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I was on the local high school quiz show that was televised in my hometown. But that was 30 years ago.

I’ve had them a few times while traveling. Nothing great. Would not recommend unless the providers specialize in that service. Even then, I’d it rarely lives up to the expectation in my experience.

I went a couple about eight years ago. I ordered massages and the guys pretended to give a massage for about five minutes before asking about up charges for extras. None of the ones that I found had the slightest intention of providing a full, one-hour massage. I got frustrated and left.

I’m a New Yorker so I always tip 20 to 30 percent. The weird thing is providers in New York are often surprised and appreciative that I tip, whereas providers overseas are often disappointed that I don’t tip more. Anyone else experience that?

The best providers (and porn actors) are gay and more than a little slutty in real life. They found a way to professionalize their lifestyle and get compensated for something they enjoy doing anyway. Truly straight providers are just in it for the money and generally crap in bed. It’s like going to a restaurant with a chef that doesn’t like to cook and is not interested in food. You may it something on your plate, but it’s not going to be as delicious as it would be if the chef actually enjoys what he does.

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For recreational rather than investment purposes. Do you go there it on weekends or seasonally? Do you use it and enjoy it as much as you thought you would? Or is it a money pit you regret? What issues have you had with maintenance, weather, security, etc. I’ve always fantasized about having a weekend house in the country, but it’s a huge commitment and would love to get other perspectives.

George James offers haircuts. I’ve seen him for facials and waxing, but haven’t had a haircut there. His studio is very private. I’m sure you could be naked if you wanted it be. https://www.georgejamesspa.com

I second George James. Super sweet guy and does a great job.

The only place that I’ve had an issue bringing a provider into a hotel room was Cartagena, Colombia.

I went in 2017 and stayed in the host hotel. It was very crowded and took forever to get up in the elevator, but it wasn’t nearly was wild as I was expecting. I’m not really into leather so I was just going for the playtime. I had heard that the hotel effectively turned into a bathhouse, but that was definitely not the case. I also went to a MAL-sponsored event at a real bathhouse while I was there. It was crowded, but nothing compared to a good night at Slammers in Fort Lauderdale. I got some action, but it was not the weekend of no-holds-barred debauchery that I was hoping for and never went back. It would be different if you’re into leather.

It’s a very high-rent area for a $70 massage. I’m skeptical.

Only if I’m in a resort hotel overseas and there are no other options.

I have experience as a volunteer doorman for cum dumps. I set up the group on Sniffies. It’s fun, but it takes a lot of work. There are so many ads and options in Manhattan that it’s hard to get guys to show up.

If you’re willing to connect by over shooting, look at business class on Philippine Airlines. I flew them earlier this year and the business class was decent and typically half the price of other airlines. They have no code share partners, but it’s an affordable way to get a lie-flat seat.

I only engage providers that are unashamedly gay, and I look for guys that are proud of (or at least at peace with) what they do. I also try and find guys that seem very sexual in their private lives.

In my experience and from watching videos online, a Tantric massage is a session that uses massage as foreplay, but it’s intended to end with penetration. Yes, they might talk about it in terms of Eastern spirituality, but in the end, it’s much more overtly sexual, then even an erotic massage. That being said, guys that specialize in their version of Tantric massage I find trulyenjoy bringing pleasure to men. You can set the limits and tell them how far you want to go, but it’s almost almost always better than a half-hearted happy ending from an ambivalent provider.

I found hiring providers for a threesome to be problematic. One might assume that they’d be excited to be compensated for hooking up with another hot guy, but that’s often not the case even if you inform them of the scenario beforehand. It’s best to look for guys that say they enjoy group play in their ads, or have a partnership with another provider.

Personally, I would rather get no reply than to have a guy say he’s not interested. Also, most guys on the apps are just killing time or jerking off. They were never serious about hooking up in the first place so you shouldn’t take it as rejection.

Not sure if this is the right place to post this. I’m looking for a cater-waiter or two for my legit (i.e., not looking for “extras”) holiday party in a couple of weeks. I have 50 or so guests and I’m doing all of the cooking. I need help serving drinks, refreshing the buffet, washing dishes, etc. I’m using real China, sterling silver, etc., so I need guys that know what they’re doing (i.e., not just pretty faces). I’ve used ModelBartenders.com in the past. Any suggestions are appreciated.

In Asia, many providers end every sentence with “dear.” It’s probably a cultural thing, but I find it off putting.

I’m versatile and like versatile guys. When I see an actor I like, I immediately search for scenes where he’s flipping. I think there are a few total tops or total bottoms in porn these days. Most of the guys that start out is total tops end up taking it up the ass on camera eventually. .

Interesting that so much seems to be bound up in shopping. I’ve never had an issue buying sex toys.

In addition to being a smart marketing move by providers, I think daddies are having a bit of a moment. I’m in my early 50s and get far more attention from guys in their 20s than I did when I was in my 20s.

I just got back from my trip and checked out the hotel and sauna for a night. The hotel had a huge number of straight people at the rooftop bar, including couples with strollers and small children. Not the vibe I was expecting. I’m curious to know if they realized there were 100 guys a few floors beneath them fucking each other bareback in the sauna. The hotel itself is a pretty basic, three star European hotel. Serviceable and in a great location, but not someplace I want to stay on an extended trip. The sauna is enormous. I think it has around 500 lockers. I was there on a Friday night during Oktoberfest, and while there were a lot of guys, it didn’t feel especially crowded. It’s so vast that if I had gone at a less busy time, it might’ve been hard to find people. The crowd was pretty mixed from 20 somethings up to 60 somethings. I’d say the average age was around 40. There was a lot of action in the private cabins and in the dark room areas, but not a lot of people playing in the light. I have a husband so I was mainly just looking to watch. I saw a few guys getting fucked over the five hours that I was there, but not as many as I was expecting. I’ve tried the food in the bistro and it was pretty decent. Much better than a typical sauna. As I was not hooking up, I decided to get a massage. The providers are not particularly attractive. My guy was a definite bear with a dad bod, and the only European working at that time. His technique was only so-so and he didn’t go anywhere near my dick or offer any extras. This made sense as there was so much sex going on on the other side of the door that offering it for a fee would’ve been superfluous. The massage room was scrupulously clean, however. I travel a lot and enjoy checking out bath houses in different cities. It’s not bad for an evening if you’re already in Munich, but it’s not someplace I choose to go back to in its own right.