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+ smara got a reaction from Andy2 in Who is currently your favorite escort?
Yes indeed.............My favorite for years
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+ smara got a reaction from TruthBTold in RIP Guy Fawkes/daddy
Having been a frequent user of the information provided by many eloquent users here and the facilities provided by daddy, I wish to express thanks to all.
Thank you for your sincere and heartwarming insight into the man behind this site.
Pray that Daddy attain peace in heaven.
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+ smara got a reaction from Cooper in RIP Guy Fawkes/daddy
Having been a frequent user of the information provided by many eloquent users here and the facilities provided by daddy, I wish to express thanks to all.
Thank you for your sincere and heartwarming insight into the man behind this site.
Pray that Daddy attain peace in heaven.
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+ smara got a reaction from BabyBoomer in RIP Guy Fawkes/daddy
Having been a frequent user of the information provided by many eloquent users here and the facilities provided by daddy, I wish to express thanks to all.
Thank you for your sincere and heartwarming insight into the man behind this site.
Pray that Daddy attain peace in heaven.
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+ smara got a reaction from wayout in RIP Guy Fawkes/daddy
Having been a frequent user of the information provided by many eloquent users here and the facilities provided by daddy, I wish to express thanks to all.
Thank you for your sincere and heartwarming insight into the man behind this site.
Pray that Daddy attain peace in heaven.
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+ smara got a reaction from liubit in RIP Guy Fawkes/daddy
Having been a frequent user of the information provided by many eloquent users here and the facilities provided by daddy, I wish to express thanks to all.
Thank you for your sincere and heartwarming insight into the man behind this site.
Pray that Daddy attain peace in heaven.
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+ smara got a reaction from + kontor1 in RIP Guy Fawkes/daddy
Having been a frequent user of the information provided by many eloquent users here and the facilities provided by daddy, I wish to express thanks to all.
Thank you for your sincere and heartwarming insight into the man behind this site.
Pray that Daddy attain peace in heaven.
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+ smara got a reaction from + sync in RIP Guy Fawkes/daddy
Having been a frequent user of the information provided by many eloquent users here and the facilities provided by daddy, I wish to express thanks to all.
Thank you for your sincere and heartwarming insight into the man behind this site.
Pray that Daddy attain peace in heaven.
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+ smara reacted to + kontor1 in RIP Guy Fawkes/daddy
I have just seen this topic. I still don't want to believe it...
It was 2009, San Francisco, and my first ever review was published on Daddysreviews by a long-standing member here. I had no idea what this site was so I went to check it out and shortly after my cell phone rang. A gentleman introduced himself as "Daddy" and told me that my review got published on his website. He asked me a few non-intrusive questions that were geared towards finding out whether the money I make through this means is being invested for my future. Again, and I must emphasize this, he did that in the most non-intrusive way as one possibly could have. I felt that he just genuinely wanted to ensure that I am on the right path to creating financial independence for myself in the long run. We covered a few other aspects of the industry and he offered me a helping hand in case I ever needed a piece of advice.
Soon after my first published review came the second, third --- 20th, and 30th, and my business has exploded and I was full of quality inquiries. Surely, providing a great service doesn't hurt but without the ability for people to research their next "date" on a platform like his, how would anyone know about my abilities?
But business (while obviously in our lives is key) was truly NOT what Daddy was all about. He was in it to help people. Genuinely.
I had the pleasure to meet him on numerous occasions at a variety of restaurants and many times at his apartment in Las Vegas. We even met during the pandemic (the chair was waiting for me at the entrance to sit on) while he distanced himself from me by being in front of his computer on the other side of the apartment and we were both wearing masks. The "HOW" never really mattered, but every meeting with him was always highly insightful and entertaining.... and very genuine. Many of you probably didn't get the chance to truly know who was behind this nickname/website and I am very grateful that I had the pleasure of conducting more than just superficial chit-chats with him.
For those of you who don't know, he was a computer whiz and had incredible talents at forensics and used to be retained as a forensic expert in multi-billion dollar lawsuit cases back in the day. This speaks volumes of the in-depth knowledge he had about certain fields in computers.
Talking about talent, he used to be an escort himself (waaaaaaaaaaay) back in the day. He wasn't always overweight and was rather hot. He told me so many funny stories about providing services in LA/Beverly Hills to some of the Hollywood elites. They were extremely entertaining stories.
He never cared about the money. He went as far as to flat-out decline highly lucrative promotional/marketing/advertising offers if he disagreed with how the company conducted its business in the gay world, whether we are talking about advertising practices, treatment of others, or the mission the company stood for. He was a principles guy, yet - needless to say - non-judgmental.
Every time we talked - without an exception - he had his "routine" questions:
- Are you happy?
- Do you put a certain percentage of your money aside and invest it?
- Do you take time out to have fun and enjoy life too?
This should tell you about the type of person Bill was.
(With names redacted), he showed me all kinds of escort inquiries where the guys offered him free sessions in exchange for promotion/bad review removal/self-review postings. He NEVER abused his position and always maintained his integrity.
He was a big fan of Latin guys with muscles and cute butts. Who can blame him, right?! Yet... never ran out of compliments for me when we met.
We talked about a few side projects of his too. Some of you may not know, but a few years back he was running a website that was teaching the transgender community about proper accessorizing / makeup / wigs and how to start out. He was also running it on his own dime and received no compensation for it.
On my last in-person visit during COVID, we actually started discussing either a joint business venture or a certain promotional opportunity about a website that would have served as an extension of DaddysReviews. We have never finalized the details and sadly, that will not happen anymore. It would have been great to work with him I am sure.
I just want you gentlemen to understand how this person sacrificed most of his life to help our community. He never asked for anything in return and I know exactly how much of his life he sacrificed for others. He changed my life, and probably many of your lives I am certain or the very bottom line, his work made your life a little easier in this crazy world.
I hope that he is in a good place now, his contributions, his helping hand, his guidance, and the amount of care and love he put out for all of us will be remembered (at least by me) for a LIFETIME.
When @Cooper reached out to me, I was shocked to hear that I was probably the only person who knew his address. He was so loving, welcoming and open that I thought he kept company often times at his home. I also would like to take this opportunity to thank Cooper for taking immediate actions and for keeping everyone posted. I am so truly sorry it ended this way. :-(
THANK YOU BILL/DADDY/GUY FAWKES WITH ALL MY HEART! ❤
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+ smara got a reaction from mike carey in Who is currently your favorite escort?
Yes indeed.............My favorite for years
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+ smara reacted to PMWbird in Who is currently your favorite escort?
PeterHung is currently and has been my favorite escort for at least the last ten years. Very sweet guy who can be a little dominant if that is what you are looking for.
https://rentmen.eu/peterhung
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+ smara got a reaction from NikoLeto in Overnight
An overnight should definitely involve 6-7 hours of sleep for the entertainer & the entertained. Arrival at an an agreed time in evening; an hour of play & shower, 1.5 hours for dinner & conversation ; some lone time for the both should be included and desirable; an hour of play; cuddling & sleep for 6 to 7 hrs; wakeup and a morning play ; Breakfast & departure and of course I would think that any extra time spent beyond 12 hrs depends on the entertainer and extra tips will depend on the entertained. I think this is a realistic scenario for both.
Of course as others said earlier, a discussion and planning must be done prior to the appointment and an overnight is best with one whom you have seen once or more earlier
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+ smara got a reaction from + MysticMenace in Overnight
An overnight should definitely involve 6-7 hours of sleep for the entertainer & the entertained. Arrival at an an agreed time in evening; an hour of play & shower, 1.5 hours for dinner & conversation ; some lone time for the both should be included and desirable; an hour of play; cuddling & sleep for 6 to 7 hrs; wakeup and a morning play ; Breakfast & departure and of course I would think that any extra time spent beyond 12 hrs depends on the entertainer and extra tips will depend on the entertained. I think this is a realistic scenario for both.
Of course as others said earlier, a discussion and planning must be done prior to the appointment and an overnight is best with one whom you have seen once or more earlier
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+ smara got a reaction from HoseMaster in Overnight
An overnight should definitely involve 6-7 hours of sleep for the entertainer & the entertained. Arrival at an an agreed time in evening; an hour of play & shower, 1.5 hours for dinner & conversation ; some lone time for the both should be included and desirable; an hour of play; cuddling & sleep for 6 to 7 hrs; wakeup and a morning play ; Breakfast & departure and of course I would think that any extra time spent beyond 12 hrs depends on the entertainer and extra tips will depend on the entertained. I think this is a realistic scenario for both.
Of course as others said earlier, a discussion and planning must be done prior to the appointment and an overnight is best with one whom you have seen once or more earlier
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+ smara got a reaction from + BenjaminNicholas in Overnight
An overnight should definitely involve 6-7 hours of sleep for the entertainer & the entertained. Arrival at an an agreed time in evening; an hour of play & shower, 1.5 hours for dinner & conversation ; some lone time for the both should be included and desirable; an hour of play; cuddling & sleep for 6 to 7 hrs; wakeup and a morning play ; Breakfast & departure and of course I would think that any extra time spent beyond 12 hrs depends on the entertainer and extra tips will depend on the entertained. I think this is a realistic scenario for both.
Of course as others said earlier, a discussion and planning must be done prior to the appointment and an overnight is best with one whom you have seen once or more earlier
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+ smara reacted to + kontor1 in Overnight
First of all, I completely agree with every poster before me. Overnight is like Las Vegas = it is what you make out of it! ;-)
As previously written by others, it is your responsibility to articulate your needs and desires during a period of time you use to hire a companion. That way your companion can decide whether that is something he is willing to do or not. Discuss it in advance rather than have expectations that may not be met. It is completely up to the two of you to discuss what an overnight session is going to entail.
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+ smara got a reaction from HoseMaster in Are you expect to sleep well for an overnight service?
Wow!!!! I guess I have been spending a lot all these years with just a small fraction of the fun described here!!!!
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+ smara reacted to Todd Jenkins in Might be time to stop...
It may be time to stop the escort hobby..
Every time I finish with a visit or a weekend - like a trip I took with an escort this weekend – i feel empty. It just makes me feel like 'I am only good enough, worthy enough, because I am paying...not even worth affection without it being bought."
Just makes me feel EMPTY and it depresses me...
Anyone else?
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+ smara got a reaction from NikoLeto in Follow-Up when someone views your ad
I think most clients would not be offended if the provider replies with a simple "thank you for viewing my profile and please don't hesitate to contact me" reply just once and see where it goes.
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+ smara reacted to Palidod in Do I Need to Disclose My Race?
I am of an ethnicity that is generally considered less than desirable in the gay community. I've faced sexual and non-sexual racial discrimination on many occasions in my life. It doesn't feel great. This is one of the many reasons I considering hiring an escort. I want to be able to connect with men that normally would not give me the time of day because of my race.
However, I guess I am being naive in assuming a financial incentive would completely eliminate a person's racial bias. Would the escorts still go forward with your session with them regardless of your race? How do you navigate this?
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+ smara got a reaction from Rod Hagen in Follow-Up when someone views your ad
I think most clients would not be offended if the provider replies with a simple "thank you for viewing my profile and please don't hesitate to contact me" reply just once and see where it goes.
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+ smara got a reaction from Daverwr in Follow-Up when someone views your ad
I think most clients would not be offended if the provider replies with a simple "thank you for viewing my profile and please don't hesitate to contact me" reply just once and see where it goes.
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+ smara got a reaction from RealAvalon in Some Las Vegas casinos to re-open on June 4th.
https://www.reviewjournal.com/business/some-las-vegas-casino-workers-say-jobs-not-safe-as-resorts-reopen-2051371/
This report probably gives some idea about the situation in the casinos. Casinos do have a infrared thermal scan as we enter and they can give you mask (and gloves in some) if you request. However very rarely do guests use them in my observation and very few visitors here who can be seen walking outside on the strip seem to use masks. Though casinos have set up for people to play on only alternate slot machines, the aisles, staircases, etc are really not designed for social distancing and cannot be practiced. This is the true state of affairs and as is with most public places that are open one has to make personal adjustments adapting to the inevitable post-Corona-panic life. Human beings will adapt to the environment. After all we have (or still are) gone through so many pandemics and highly contagious diseases like the measles, smallpox etc and life goes on in spite of the horrific death of many people on this planet. Awareness, practice of maximum possible practically possible care (of self and others) and enjoying life (or what remains of it) as much as possible is all that we can do.
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+ smara reacted to BasketBaller in Two Down, One To Go
Thanks to those of you who sent PM's wishing me a Happy Father's Day, and several people asked for an update. I'm so sorry to have left you hanging!
The day Navy Twin read me the riot act, I went to my room to lie down and think. When his brothers got home, he told them about our talk, and they were non-plussed to find he'd done it without them (I suspect so he could tell me his concern about his older brother). I could hear the shower going for a while and lots of murmuring, then a knock on my door. In came Older Brother and DePaul Twin to ask how I was doing. They had indeed all talked about it, but were planning to talk to me together. I said it was a lot to think about but I couldn't really argue against it, and told them I would talk to my buddy and see how it went.
He and I talk a lot, and Skype often, so the next evening I called him and asked if we could videochat. (That has usually involved some, ahem, cyber sex). But once we were online I basically told him what NT had said, leaving out the opinion that he's in love with me-- that was for him to say if he wanted to. He was quiet and asked what I thought. For the second time I described my promiscuity as a teenager when I slept around but never really had a girlfriend, never "went steady," and how the only relationship I'd ever been in was with my wife. And I said I missed seeing him, not just for the sex. So while I didn't quite know what it meant, I'm open to making this more serious. He grinned and said, "Are you asking me to go steady?" And we both laughed as I said yes, I guess I am. He said let me think and I'll get back to you.
In about a half an hour I heard a lot of commotion from the boys. I went to see what was up, and they were all in the den with their phones or laptops. My friend had emailed each one individually to say he appreciated their thoughts. He said, and I'm paraphrasing, that he would always be honest with me, that he would never do anything to intentionally hurt me, and that he would never do anything to come between them and me. And he ended with "So I am asking your permission to court your father." DT had responded "Go for it." OB had said, "Of course you can." NT said, "Hell yes!"
Back to Skype, where we said okay, let's see where this goes. One thing, we're not sure what to call "this." We're in our 40s and both feel "boyfriend" is kind of silly, but there may be nothing better for now. DePaul Twin jokingly suggested "gentlemen friends" but that's a little too Tennessee Williams for me.
Since then we pretty much talk every day although we haven't been physically together for months. But we are still sharing more and more of our lives, and I think this is working. There's more to tell, including an issue I alluded to in the other thread, but I'll save that, for another day.
It's odd living in a house as one of four celibate (for now) men. Without getting too graphic let me say the issue in the house these days is not running out of toilet paper, but running out of Kleenex. Older Brother is truly miserable and spends a lot of time in his room with his laptop. Navy Twin talks with his gf every day, and DePaul Twin has a couple of friends-who-are-girls he keeps up with in Chicago. And, well, I guess I'm in a long-distance relationship even though he's just across town. Wish us all luck.