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Ah, great, thanks guys for all the suggestions!

Ah, this is great! Thanks so much, I think I'm gonna use this phrase.

That's what I did initially, but I wanted to double check with actual speakers of the language, because Google Translate isn't always the most accurate. Google translates that as hugging instead of cuddling. Nice, I'll be sure to use this one.

How would I say this in Spanish: "Can we cuddle after sex?" I'm planning on setting up a date with a lovely fellow (whom I saw a while back) but his English is somewhat limited. And my Spanish is non-existent. (It's on my bucket list to learn it) Thanks!!

I prefer coconut oil although it can't be used with a condom. An ex-boyfriend taught me how to make my own condom-safe lube from golden flaxseed. It's amazing, it hydrates the mucous membranes and calms down the skin tissue. Sesame seed oil (non-roasted) is also incredibly good for your skin and body but it does smell like you're cooking when you use it. And also not condom-safe.

Yeah, that's the first profile of him that I found. But it seems to be no longer active. When there's no date or time next to the user name, it means they haven't logged in for over a month. So I'm guessing he's only using his new profile. Don't know why he didn't delete the old one (or just appended it).

Ah, okay, yeah. But 7" is still big! I feel like porn and our obsession with big dicks (in general) has really skewed with our perceptions. Both my hands on top of one another measure 7.5", so that's how I do my checking when I'm with a guy. I wrap my two hands around it and then see if it sticks out or not. Oh, yeah, they're fake. Saw that on the first look. He doesn't kiss, he told me through text. He also lists Greek, doesn't he? He lives in Amsterdam so it'd be possible he speaks Dutch. Dutch is my first language but I communicated in English with him.

That's all?? That's like a full two-hander and then some! 8" is 8", no matter how tall a guy is... Take a tape measurer and let it hang 8" between your legs. That ain't small, no matter the size of the guy it's attached to.

Okay, so an update. We texted back and forth a little (he's very sparse in his replies): he does bottom, gives oral but only with a condom and doesn't kiss. No kissing is a dealbreaker so I declined to book but I thanked him for getting back to me and communicating openly.

https://www.planetromeo.com/#/hunq/DIMITRI-FIT

Awesome, thanks for the advice. Sending him a reply now.

OMG I got a response from Dimitri!!!! AND I DON'T KNOW WHAT IT MEANS!! So! Sunday evening I sent him a text asking if he bottoms, French kisses and does mutual oral. Then I said if the answer to all these is yes, I'd be interested in a date. Then nothing happened (as detailed in the posts above). But today, as a response, he sent me a picture. Just ONE picture with no text... And the picture is one of him posing with his ass out and bedroom eyes that just scream "come hither" (it's a new picture even, not one that's on his ads). Soooo... What does it all mean? Why's he showing off his ass to me? I'm so turned on and confused now!!! Hahaha. How should I respond? Please, help me.

I used to call my husband "little whorefucker" endearingly. But he didn't like it. We're divorced now. Joking aside (although I did call my ex-husband that on occasion as a joke), I really don't like nicknames for my partners and don't like it when they have one for me. I always call them by their name. I acknowledge this is somewhat different than the norm. Except "babe", I like that one, IF used sparingly.

Yeah, that's been my experience too. I feel like it's become really common. Well, common knowledge at least. Don't know about the actual usage. Although when I was at a gay party when I was younger there were some friends passing around a popper in the middle of the dance floor.

I know, right?? I had been eyeing his Rentmen ad for a while, but Amsterdam is quite far for me to travel. Also, I hadn't found his PlanetRomeo ad yet so all I knew was that he was Vers/top. And then yesterday evening I saw him pop up on the Antwerp Rentmen grid I got all giddy with excitement. Until I found his Planetromeo ad. I've seen a number of guys clarify it somewhat in their ads here. They say that they're versatile but just more of a top. That's interesting, I've never heard that there are many interpretations. I've only ever seen it being interpreted as a vers guy that gravitates towards topping. Affection and oral I've always seen seperately defined (in escorts ads). That escort from the '90s makes me think about people that don't eat meat but still chicken and fish and still call themselves vegetarian. It's like: you're not a vegetarian if you're still eating fish or chicken! That just adds to the confusion! It's thanks to people like them I get offered fish or chicken at gatherings when I let people know I'm a vegetarian. (Well, I've since gone vegan so people just back away in fear now.) If you're a vers top you should take it up the butt! Up the butt! Up. The. Butt. (Disclaimer: everyone has the right to define their own sexual preferences and the way they communicate these. I'm just lightly joking here.) Sorry, I'm still in mourning that I didn't get to rail Dimitri. :D I saw that Kurtis Wolfe changed his ad from top only to Vers/top, maybe I should ask him? And then Rafael Lords (this made me sad) has switched to TOP ONLY in his ad. :(:( Although in his ad text he says to go ahead and ask about what you like to do because he "is very versatile". I'm CONFUSED. I just want to put things (i.e. my dick) up a hot guy's butt. (Oh and this last paragraph is just me being silly. Although I was confused by Rafael Lord's ad.)

https://rentmen.eu/DimitriFitXL He fucks like a king! I love the brazen boldness of it. For some reason it's endearing to me. On his PlanetRomeo profile he has this: "ORDER ME NOW THE BEST SEX EVER IN YOUR LIFE STOP LOOKING FOR OTHER ESCORTS CALL ME" I just love that it's all in caps. He was in Antwerp last night and he lists on his Rentmen that he's "Vers/top" so I texted him, asking him if he would bottom, but I never got a response. Then today I see that on his Planetromeo that he lists himself as "Top only". So I guess that's why he didn't get back to me about me asking if he'd bottom. A bit odd though that he advertises his bubble butt in his profile when he doesn't bottom. (Like in he says he has the best bubble butt in the world). But I see a lot of inconsistensies like that in ads, to be honest. Like listing as a top but then saying in the ad text that they're very versatile...

That's awesome that you schedule a phone call. I've never dared to ask for fear of coming across as a time waster. There's been more and more escort profiles where I live that in very clear terms say to not waste their time (like endless chats) or they will just block you or stop responding. I was recently talking to an escort about this and he confirmed that a LOT of his chats go nowhere and some people just seem to keep on asking questions without actually wanting to hire. So that sorta makes me wanna be as sparse in my communication as possible but then that may lead to me not communicating enough perhaps about what I expect. I'm still figuring out how much to communicate and in what way.

I absolutely love kissing a man with a beard. I love the scruff of the hairs against my lips and I also just enjoy rubbing my cheek (my face cheek ) against a guy's scruff. But I've not met a lot of guys who are up for that last one.

In a recent interview I read with him he said he worked as a stripper and didn't really enjoy it. Because he said that he was expected to go to the private room with clients and do things that (in his words) "bordered on prostitution". That's why he switched to Go-Go dancing as it wasn't expected of him to do that there.

I hope never! I've ALWAYS been a sucker for the five o'clock shadow and I applaud the trend that facial hair has become mainstream instead of being associated with looking unkempt. I've always had this preference, loooooooong before this whole beard trend became a thing. Although I prefer (longish) scruff instead of full-on beards.

Wow, that's great advice, thanks so much! What would count as red flags for you?

Hey, I was wondering, apart from asking for recommendations and reviews on here, how you guys do your due diligence when considering hiring someone. I ask because where I hire (Belgium) almost all are travelling escorts and the roster is constantly moving and changing. Which is nice, but also makes it (near) impossible to find recommendations or reviews, apart from the ones that may be posted on the escort's ad itself.

I remember him being on my bucket list in 2015 and was recently actually thinking about him.

Did you ever get a response from him? I'm interested in him as well.

Some of them make me think of the puppets in the old Thunderbirds series. I also think they require a lot of care, upkeep a'd maintenance because of the material the "skin" is made of.