nycbystander
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nycbystander got a reaction from + azdr0710 in Santoxxl in NYC...?
and now his ad is gone, looks like RM has been scrubbed clean, he was on my BuddyList was hoping to schedule over the long weekend coming up
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nycbystander got a reaction from Decatur Guy in 411 on Classic Colt in NYC
Colt is tremenedous, have only had two meetings, both seriously memorable and on top of everything else good about him, a truly nice guy
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nycbystander got a reaction from NYXboy in Advice Needed Regarding An Aborted Appointment with an Escort in San Francisco
You should have paid him the full fee before you left. His only asset is time. Time he committed to you he could not commit to another client, therefore he may have forgone income to accomodate you. Really bad manners on your part.
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nycbystander got a reaction from GossipSummary in 411 on MasterBossDadSir
Hmm, looks hot from the availbale public pics. Only a member since May 28 so no reviews not surprising. Worth further consideration, but always cautious with Doms without reviews, albeit in this case good reason.
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nycbystander reacted to pubic_assistance in Former massive bbuilder, jet pilot and "provider" Tony Maxim has died
I think some people dislike having truth thrown in their face like this ...but truth teaches lessons. Flowery Obits don't. I see no reason for shaming a person for exposing a truth in this manner.
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nycbystander reacted to BuffaloKyle in Why say verse top when you are just a top - Alanbigbig
He could also mean when he posts vers/top that he's open to having his ass rimmed and played with a bit that way but not into anal. Just gotta ask!
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nycbystander got a reaction from JTtorretto in Advice Needed Regarding An Aborted Appointment with an Escort in San Francisco
You should have paid him the full fee before you left. His only asset is time. Time he committed to you he could not commit to another client, therefore he may have forgone income to accomodate you. Really bad manners on your part.
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nycbystander reacted to RamPoundAss in TEN Consecutive Overnights with Lance A. Lot
Oh goody, I hope this thread has equal amounts of fiction as the other. 😅
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nycbystander reacted to buttlvr99 in 411 on Joediesel
Met him over 20 years ago and agree with what’s been said by others, indifferent to rude and mechanical.
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nycbystander got a reaction from Luv2play in Big Jake NYC
The ad copy is fine, I daresay most of the members here if posting an ad in this provider's native language would do a far worse job, if they clould do it at all.
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nycbystander got a reaction from musclestuduws in Big Jake NYC
The ad copy is fine, I daresay most of the members here if posting an ad in this provider's native language would do a far worse job, if they clould do it at all.
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nycbystander got a reaction from + azdr0710 in Advice Needed Regarding An Aborted Appointment with an Escort in San Francisco
You should have paid him the full fee before you left. His only asset is time. Time he committed to you he could not commit to another client, therefore he may have forgone income to accomodate you. Really bad manners on your part.
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nycbystander got a reaction from thomas in Contacting Provider for Non-Appointment Question
Got it. " When in doubt ... don't"
Thanks guys !
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nycbystander got a reaction from Marc in Calif in Advice Needed Regarding An Aborted Appointment with an Escort in San Francisco
You should have paid him the full fee before you left. His only asset is time. Time he committed to you he could not commit to another client, therefore he may have forgone income to accomodate you. Really bad manners on your part.
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nycbystander got a reaction from sbguy in Advice Needed Regarding An Aborted Appointment with an Escort in San Francisco
You should have paid him the full fee before you left. His only asset is time. Time he committed to you he could not commit to another client, therefore he may have forgone income to accomodate you. Really bad manners on your part.
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nycbystander got a reaction from + nycman in Advice Needed Regarding An Aborted Appointment with an Escort in San Francisco
You should have paid him the full fee before you left. His only asset is time. Time he committed to you he could not commit to another client, therefore he may have forgone income to accomodate you. Really bad manners on your part.
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nycbystander got a reaction from tennisjock in Advice Needed Regarding An Aborted Appointment with an Escort in San Francisco
You should have paid him the full fee before you left. His only asset is time. Time he committed to you he could not commit to another client, therefore he may have forgone income to accomodate you. Really bad manners on your part.
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nycbystander reacted to BaronArtz in Advice Needed Regarding An Aborted Appointment with an Escort in San Francisco
I have a very dissenting view on this.
For $200 in SF, what were you expecting? A suite at the Four Seasons?
Some of the hottest sex I ever had was with sculpted guys in 'Bohemian' apartments in NYC. Are you there to fuck, or to have a critical review of the wallpaper?
I think you missed an amazing opportunity.
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nycbystander reacted to + purplekow in Advice Needed Regarding An Aborted Appointment with an Escort in San Francisco
It seems he does not want the money. If you want to make one more try, you could go to his place and put the money under his door. From the condition of his apartment, he may not find it any time soon, but in any case, you would have made the effort.
I must admit, I do not think clutter would have bothered me to the extent that it bothered you , enough so to turn down a freebie. . He did seem more than ready and able to hold up his end of the deal, so paying him before you left would have been the appropriate thing to do. It might have been a bit bold but you might have suggested that the disarray in his apartment is distracting to you and if he wanted to complete the entire deal, he could return with you to your hotel.
You have every right to feel that you did not do right by him. But as others have said, he has the right to refuse to give you a way to buy a clean conscious, apparently that is a mess with which he wants you to live.
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nycbystander got a reaction from thejsmith71 in 411 on MasterBossDadSir
Hmm, looks hot from the availbale public pics. Only a member since May 28 so no reviews not surprising. Worth further consideration, but always cautious with Doms without reviews, albeit in this case good reason.
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nycbystander reacted to Whitman in What a load!
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nycbystander reacted to Whitman in What a load!
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nycbystander reacted to pubic_assistance in 411 BrunoSmooth - NYC
Interesting he's taken the name Bruno as his face DOES resemble Sacha Baron-Cohen
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nycbystander got a reaction from Jarrod_Uncut in SexyAddition NYC: Today’s Fake Ad
Was thinking the same, no way is the man in those pictures that height and weight combo