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I've read that you meet at your locker afterwards.

EXACTLY! It was quite late in life that I learned of this English expression and it always puzzled me. Because every time I came home from banging a hot guy I'd actually be all puffed up, glowing and happy! Nothing shameful about having sex.

Awesome! I recently had a great first contact with a guy too who was mid-twenties. I don't really think age factors in to it all THAT much, at the end of the day. I think there are as many flaky, time wasting clients as there are flaky, time-wasting escorts. We just have to find the right matches.

No one taught me that (I'm uncut), I just go for the head because I've found that's more pleasurable than the foreskin. Also, some uncut guys I've been with, their foreskin would retract to reveal the head on its own when they got hard. I personally keep my skin covering my head when flaccid. But when I get hard, it retracts back on its own. I can't cover the head when I'm hard with my foreskin (well, I can pull it up, but it goes back down). I've only ever been with one cut guy up until now and I loved it! Uncut's the most prevalent over here in Europe.

https://jawjateck.tumblr.com/post/175446003367/goinggoing Especially these things I can relate to: "Hobby communications seem to mimic the app hook-up world now. Incoherent phrases have replaced sentences; “into” is often asked after I have already described my scene." "self-obsessions, lack of manners, basic thoughtfulness and respect for the client are waning. Entitlement rocks now!" I've not had direct bad experiences although the last guy I was with, at the strike of the hour he was on his phone, completely ignoring me and LITERALLY pushed me out the door. I know I'm leaving when the time is up, but it just seemed a tad inconsiderate. I have had several conversations where a guy seemingly wasn't even reading my responses or questions but just pushing for a date. I've seen more and more profiles that say "NOT long chat". And I've talked to escorts about this and they say that a LOT of people that send messages are time wasters (i.e. not looking to set up an actual meeting). But to me that's a bit of a catch 22, because there are SO many variations on sexual tastes and many guys don't describe it in detail what theirs are in their profile or have conflicting information (e.g. listing themselves as vers, but in their ad text saying TOP ONLY). So it's important to know if you're a good match but for that you need to have at least SOME interaction. But my experience is that a lot of guys just want you to make an appointment without asking questions sometimes. How are your experiences with younger providers (younger than 30)? Do you feel their communication is more like on Grindr and the like now?

Perhaps "East-European" would be more accurate?

Aaah, hustler bars. I don't know if we have those in Belgium. Then again, I didn't know Brussels has one of the most well reputed sauna's in Europe until a few months ago. (It's Sauna Macho) Yeah, I'm heading to Barcelona next weekend and have read about the Romanian escorts. Part of me wants to go to Thermas, just to have the experience, but then you read those stories.

I've always gone to their place because I can't host when I'm at home (and also don't live in an easily accessible area with public transport). When I'm travelling I often rent a room in a shared home to keep costs down so I can't host either. Although lately I've been looking at getting my own hotelroom when travelling. There's some good deals to be found.

Wow, I hadn't heard that. Maybe it's because Belgium has a strong and active immigration department and social care but a lot of Romanians here get jobs at building construction companies (don't know the proper English word, ah, contractor, I think). Most of these companies' personell now consists for a large part out of Polish men. In general they are experienced as hard working men that don't complain. The last contractor I worked with was a Belgium native and he went and learnt Polish because it gave him more opportunities to hire these Polish guys for his contractor jobs. Obviously there are always people that fall through the cracks, but walking around in Brussels I see a lot less homeless people out on the streets than in London and Berlin. I was recently talking to a board member of one of the social care institutions and apparently people even get houses or apartments here virtually rent-free if they are unable to get a job (because of language barriers). But they only get these benefits if they agree to take Dutch language classes and actively apply for jobs with the help of the social worker assigned to their case. Are those Romanians generally gay themselves that are found in gay places and do that? Or is there another reason they target gay establishments?

Thanks, I'm gonna take the entire course. Hahaha.

Thanks for the advice! I had already started the treatment before I read it, though. So I'll finish it now.

So uhm... Do I not take it, then? She did explain to me that because it was Friday evening it wasn't possible to get a stool sample tested. I would've had to bring it in on Monday and since I'd already been in pain since last Monday, and based on the symptoms she decided it was most probably a bacterial infection. I've noticed a big discrepancy between what is told to the patients here in Belgium by campaigns to raise awareness (things like antibiotics shouldn't be used unless absolutely necessary) and how doctors prescribe them here (quite quickly I would say: last time I had a bit of a sore throat and she preventatively prescribed antibiotics. The throat cleared up on its own. I didn't take them.)

It was bright red but barely visible.

Yikes! So I've just come back from the doctor. The only thing that gave her pause was the blood. The rest of my symptoms were okayish (mainly because I wasn't nauseous or vomiting I think). She prescribed an antibiotic.

Well, there seems to be a bit of blood in my stool (if I'm seeing it correctly, not entirely sure). I'm seeing my doctor later today. I don't have a fever as far as I know. I'm not even nauseous, just tired with really bad cramps. I've been fasting since yesterday which has kept the actual diarrhea to a minimum but the cramps are quite bad. Luckily it was a slooow day at work. Just now buying some yoghurt But darn it, I'm going to Paris this weekend (leaving tomorrow morning) so I hope I'll feel better.

Thanks for posting this. It does give you pause. I wonder if the rise in the spread of other STI's could have anything to do with the use PreP and the subsequent disuse of condoms. I know that not everyone who's on PreP stops using condoms. But there are also guys who do stop using them. The rise of using PreP and the rising of other STI's normally also somewhat halted by condoms makes me wonder.

Alright, going to see my doctor tonight. If I fast I'm alright but the minute food gets in my system my gut goes haywire (I fasted yesterday). Interested what she'll say though. GP's here in Belgium rarely do any actual testing, they just listen to your symptoms, prescribe medicine. If that doesn't work they try a different medicine. If that still doesn't work they'll MAYBE do a test. Which I've always found to be weird. Fully vaccinated! Even got my HPV shots.

Thanks for the tips! It was my first time ever and I'm still debating whether I enjoyed it or not. I know that I don't enjoy getting rimmed myself AT ALL. It's actually really a turn-off for me. It could very well just be coincidence. It's not the first time I've had diarrhoea for a week or so out of the blue. (Even when I was not having any sex at all) My stomach seems to be made from steel, but with my gut I have to be a little more mindful of what I eat. I've not been to the doctor yet, as they only look at it more closely if it lasts for more than a week. I did go buy some medicine at the drug store. I rimmed him last Wednesday and the diarrhoea only started Monday-Tuesday, so to me it doesn't seem related?

Well damn, I rimmed a guy last week for the first time ever in my life and I've had diarrhoea for the past four days now. UUUUUUUUUUGH Well, I work in watersupplies and our lab people say that our bodies can handle these kind of bacteria pretty well. We just have diarrhoea while our body adjusts and makes antibodies. After that we're good to go again. But I don't know about the one mentioned in the article specifically but they say it lasts for about a week No more rimming for me.

There was a quiz! And I passed! And OMG... There were about three cute guys in my class but the rest of the building was absolutely PACKED with eye candy hahaha. I kept going "Oooh, hey" every time a gorgeous guy walked past. It was in the harbour so there were a lot of harbour guys taking courses. Most of them with strong, lean physiques. Hahaha, that is ACTUALLY a brand used at the company I work for! Everytime I see "TROJAN" printed on the machinery I have an internal giggle.

My most preferred method is Whatsapp as you can have your texts be as long as you like (like an email) and can receive media (pictures, video) all in the same app. Also, Whatsapp has no costs when texting to a foreign number. I see more and more escort profiles saying to text or Whatsapp them rather than email. That they'll be quicker to reach that way. The other day I saw a profile stating to only CALL or email, aboslutely NO texts! I found that a bit odd.

You guys, this is coming to you live. I'm doing a required all day training for work. It's about safety in industrial working envorinments so there's some guys here who do mostly manual labour and they're big, strong, sexy and a little intimidating. And right across from me is a cute cub who I'd love to share a cuddle with. Oh deeeaaar, am I objectifying these guys? Hahaha

Oooh, I'll be in Barcelona next week. But I booked an AirBnB so can't host... (It's a room in an apartment where the owner lives too). Next time I'm booking a hotel. Thanks for the tips!

On the old site escorts could just delete any guestbook entries. When the Hunqz site was launched, at first that functionality was gone. They couldn't delete entries themselves. But I wanted to know if this was still the case, since the system has been updated several times since then. So turns out escorts can't delete reviews on their profile BUT they can hide them from other users. Which, in effect, is exactly the same as deleting it. Well, that just made all the entries completely useless. Because any bad experience will just be removed by the escort. Of course, if there's a steady stream of positive reviews then that's a good thing. But I've now become wary of a profile that does have good reviews, but not a lot of them and most of them with months between them.

From what I've seen in articles, STI's are on the rise in Europe as well. Did you know that the French actually didn't have an official word for "French kissing" until about 2015?? That year the word "galocher" was added to the French dictionary, which is a slang word for kissing with tongue. (A galoche seems to also be a type of boot. No idea how that became the colloquial term for French kissing ). Me, I absolutely live to galocher! About the bareback miscommunication: I was able to clear it up with the guy by writing this marvelously and obiously non-native speaker phrase: "Je fais le baiser toujours avec un préservatif." Which literally means: "I always do the fucking with a condom."