theplayerking

I’ve had to be in Rome for work twice this year and am going back in September. I’ve found it to be a lame city for massages. Very few guys have tables. Most want to come to your hotel and massage on the bed, which is not enjoyable in my opinion if you’re actually interested in the massage. If anyone has tips on talented guys with technique and tables please share the info.

I tend to book at the last minute for the same day so I use a shotgun approach as most guys are not available on short notice.

Thinking about going in 2027. Has anyone been? Any tips?

The trick for the Taj Mahal is to go a dawn right when it opens. It’s the coolest part of the day and there are no crowds.

I love talking about sex and hearing about other guy’s adventures, which is one of the reasons I’m on this and similar sites. However I keep that side very sequestered. I only share with guys I know have similar interests.

I live on the UES and he was very accommodating for a last-minute appointment. Very strong hands and good technique. I didn’t ask for extras, but they were available. Nice guy in a very convenient location for me, will go back.

It’s faster to txt so it’s my preferred option, especially as so many providers take a while to respond.

Many providers avoid cumming unless you specifically request it ahead of time. Even then, when he say that it’s difficult for them to cum in the moment. If cum play is really important to you, you need to let him know and make sure he’s prepared. Maybe schedule the last appointment of the day.

I love sous vide cooking. I can make dinner for 60 in my small Manhattan kitchen using sous vide, one oven and sometimes a multi cooker.

“Nobody knows anybody. Not that well.” Miller’s Crossing

I was just in Rome and London for work and am going back in June. The Americans that vacation in Europe tend to be affluent and liberal. Europeans know this and don’t hold U.S. tourists responsible for the current geopolitical situation.

Agreed that you have to find the right provider, although there are some that advertise that they specialize is parties and groups.

I’ve never hired a female provider, but most male providers don’t ask for any information. I’ve never had one ask. I suspect it’s because women are inherently more vulnerable in this situation.

Lots of providers, even in New York and London, don’t respond. It’s just the nature of the business.

On the other hand, all providers engage in transactions with clients that they wouldn’t hook up with for free. He’s crass and obnoxious by being exclusionary on an app (and probably turning off guys that he would want to hookup with for free with his attitude), but not unusual.

I was briefly part of a group of professional guys on the Upper East Side that would meet up after work for cocktails and to fuck each other in a private apartment. That was before I started hiring, but it would have been fun to engage a fresh versatile guy each week to add a bit of variety.

I also recommend him. An incredibly sweet guy and a lot of fun.

I live in Manhattan and 100 percent agree on the AirTrain to the LIRR to Penn Station.

You need to look for providers that offer that particular service. I’ve found a lot of providers and not into groups and are more sexually conservative than one would imagine.

Either. Both.

I met up with one guy on here because we both happened to be visiting the same city overseas and were looking for someone to go cruising with. We went to a sex party together and traded notes on saunas in town, we didn’t hook up with each other. I often have private chats with guys on here for the more intimate details about providers or venues than are posted publicly, but I’ve never met with anyone else in person.

What if we take this to its logical conclusion? Say you hire a provider that is a total top. Is it reasonable to expect him to get fucked just because you’re paying? Does he have no autonomy or choice over what he does with his body? In the end, it’s a business transaction between two willing parties. If a provider has enough demand to be able to turn down business, that’s his choice. It’s obviously annoying, and painful to ones ego, but in that situation, I would just move on.

I’m versatile. When I breed a hole I almost always thrust through my ejaculation. I’m always been a bit skeptical of guys who say they can feel it in detail when a guy cums in his ass, because I’ve never actually felt it myself. I’m sure it’s possible, but so many factors have to align, such as the size of his cock, the tightness of your hole, your physical position, that I think it’s hard to plan for or recreate on a consistent basis.

Just ask him. He may assume that you don’t want his load or he may be saving his energy if he has more clients that day. If his dick is down your throat you’ve already crossed a line.

I stopped by yesterday afternoon. The crowd is definitely older. Not silver daddies, but guys in their 60s and 70s looking to play with each other. I got a massage. He was in an Iraqi and pretty cute, but his technique was indifferent. More of a rub down than a massage. i’m in the neighborhood a lot for work, but don’t think I’ll go back.