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Yes, would love to hear about experiences

A friend of mine had a session with Max at Top Men Spa yesterday. He was completely satisfied with it. He said Max is just as described here: muscular, cute face and slight furry chest. He recommends booking Max! He booked Max based on the recommendations of this board so thanks to everyone who reports back!

Is Top Men Spa located at 224 W 35th St?

Rodrigo was an absolute gem. I'm so sad he's not there anymore. Does anyone know if he's at any of the other spas or working independently?

Oh gosh. Well at least he let you know upfront not to book him!

I did bring it up with him when he asked me at the end of the session if I could leave a positive review. He looked annoyed and said he could give me table massage for an hour next time with half an hour on the bed to make up for it (no mention of price though, so he might as well have upped it). I was not interested in repeating a mechanical massage. He was dismissive and irritated at me bringing it up (although props to him he did try to hide his irritation. You can tell when someone is forcing themselves to stay friendly.) A la carte was the wrong wording. He has tiers. He's an escort with professional massage training and he offers therapeutic massages to full sex sessions. His price is determined on what tier you want (therapeutic being the cheapest). But yeah, it really felt like he was phoning it in.

Yes but the massage was mechanical. I felt like he was thinking of what needed to be put on his grocery list while he was massaging me. Also the "extras" in this session weren't extras, they were all agreed upon beforehand and the fee was set accordingly by the masseur (he uses à la carte pricing). He didn't give me surprise extras that weren't already included in the price. If that were the case I might also have been more lenient. But I do have an issue with time, especially with massages. There really is no reason not to give the agreed upon time. I don't think we would be good clients either if we did not pay the full agreed upon price after the session.

I did complain, that's when he gave his justifications. The HE was part of the session, yes.

Exactly. I would have even been happy with just cuddles and maybe some kisses to fill the remaining time. But nope, I came, he got the tissues, threw on his pants and left the room. Thanks!! I really appreciate it! 😊😊

I don't think leaving a review on this site would be relevant. I hired him in Madrid. He only has the one profile on Planetromeo. But thanks for the suggestion, though! Thanks. And I booked a massage to pamper myself cause I've been having a really rough time lately. 🙁

Man, just had a massage. He had good technical skill but it was very mechanical and "going through the motions". It was so obvious he was thinking of other things I was unable to really enjoy myself. Then he cut the session short at 40 minutes (I had booked for an hour) and had the audacity to ask me to leave a positive review. Normally I don't say anything if it's a bad experience. I just take the loss and take my business elsewhere but because he explicitly asked I told him how I really felt and that that would be what I would say in the review. The usual justifications were offered by him "the session only goes until the client cums" and he only does "a full hour on the massage table, not on the bed". 🙄 (I always wonder at such justifications, how would they feel if I paid for less than an hour?) I was already feeling sad and now I'm more sad. Ugh. Anyway, I am going to leave an honest review.

Except that's not true for escorts. There is very few, if any, correlation between the rate and the quality of service. The experiences I've had with guys asking higher rates have not been good. There are exceptions of course. But with the influx of new guys getting into escorting, I've seen more and more escort profiles treating the escorting business like Grindr hookups (demanding to see pics of the client, discounts based on the client's appearance and age...) but just wanting to get paid for them.

Very true. It's why I'm always very hesitant when a provider has an above market rate. There is no guarantee.

I'd like to know too!

How'd it go?

To me apparently it is. As for feelings, I don't think so. There was four months between this session and the previous one. I said yes to this one cause I needed a stress release. In any case, the cutting short of sessions does seem to bother me enough to feel like it is an issue. I know there's men who don't mind getting kicked out after sex but I do, especially when I'm paying and there's still ample time left on the clock.

Did you bring it up to him? If you did, how did he respond?

That's the question, isn't it? Is the stress release and good sex worth the disrespect, disregard and feeling used by him? Sometimes I swing one way, sometimes the other.

Hahaha, thanks for the compliment! 😁😁 Oh no, I don't feel like you do that at all. I appreciate the lightheartedness and the empathy shown! It has actually helped. Hahaha, aaw, thanks! 😘 And thank you for your empathy, it's comforting to hear.

That's just the package he offers as standard. Not really sure how he came up with it. He's fairly new to the business.

In all the years I've hired I've always found either a good masseur who wouldn't escort or an escort who wasn't a good (or even trained) masseur. This guy has both, is good at sex and is physically completely my type. So not too sure I'll find one like him again quickly. It has been very helpful! It's like you crystillazed it down to its essentials. So thanks again! Oh and definitely about the timer thing. I'm letting that go. Just so disappointing. Yeah, I've been absolutely frazzled with stress lately because of life and after the date I could feel all that stress had been emptied out of my body so to then realize I would have to stop seeing him and lose such a stress release... Ooph. He's from France and speaks perfect English and has Brazilian roots and an artist (paint and wood) so we had quite a few connecting points. I just think he got stars in his eyes when he realized he could get paid to fuck a guy he was actually physically attracted to and forgot there was a person at the other end of his penis. He's very very new to the business and has only offered massage services. So I think he just sort of started treating me as a hookup because he lacked previous experience as a provider with clients. It was... He is really good at sex. Which just makes it even more disappointing, hahaha. Ugh fffffiiiiiiiiinnnneee 🤣🤣🤣

I love your write-ups. They are so concise and excellently recap the advice! Thanks! Yeah looks like he's over me after me mentioning the time hahaha. We'll see! But yes, I hope I won't cave next time he comes knocking. Why would I? Part of me still wants to delude myself apparently. It's... Well. Ugh. Anyway, why be jealous? All I'm left with is genuine disappointment and I also had a bit of a cry over it. (not just over this alone, but things have been piling up and he was an excellent stress release 😔 one of the very very few I have) Hahaha you'd have to come to Brussels. I think on first sessions he's amazing and for clients who stay purely massage clients probably also. I just think, given he's very new to the business and was never an escort, he got me mixed up with treating me as a hookup instead of as a client. Anyway, I'm going to put on sunglasses and a big scarf and wail on a bench in the park. Mourning over losing this hot piece of ass. Well, dick, cause he fucked my hot ass.

I let him know today and he flat out denied he ever cut a session short and said he has given me more than 70 minutes every single we've met... I must be misreading the timer on my phone 🤔 I'm really disappointed because I've had lots of fun with him before 😕

Oh wow, I've never heard that line of reasoning before. I let him know about the length of the sessions and he completely denies it. Says that he has the impression he always gives me more than 70 minutes... The timer on my phone disagrees.

This is such a good and insightful response, thank you! "but that's not what this is. He's wanting ass on demand and to also be paid." Absolutely, you took the words right out of my mouth. And yeah, I'm still sort of open to meeting him... The sex and massage (if he gives one) are incredibly good. I texted him to let him know I was disappointed he cut our sessions short. His answer? Telling me he gives me way more than 70 minutes each time. 😂 The timer on my phone disagrees 😂😂😂 (I ran a timer last time to make sure I wasn't making a mistake with the time) Yes, I feel like he didn't even appreciate my business as a client, just there to get my money. I told him about him cutting sessions short and he denies it. 🙄 Even though I had a timer running on my phone to make sure I wasn't imagining things...