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I don't know, I never saved his profile and the exchange was over text. He advertized in Europe, though.

So I thought I'd give an update. Over the past few months we occasionally exchanged texts but no meeting materialized. Then this morning he texted me, asking if we could meet. Since I've been really stressed and could use a massage I thought why not. I ask him if he's available tonight. He says he's not, he's meeting a friend but he can reschedule. I reply that's not necessary and we can meet another time but he keeps... Being enthusiastic? So I let him reschedule his friend and we schedule a meet later that night. (I was halfway between feeling flattered and wondering if he needed money, hahaha) So anyway, session is really short, about 30 minutes. He goes straight to fucking me, no massage at all. (his sessions are normally 70 minute massages for the rate I pay). So when we're cuddling I ask if he could still give me a back and neck massage to which he says "if we still have time" (we absolutely still had half an hour left) and at that moment I was over it, hahaha. He did give me a massage but then put on his clothes and made it VERY clear I was expected to leave. The whole thing took way less than the 70 minutes his rate normally gets someone. I'm over this guy, hahaha. This is the second time he's shorted a session. I was willing to accept a shorter session because previously he did give a massage and the sex was good. But today it just felt like he was horny and I was just there for him to get off and give him money. He lost this customer for sure, hahaha. Having said all that I am happy I went because my body is more relaxed and I've topped up on feel-good hormones. But honey, treat me like a fleshlight and an ATM and I am out, hahaha.

I've had this happen. An escort quoted me his price and then told me that I also had the option of sending him photos of myself to see if he would give me a discount based on how attractive he thought I was. I declined to respond.

A real 7" is hung for me. And I mean a real, measured 7" because I've noticed that many guys are horrible at estimating another guy's size and what they think is 8" (and hung) is actually a real 7" (whereas guys who are below 7" will claim they are 7" which is why I think where this '7" is just above average' comes from) My last boyfriend had a huge dick, heavy and thick in my hands. I couldn't believe my eyes when I measured it and saw it was 7". I'd guessed at least 8 or even 8.5

Yeah this one baffles me to and it surprises me there are quite a number of escorts who will, under no circumstance, send nudes. And yet they have plenty of reviews. I don't get it.

Hahaha no, not really. He was literally on his phone texting other clients while I was fucking him.

I have... Guess it's time to reveal who my other post was about: In any case, he looks even hotter in person, kisses heavenly and is basically up for anything. My dick wanted to do a repeat session a year later when he visited Brussels again even after all that transpired. But I resisted the urge.

Amazing job! I don't seem to be getting notifications of threads I'm following (I've checked, threads I'm following have new posts but I don't get a notification)

For instance, like have the provider act as a pizza/package delivery, plumber... And then let it escalate into sexy times? I've had this fantasy for the longest time (hooking up with a service guy) but the reality of it is basically non-existent. I've wondered about bringing it up with an escort but many seem to only be down for actual sex stuff (or there's a language barrier).

For me it's simply because when the escort hosts it's always the cheaper option. If I book a hotel room I'm literally doubling the cost, with the price for the hotel and the upcharge for an outcall (all escorts where I live offer lower prices for incalls). There's no real "cheap" hotel options where I hire. Booking a hotel room is often the same price as 1 hour incall. Also I don't really like the idea of an unknown escort (or hookups in general) to know my home address. Do you offer a lower rate for outcalls? This would be one way to attract more clients who are able to host.

Oh my... Is he interactive at all? I'd love to have the full experience with a guy who has that physique. (so not just worship)

Thanks. Does anyone else have experience with this Matt at Utopia? I'd trust this a bit more if it wasn't from a brand new account...

As someone who is uncut I have to chime in to say DO NOT EVER USE SOAP ON YOUR DICK. The soap will dry out the skin (mucus?) of your dick and may even cause inflammation when used frequently. Also your dick has a different PH than the rest of your body. Regular soap is adjusted to the PH of your regular skin. Regular soap will mess up the PH on your dick, actually messing up the natural anti-bacterial protection it has. Sadly there are no specific washing emulsions for dicks but since they are quite similar to vaginas in respect to PH and such it is perfectly fine to use one of those "intimate soaps" designed for vaginas. Yup, my doctor told me to use it and I have ever since. It works great. To really make it squeaky clean, after you shower get a little coconut oil (anti-fungal and anti-bacterial), mix it with a drop of zinc oxide ointment and spread that over your dick and balls.

Hahaha, keep asking and I might just upload them ? Yeah, guys getting spooked seems to be common enough (I'm talking regular dates, not service providers) . Not the first time it's happened to me and I hear plenty of others complain about it too. Anyways, he responded to my message yesterday. Looks like our relationship will be strictly professional going forward. I respect that but I'm a little sad and for now don't have any interest in hiring at all, not even other masseurs.

I'm always curious about the logistics of such an encounter (sorry, hahaha, it's just where my mind goes). Like, did you bring lube or just used spit? Also, very hot story, hehe, thanks for sharing !

Hahaha, thanks you guys! So as an update... It kinda breaks my heart doing this after all the cheers. But it looks like I've been ghosted. Messages from me to him are being read but remain unanswered. Oh well, I'm still glad I had the experience. So no Hallmark romcom! (yet, hehe) Yes I'm a little sad, even if I know that's sometimes how life goes.

Hmm, it's the first time I've heard it. It just tickles me to no end, hahaha ?

I'm tickled by his name. It is the Dutch word for clutter ?

We're nearly the same age, I'm 36 and he is 34. What's the campfire rule?

Well. He hit me up again. I responded saying I needed to save money but asked if he would be open to meeting up off the clock and without massage. The speed at which he replied in all caps "YES" took me by surprise. I spent the whole night there. It was amazing. Neither of us is looking to date (so it'll just stay casual) and I told him I still want to hire him for his masseur services. He told me that he would also like to have more off the clock dates, besides the massage sessions.

I'd be interested to know the name and Instagram of the model who's pictures he's using.

It would help a lot if you'd tell us where you are or which area you are looking to hire for instance NYC, LA,...

Hahaha, I work in a lab so my job has been unaffected. Honestly, I had half a mind of posting some pictures of myself here, were it not that it's such a hassle to do so (because I'd have to upload them elsewhere and then link back here). Hahahaha, omg, this had me howling! Thanks for the laugh Thank you so much for this very thoughtful response. It has been very helpful in helping me assess and adress the situation. I really, really appreciate it!! It helped me a lot! I don't know where you guys are getting this from. From the masseurs (the professionally trained who only offer masseur services) I have spoken to, they were unanimous that giving massages is way easier for them than sex. Because they can give a great massage to anyone, regardless of looks, whereas fucking someone they can't. Now, for guys who are mainly escorts and offer massage on the side, I would agree, but for guys who are masseurs who sometimes do more with clients, I have not found this to be true at all.

What happened to the tall Latino called Rodrigo that worked at Shangrila?

I don't think so, he has a full-time (non massage related) job that wasn't impacted by the lockdown. The massage business is something extra he does. I'm not looking to date him. I'm just bothered by the fact that he is scheduling me for something he wants instead of the other way round. Exactly, thank you for expressing it like that. He did change the dynamic and now I'm not sure how I feel about it.