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I have two friends who I actually met through this site whom we discuss it but, outside of that, nobody else. Unfortunately the stigma of the “dirty disease riddled” sex worker still prevails in many minds. Interesting enough I’m Cuban and heard many tales of married men visiting brothels in Cuba as a very common occurrence with no judgements.

It just amazes me how the cliched saying "if it's too good to be true ..." never fully sinks into our psyche. There is a chance a 20something super-attractive guy genuinely likes and romantically loves a much older guy... but it is very slim. The person who lost 300k on a scam like this, I wonder if that kinda money was just a pocket change for him. If he has that much money, I wonder how he made his fortune if he is so gullible. May be he is a senior citizen not at the best of his wits. May be he just inherited it. Who knows! 
But then again, the so called crypto-bros and sophisticated investors lost millions into a scheme propped up by another young guy - SBF - who sits arrested in his parents' Palo Alto, CA home. So don't feel bad for yourself. We are a society that always falls for trickery and charm of our youngsters. 
By the way, Elizabeth Holmes - waiting for her sentence to begin -  also stays not too far from where SBF is at. She had the likes of former secretary of state George Shultz drawn into her scam.
 

Guys: For what it’s worth, here is a bigger-picture explanation for my apparently inexplicable lapse in judgement regarding Miguel Chorizo PR.  About a year ago I discovered Miguel and a few forum members said they had seen him and it was a positive experience. So I saw Miguel and it was an uber fun, sexy AF time. I mean, wow!! About 6 months after that, last June, I contacted Miguel for a second meetup. He said “Let’s have a phonecall!” So he charmed the hell out of me for 10 minutes on the call and texted me big dick pics to remind me what he (and his Anaconda-sized cock) looked like. At the end of the call he said “Hey papi, would you mind sending me a small deposit?” And I thought “Why not help this guy out? He’s proven himself to be legit.” So I wired him $100 of his $300 fee. The day before the meetup I texted him to confirm and got no reply. Texted again; no reply. Then again. I texted once more and said “Miguel, what’s going on, my friend? Please confirm our appt. I can’t come up to NY and have you not be there.” Radio silence. I was angry at this point because he had violated my trust and also because it was getting to be too late to line up another provider. I never heard from Miguel again, even after one more text to him asking him why in the world he had totally ruined things for a fucking lousy $100. In any case, I left for vacation the next day and chalked it up to misguided trust and temporary insanity on my part because, well…I know better. Totally mea culpa. But today I want to say that I am super sorry I didn’t warn you guys about Miguel before today. I forgot all about him until I spotted his ad on Rentmen yesterday. So for my negligence, I am very sorry. I think I’m very diligent about sharing information with you about my experiences with providers, both good and bad. In any case, I’ll make it a priority to provide that information in a more uber timely manner. Until then, as this has been a rather rough morning, I will be taking an extended break from the forum. Best wishes for a happy new year. 

I met a guy who worked in a popular club/bar who was a gogo/stripper. The guy was absolutely stunning. Beautiful, a body to do die for, abs of steel who just oozed sex appeal. To me he was irresistible. After seeing him many times in the bar we got together. He turned out to be a great companion. We had a lot in common and over time hung out, went to dinner, bars and hung out at my place. I was in lust. At the beginning it was muscle worship and oral. Over time it became much more finally leading to anal. Todays guys are much more sexual fluid. Yes he's straight not bi. Yes he was gay4 pay. It wasn't about being gay or straight it was about the connection and enjoyed hanging out. Nothing more nothing less.

Yes, between 2:00 & 3:00 am the place really starts filling up. One night the doorman had to unlock the door to let me out (I think it was getting close to 4:00).

I’ve seen the same in the regular bars like you in FTL. Maybe these are guys that “ party-n-play” way too much and it’s showing and taking it’s toll. I guess the older companions are their sugar daddy’s that like guys like that - who knows. 

I get messages at least once a week on Grindr from an account with a photo of an attractive Asian man who is "looking for a relationship."
I always just tell whomever is sending me these messages that I'm not gay, I just like fucking guys and that always ends the conversation. 😂

I hate to "blame the victim," but how naive does someone have to be to start sending money -- especially significant amounts of money -- to someone he's never met?
I get lots of bogus messages on A4A.  My rules are basically this: a) not much info in profile? delete. b) not in my area and no indication they plan to be in my area? delete. c) say they are somewhere near me but the location indicates they are thousands of miles away. delete. d) nothing very personal in first message that would indicate why they liked my profile and decided to message me. delete. e) a photo or two of someone young enough to be my grandson who gushes over my attractiveness. delete.  Maybe I accidentally delete a sincere message by having these standards, but I doubt it.

Boardwalk turns into a late night club after a Johnson’s closes.  Dancers from all over including Miami show up. There can be very nice muscular guys working.  They can be very playful at the bar.  The Lapdance area does have a $30 fee to the house each time you go, not just the first time.   That area is very private.  Lately, there have been more than a few dancers on Thur, Fri, Sat that fit what you are looking for.  😉 

I used to think that when I had spent more on a lap dancer than I would have on an escort, then I had spent too much.

Wait…. You a dancer there?! 😝 

Maybe he gave the KFC to get some KFC - symmetry.

I was at Johnson’s last night and all the above is 100% accurate. Be careful with alcohol and dances cause you can easily rack over $100! 😆 Been there done that!

Besides the KFC reference 😆 I’m in Miami thanks for the 411 not to hire that guy!

Besides the KFC reference 😆 I’m in Miami thanks for the 411 not to hire that guy!

Besides the KFC reference 😆 I’m in Miami thanks for the 411 not to hire that guy!

Besides the KFC reference 😆 I’m in Miami thanks for the 411 not to hire that guy!

This blue-balling happens in NYC too. You patiently wait for the dancer of your choice to free up from the whales who are on a power trip and hope you can catch them when they need to use the restroom or get a smoke. Ambush it is - for lesser mortals.

Or at home with their wives, girlfriends and/or children.

One thing for certain, dudes play a shit ton of games. I can’t say how many times I’ve met someone and everything was fine, and then afterwards they start acting weird for no reason. 
 
However in this case, it’s hard to tell. It does sound like a rude game to play, and if the person comes around again I wouldn’t entertain. 

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