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    wDarling got a reaction from Spiritualadvisor in Spas in NYC   
    Ha, I was actually thinking the lack of privacy was a bonus and was planning on going soon. Would sound hot to hear other people next to me.
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    wDarling got a reaction from RBENJI in Spas in NYC   
    Ha, I was actually thinking the lack of privacy was a bonus and was planning on going soon. Would sound hot to hear other people next to me.
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    wDarling got a reaction from Redwine56 in Alpha Men’s Spa (NYC)   
    That’s the thing, I feel like anything above $60/$65 for an hour at a spa gets too close to the price of a private masseur when you factor in tip. The spas are more of a gamble since there’s less info on the masseurs, so it helps if the price is a bit lower.
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    wDarling got a reaction from RBENJI in Alpha Men’s Spa (NYC)   
    That’s the thing, I feel like anything above $60/$65 for an hour at a spa gets too close to the price of a private masseur when you factor in tip. The spas are more of a gamble since there’s less info on the masseurs, so it helps if the price is a bit lower.
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    wDarling got a reaction from Hathor in Alpha Men’s Spa (NYC)   
    The prices are much better. I’d give them a shot if I had more info on the guys that are there.
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    wDarling got a reaction from Redwine56 in 411 on Jason in NYC   
    Photos are definitely of the guy from TSMS. I think reviews here were mixed but I had a really great experience with him (probably my best from all the spas). He’s really sexy. Seems to be outcall only, though?
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    wDarling got a reaction from Lfeegrin in 411 on Jorge_M in NYC   
    I saw him a little while ago and his massage was decent, but had some hygiene issues. He looked like he had just woken up and feet smelled like they were in smelly sneakers all day. Any time he massaged by my head I could smell his feet and it was an instant turn-off.
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    wDarling got a reaction from CheckCar in 411 on Jorge_M in NYC   
    I saw him a little while ago and his massage was decent, but had some hygiene issues. He looked like he had just woken up and feet smelled like they were in smelly sneakers all day. Any time he massaged by my head I could smell his feet and it was an instant turn-off.
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    wDarling got a reaction from Danny-Darko in Have you ever seen an escort you’ve hired on TV or in a movie?   
    One time I was hooking up with a guy at my gym showers and he kept telling me he can’t come, but I was confused about the way he said it. Like he didn’t just give me a no to letting me suck his dick, he let me blow him but then would stop me to say he can’t come when he was close. I thought maybe he was on the DL and in a relationship but it didn’t make sense that he’d let me get so far. And he sucked me off too.
     
    So then a few days later literally one of the first porn videos I watched had him in it. And I saw on his Instagram that he was in town to shoot another video. So he couldn’t come because he needed to save his load...
     
    (Sorry I guess this was slightly off topic since I didn’t hire him as an escort, but he could be one too...)
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    wDarling reacted to + poolboy48220 in Best open showers NYC   
    The gym I attended years ago had solo shower stalls with curtains, but lots of guys left the curtains half open. One Sunday afternoon I was at my locker getting ready to shower (and full disclosure, check out the action in the steam room) and a hot guy was eyeing me from inside his shower, he moved his head in a "come on in" gesture. I slipped in unnoticed and sucked him off.
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    wDarling got a reaction from Chad Constantine in 411 on spa 27   
    Anyone try Justin or Zaid at 27 Men Spa? They’re on this week’s schedule.
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    wDarling reacted to ceej in Massages that unexpectedly turned into something more   
    I'll file this as "sort of unexpected after the first time"...
     
    I got a recommendation from a fellow forum member on a guy who used to be at a local spa that caters mostly to guys and has a male massage team (located in one of the city's gay neighborhoods), but is a legit spa. My friend heard that masseur that he had some action with, but was likely a very YMMV situation, was somewhere out in the burbs now, so since I'm in the burbs, I decided to investigate. I found the masseur at a normal spa (hair, nails, etc) not too far off the path between home and work. Booked an appointment, and the first massage was a solid technical massage, with not even a hint of anything more. Although when I was saying good by, I glanced down and spotted a pretty decent bulge on the guy, and he may have noticed!
     
    A month went by, and my shoulder/back were pretty sore and tight, so decided to go back in, expecting just a good massage. First half was pretty normal has he hit my back and legs, maybe a little more glute work that the first meeting. but as he started to work up to my shoulder again, his leg was definitely pressed against me arm, that was hanging to the side. As he sort of worked around the top of the table to my other shoulder, I felt him press against my other arm, and it definitely wasn't his leg I felt. I have to admit, I was excited, but also pretty nervous in the setting. My heart was pounding as it all sort of started to register.
     
    He kept the (good) massage going working my shoulders and back, but now his hands were sliding under the draping to my ass cheeks frequently until his hands were sliding right into my crack and against my hole. As he was transitioning down to my legs, I felt him take the sheet from my feet and slide it down the length of me so i was totally undraping. The feeling of that sheet sliding down me was so hot. from there, he continued to do leg work, sliding up to my ass. At one point, he positioned one leg so the sole of my foot was against the opposite knee, sort of a 4 shape. from there, he had clear access to my balls and ass, even sliding under to my rock hard dick. He did that routine on both sides, really giving a full massage that had become extremely erotic. Just as I thought he was wrapping up my legs, I felt him bury his scruffy face between my cheeks. He rimmed me like a champ, and you can tell he loves doing it. Finally he said, "let's flip you over."
     
    I did, naked and rock hard, obviously. He was too...at some point he had slid out of his clothes! Handsome, hairy guy...not a muscle bod by any stretch, more of an everyday build (but I dig the guy next door vibe more). From there, he massaged my legs a bit more, stroking my cock and eventually leaning over and sucking it. I eventually busted a huge load, and then reached over and stroked his dick until he shot a hot load, first clear across the table (and me), and the rest all over my chest.
     
    I saw him a few more times before lockdown. He's left that spa, but my eyes are definitely open to see where he pops back up when we're all through this!
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    wDarling got a reaction from urbanfetish in Anyone else not seeing contsct numbers on MF?   
    Were you looking on the site after midnight? They hide them at that time, then they come back at some point in the morning.
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    wDarling got a reaction from DirtyHarry in Why Not and Hey Man recommendations?   
    Any recommendations for guys at WhyNot and HeyMan in the West Village?
     
    It’s hard to search for them on here since their names are three letters (and the forum software doesn’t let you search for phrases using quotes).
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    wDarling got a reaction from Tallguy38 in 411 on PaoloNYC   
    Anyone try him? https://www.rentmasseur.com/PaoloNYC
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    wDarling got a reaction from Tallguy38 in Spas in NYC   
    Maybe I’m misinterpreting what you mean by “spa” in quotes, but if you believe that massages need to be above $80/hour then you’re missing out on a lot of good Chinese-owned places that charge $45-55/hour (maybe the employees aren’t officially licensed, but there are a lot that are well-trained).
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    wDarling got a reaction from + Benhby in Spas in NYC   
    Maybe I’m misinterpreting what you mean by “spa” in quotes, but if you believe that massages need to be above $80/hour then you’re missing out on a lot of good Chinese-owned places that charge $45-55/hour (maybe the employees aren’t officially licensed, but there are a lot that are well-trained).
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    wDarling got a reaction from Redwine56 in Spas in NYC   
    Maybe I’m misinterpreting what you mean by “spa” in quotes, but if you believe that massages need to be above $80/hour then you’re missing out on a lot of good Chinese-owned places that charge $45-55/hour (maybe the employees aren’t officially licensed, but there are a lot that are well-trained).
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    wDarling reacted to Typical in #WTH   
    Putting everything else aside....I would say this to anyone. Be very careful what you write to unknown persons in a text.
     
    You have no idea to whom you are writing or what they might do with it.
     
    Cheers.
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    wDarling reacted to Typical in #WTH   
    From this post I gather you probably write too much. You may share too much superfluous information and ask a lot of questions.
     
    People who are not your family or friends just want the immediate and relevant information to the situation at hand. A few long texts about this, that and the other can annoy. Maybe it's a southern thing? But if this person is not from the south that level of verbosity can come across as particularly odd.
     
    I'm told that massage therapists deal with a lot of folks who get off just texting them about "what will happen". These potential 'clients' have absolutely no intention of making appointments. The discussion itself is their fetish. I'm sure that is tiresome and it accounts for those who cut off communications at a certain point.
     
    Anyway, short and to the point generally leads to successful relationships. More than two texts of a couple sentences is probably going sideways.
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    wDarling got a reaction from urbanfetish in Spas in NYC   
    I saw Nick recently (at 27 Men) and it was a shorter Asian guy. Kind of average looking, average body, not particularly muscular. But his actual massage skills were really good. I would repeat for that.
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    wDarling reacted to BuddyWorker in Massage in NYC during Phase 4+   
    Here is the list of my massage forays during Phase 4+ here in NYC. I am not delusional. I know that in any of these adventures, I may get COVID. I just try to minimize my risks by choosing NYC masseurs and not go to masseurs who are traveling or who have just traveled from NYC DOH restricted states. Again, these are my experiences and I cannot guarantee that this will be the same for you. I tried to write about the details in my massage experiences that I believe will most likely happen to anyone who books a 90min session with the masseurs below.
     
    MARC
    https://rentmasseur.com/MassagedByMarc
    I went to see him at his place in Harlem. He is a very nice guy. He definitely looked like his photos. He just had a birthday so the living room still had decorations. Thank god that he has a dedicated space for the massage. You’re both not masked. He has a comfortable table and he was nude from the get go. This guy’s body is smooth. He used good Swedish techniques with some stretching but definitely self-taught. I would probably go back. MT and HE. No upsell.
     
    ALEX
    https://rentmasseur.com/AlexV
    I saw Alex at his place. He actually looked much younger than his photos. I was actually surprised and he appeared normal. I honestly expected him to be quirky (due to the weird photo poses) but he was just that - normal He works in a large shared apartment in Harlem which is clean and neat. You’re both not masked. He had a table and he was wearing his underwear when we started but kinda took them off 5 minutes in - maybe it was hot He was quite good with a mix of sensual light touches - almost like caresses really) and then some Swedish kneading. He is most likely self-taught. His body is slim and tight. MT and HE and no upsell. I would probably go back.
     
    RICO
    https://rentmasseur.com/RicoNY
    This guy is HOT! When you contact him, he texts you the various services and the corresponding fee. I decided to go for the sensual one - there’s the therapeutic and the more expensive erotic. He also requests for a Venmo deposit which may be a deal breaker for some. His place is quite nice and the opportunity to shower beforehand (actually a prerequisite) is refreshing. You’re both not masked. He uses Swedish techniques primarily on a table. He was nude from the start. His body is pretty muscular and smooth. Nice d and a. After our session, I got the chance to shower again. Afterwards, I asked him how different my experience would have been if I chose the erotics one and he said it will be more intimate and more body contact. I dunno, but our session was already pretty intimate so I guess I should come back to find out what he means by “intimate”. MT and HE and since his rates are tiered, there’s no upsell. I would definitely go back.
     
    PHIL
    https://rentmasseur.com/MassageProLmt
    Phil is a keeper. He is actually someone who would be a good person to see if you are planning your first massage during this pandemic. He is masked and so are you. He works from a. Small apartment but it was clean and neat. He works on a table and has single-use coverings. His techniques are very good - spa quality. His rates are actually quite low for the kind of massage quality you’re getting. He may not have the best physique, but he is cute and really is a nice guy. He only advertises as therapeutic but then things do happen. Not that I’m complaining I would go back.
     
    DANTE
    https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/40477/
    Now this guy was such a surprise. He already looks cute in his pictures but he is so adorable in person. Tall, dark and handsome and from Paraguay. He just moved to his new place in the UES. He has a neat shared apartment but his own table set-up in his room. He uses a table. You are both not masked. He has very good techniques and also massaged me in his underwear and then not ?. His body is pretty toned and smooth. He is very sexy and a nice guy which I found very appealing. We are both cyclists so it’s great to chat afterwards. MT and HE. No upsell. I would definitely go back.
     
    CHRIS
    https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/40287/
    This guy is totally therapeutic. But his techniques are very Thai massage-based which I love. He works on a mat and you’re both masked and you’re both wearing gym clothes. He asks you to bring them during the appointment. He is very nice and friendly. He shares the space in West Harlem with housemates but has his own space in the living room to do his sessions. I love chatting with him as he twists and bends you. Really good post-workout. No MT or HE. I would go back.
     
    JASON
    https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/39901/
    Jason is a very nice guy. He also needs better pictures on his website. As someone who has been a model in LA, his picture online are crappy. He is definitely much much better looking in person. He has a very hot defined body and is much leaner than his photos which honestly suits him better. He works from a table as pictured in his ad. It is a bit misleading since the place is small and a bit cluttered when I was there. It kinda looked liked my room when I was in university. ? He starts out in his underwear but those came off quickly. Did I say he was sexy? He is thicc. His techniques are excellent. He uses deep tissue techniques and my god they were awesome. My muscles were sore after a workout so the release was great from the deep tissue muscle manipulation. Someone in the forum said that he used to escort, I would just say, it showed! I would definitely go back. MT and HE and no upsell.
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    wDarling got a reaction from marylander1940 in 411 on PaoloNYC   
    Anyone try him? https://www.rentmasseur.com/PaoloNYC
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    wDarling got a reaction from ontheroad in I FUCKING HATE RM Staff   
    Why don’t you just see the masseur again, contacting him through RM like they expect you to, and then give an updated review of both encounters?
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    wDarling got a reaction from + Lucky in The Bathhouse in Williamsburg   
    Interesting that they have working dry saunas, although they only allow “one party at a time”. Overall facilities seem to be pretty restricted in terms of how many people are allowed in certain places (which makes sense). Seems like at this point it’s better for someone who wants to go with a partner or small group of friends than to meet someone.
     
    Also it would be better if they had same-gender hours. Most of the Yelp reviews are by women.
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