done so yet.  
My guess is, he's hesitant/unsure about how much of this (all 'this') he really wants to participate in.  Got the impression money was not a big motivator for him.

So I've been really wanting to pull the trigger on him. He was friendly-enough in communicating, it's a nice torso and assets (when he shared his photo), that said, the lack of a phone#, his age (which can be a plus but in this case can also be a 🚩) and lack of reviews is a little disconcerting–even though apparently he did have at least 1 review under his former name.
I'm so torn. 🤷🏻‍♂️ Someone decide for me! 😉

Gents, 
Difficult to believe he's been around since 2019 and none of you big muscle interest guys have seen him or commented, so I'm believing there's been a name change.  At any rate, he's going to be in LA in May and (curiously) has '#bondage' in his profile . . . 
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Long ago he advertised as DesertCowboy and advertised as GoodCompanyAZ from 2021 to at least June 2023. I hired him several years ago and wouldn't repeat. 

I usually do, with whatever larger bill I have left over from paying them.  

looks hot but the nail painting and feminine clothes turn me off.

I am so pleased with him that I wrote another very positive review on his rentmasseur page yesterday:
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Oh, and YES he is awesome at the mix up of Tough to Tender, Rough to Romantic.   If you need him to tilt in a direction he'll go there.  But do consider letting him try to expand your limits even if just a little.  You will NOT forget the thrill... 
 
oh!  and here's the pic!  it worked!

I’ll do what I can to fill this information void; I’ve spent A LOT of time with Travis over the years. Hands down one of the most interesting and genuine guys you’ll ever meet. Indeed, it’s a known fact that MGM Studios once joined with HRC to forbid Travis from calling himself a “friend of Dorothy” because he has such an abundance of heart, brains, and courage that the euphemism simply didn’t fit. (Also they couldn’t picture Dorothy befriending a hooker in the woods singing “If I only had more money.”) In case you haven’t noticed my user name I’ll admit that I’m exquisitely biased; however, I’m very self aware and honest, so feel free to ask me anything. Alternatively, I can double the time for the first two gentleman who mention this forum when they book time with me and agree to post an honest review here, whether positive or negative, to help advise others. (My only stipulation is you have to have been a somewhat active member of the forum since before this topic was started, so everyone knows it’s a reliable review.) Cheers!

Don't beat yourself up.  His addition of "R" to his name makes it difficult, if not impossible, to find earlier posts.

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So strange - you were absolutely right, and they were NOT coming up when I looked at his profile right before I posted . . . 

I was actually going to suggest Simon.  Although I've not (yet) met him, his interactions both here and in messaging to try to connect have been professional and excellent, and his reputation is sterling.

Bump.  Very interested, same question as TJ.

Book Meatball Mike - he's the hot one!

Maybe coloured fingernails will grow on some of us.
My sense is that an earring was at first incongruous with stereotypical masculinity and the rogue pirate analogy was invoked to neutralize any tone of femininity. Then which side ear to further stratify identification, that then seemingly neutralized. Yet earrings on a boardroom suit might not fly, or work well in certain job interviews. Values shaping place and time inevitably come into play.
Tattoos on females may be considered less highly stylized and less overly faddish a look compared to when the trend began. 
Nose rings evoke bovine imagery for me. He’d have to be face down, however hot, for me to not feel going down the bestiality hole. Automatic pass on such an ad. Admittedly, rigid terms of personal taste.
Rolling with tattoos in intimacy, not much choice. Eventually arousal paired with ink seems to neutralize misgivings. However, less is more and I don’t get the addition to infinity trend. It seems a desperate bid to stand apart but then ubiquitous enough to necessitate an additional level of distinction to a ridiculous level. 
And those stretched lobes? I mean where do you want me to insert it?🤢
As for painted shiny fingertips, when I said I like a polished look …

Native Chicagoan here (grew up in the city when the street signs were black on yellow).
The Chicago metropolitan and combined statistical areas comprise nine Illinois counties (Cook, DuPage, Lake, McHenry, Kane, Will, and parts of DeKalb, LaSalle, and Boone counties.), part of one Wisconsin county (Kenosha), and four Indiana counties (Lake, Porter, Jasper, and Newton).  The City of Chicago and its inner suburbs are in Cook County, while the remaining counties and the suburbs within them make up the "collar counties." Therefore, the suburbs in Indiana could be classified as the "east suburbs," but they are usually referred to as part of the south suburbs or as the "Indiana suburbs." They are also known as "the places you can get cheap cigarettes."  
So...not exactly right to call them "East suburbs," but not exactly wrong, either.
@BenjaminNicholas, you know better! Those are Chicago neighborhoods. 
Regarding Naperville: While it is true that it is an upper middle-class suburb that's pretty much like every other upper middle-class suburb, Naperville thinks of itself as being A Very Special, Unique, and Important Place that is as significant to the region as is Chicago. Don't get me wrong, Old Naperville is charming, but Naperville it is a bedroom community and has been for more than a century. That's why Naperville gets made fun of. In days of yore (like the 1970's and 1980's) Schaumburg was the butt of jokes because it was a rapidly-developing suburb that was pretty much devoid of culture beyond the yogurt aisle at Jewel. The difference is Schaumburg was well aware that it was a suburb of Chicago and did not have the delusions of grandeur that Naperville has.
 

I’ve seen him twice. He can’t host so I reserved hotel the first time. But 2nd time he invited me to his place, stated he enjoyed our first meeting. We even hit the shower after lol. 
Gorgeous young guy. You can ask for his face pic. Be patient as he is slow to respond on text. 
PM me for more questions 👍