mike carey

I know, that was why I said that I 'didn't say that'. I was hoping someone would comment, thank you!!

That, I had already deduced. I am happy that you have confirmed it.

I think my comment about Nashville may have been misunderstood as unfamiliarity, although I have yet to take in its attractions first hand.

The LIRR from Jamaica station to Penn Station is pretty much the same as the NJ Transit train from EWR. Certainly not the workout of taking the subway. I travel with one suitcase, so I can't speak for the decision process with more than one. Or for options other than the train.

Okay, that makes sense. That's what I meant when I included that comment about Cabo in my first reply.

Others will chime in, I'm sure, but here's my take. The first time is always an experiment, and that applies whether it's the first escort you've hired or the umpteenth. On a first meeting you have to work out whether even the idea of hiring an escort is something you are ready for when it becomes a reality not an abstract idea. Hiring for a vacation is a separate minefield. The dynamics are different than for one or even several hours. Clicking for a short time is different to being able to spend two, three or more days with someone. Even an overnight meeting 'feels' different to a couple of hours. Multiple days is another level. You need to negotiate boundaries, down time, meals, whether you socialise outside your room. You can jump right in if you want, but you need to consider how the whole experience will work, including the mundane details not just the excitement of the idea or the occasion.

To start with, I would suggest separating 'vacation' and 'first time'. Firmly and decisively. You don't want to take your first hire on a vacation. Of course, if you're asking how to negotiate the experience with a provider from those available while you're at your resort at Cabo, that's a different question.

By hiring a breathless 'influencer' and installing tastefully appropriate lighting. Perhaps more gold leaf. Edited: Note, I didn't say a vacuous influencer.

An interesting thing to say about someone who is based in Austin, a city which, I understand has a certain reputation related to music, but which isn't seen for that alone. I make not comment on whether Nashville has claims to fame for things other than music. I wonder whether 'real music city' is intended to convey 'real music' city or real 'music city'.

Here's am old thread.

When someone in Accounts Payable is talking about you, you know your number's up.

To clarify any confusion in this thread, I merged a new thread posted today with an existing thread about Adam (the one that used that stage name) and changed the thread title. One of the cross references above is now circular.

And the text of his ad says he's in Charlotte. Thus we illustrate the difficulties posting a city in the title can cause ...

Gentlemen, this is always been something of an interesting if sometimes contentious topic, and as is always the case when it's discussed this has been and remains an interesting thread. It's also illustrated that there are reasons why posting the city is useful but that the practicalities of maintaining accuracy are not simple. Escorts move between cities, some relocating, some travelling. Their RM ads show as 'current location' what they set it as, not a permanent home base (and they change it, for example, to optimise search results). In an ideal world, references to cities would be kept up to date, but we're not in an ideal world. Moderators will tend not to update titles proactively, but will make some, but infrequent changes. For example, if we combine two or more threads about an escort we will make a judgment call about which title to retain or whether to update it to something more appropriate. Pinning this thread would imply that it represented a forum policy, and while posting a city is useful, it's not a policy to require it. OPs can change a title at any time, the moderators will change them when we see it as necessary, but sparingly. If you think it's necessary, post it in threads you create. Revisiting this thread periodically sparks the discussion afresh and may convince some members anew of the benefits of the practice.