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I must admit, it’s really hot when I’m out cruising and a guy turns his baseball cap around and drops to his knees.

I agree that doing detailed due diligence and interviews on RM is probably the best solution. Searching for a secret society of providers that doesn’t want to be found is a fool’s errand. I know some providers that have professional careers in other industries, and only escort part-time for a little extra cash or even amusement. It just takes a lot of searching to find the right one and it’s easier if you’re in a major market.

You’re very lucky to have a partner that enjoys group sex.

Legit art class use models of all different body types. Not just the young and ripped.

This is going to sound very snobbish, but tailored menswear is almost always going a challenge for providers. The jackets and ties in these photos are just awful.

A porn star or someone on Only Fans, etc.

Some of us travel a lot for work and have more money than time. Some of us are a solid B in looks or body want to have fun with and A or A+. Some want a particular act or scenario that it’s easier to find with a provider. Some want to play with a content creator. Some are just bored and want to try something different or a little taboo.

I was on the local high school quiz show that was televised in my hometown. But that was 30 years ago.

I’ve had them a few times while traveling. Nothing great. Would not recommend unless the providers specialize in that service. Even then, I’d it rarely lives up to the expectation in my experience.

I went a couple about eight years ago. I ordered massages and the guys pretended to give a massage for about five minutes before asking about up charges for extras. None of the ones that I found had the slightest intention of providing a full, one-hour massage. I got frustrated and left.

I’m a New Yorker so I always tip 20 to 30 percent. The weird thing is providers in New York are often surprised and appreciative that I tip, whereas providers overseas are often disappointed that I don’t tip more. Anyone else experience that?

The best providers (and porn actors) are gay and more than a little slutty in real life. They found a way to professionalize their lifestyle and get compensated for something they enjoy doing anyway. Truly straight providers are just in it for the money and generally crap in bed. It’s like going to a restaurant with a chef that doesn’t like to cook and is not interested in food. You may it something on your plate, but it’s not going to be as delicious as it would be if the chef actually enjoys what he does.

Has anyone subscribed?

For recreational rather than investment purposes. Do you go there it on weekends or seasonally? Do you use it and enjoy it as much as you thought you would? Or is it a money pit you regret? What issues have you had with maintenance, weather, security, etc. I’ve always fantasized about having a weekend house in the country, but it’s a huge commitment and would love to get other perspectives.

George James offers haircuts. I’ve seen him for facials and waxing, but haven’t had a haircut there. His studio is very private. I’m sure you could be naked if you wanted it be. https://www.georgejamesspa.com

I second George James. Super sweet guy and does a great job.

The only place that I’ve had an issue bringing a provider into a hotel room was Cartagena, Colombia.

I went in 2017 and stayed in the host hotel. It was very crowded and took forever to get up in the elevator, but it wasn’t nearly was wild as I was expecting. I’m not really into leather so I was just going for the playtime. I had heard that the hotel effectively turned into a bathhouse, but that was definitely not the case. I also went to a MAL-sponsored event at a real bathhouse while I was there. It was crowded, but nothing compared to a good night at Slammers in Fort Lauderdale. I got some action, but it was not the weekend of no-holds-barred debauchery that I was hoping for and never went back. It would be different if you’re into leather.

It’s a very high-rent area for a $70 massage. I’m skeptical.

Only if I’m in a resort hotel overseas and there are no other options.

I have experience as a volunteer doorman for cum dumps. I set up the group on Sniffies. It’s fun, but it takes a lot of work. There are so many ads and options in Manhattan that it’s hard to get guys to show up.

If you’re willing to connect by over shooting, look at business class on Philippine Airlines. I flew them earlier this year and the business class was decent and typically half the price of other airlines. They have no code share partners, but it’s an affordable way to get a lie-flat seat.

I only engage providers that are unashamedly gay, and I look for guys that are proud of (or at least at peace with) what they do. I also try and find guys that seem very sexual in their private lives.

In my experience and from watching videos online, a Tantric massage is a session that uses massage as foreplay, but it’s intended to end with penetration. Yes, they might talk about it in terms of Eastern spirituality, but in the end, it’s much more overtly sexual, then even an erotic massage. That being said, guys that specialize in their version of Tantric massage I find trulyenjoy bringing pleasure to men. You can set the limits and tell them how far you want to go, but it’s almost almost always better than a half-hearted happy ending from an ambivalent provider.

I found hiring providers for a threesome to be problematic. One might assume that they’d be excited to be compensated for hooking up with another hot guy, but that’s often not the case even if you inform them of the scenario beforehand. It’s best to look for guys that say they enjoy group play in their ads, or have a partnership with another provider.